Continuing with what I said on the first part, she does have some good qualities. Unfortunately I feel that the negatives are beginning to outweigh the positive. To be fair let me tell you a little about me. I like straight forward answers. I consider my self to be a worry-free person, she worries alot. I like to dive in. I dont like to watch life from the edge of the pool. I feel a spirit of creativeness about me. Overall I am a little rough in attitude but with a positive view of life. I cant stand negativism. Please answer my question for I have many more questions that I believe you might like to read and answer. Nothing I have written has been made up.
2007-07-12 18:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is your wife aware of how you are feeling? You say you like straightforward answers but I sense that you haven't been straight with her. Is there a chance that your marriage is worth saving through counseling? Would your wife be willing to attend therapy? Would you be willing to attend therapy?
It's easy to walk away, anyone can do that. But this is your marriage and if it fails it would be because of both of you. This failure will stay with you for the remainder of your life.
Good Luck with your decisions.
2007-07-12 19:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you got married she is a part of you and to divorce you lose a part of you.Besides if you divorce you will either live alone for the rest of your life,marry again and stay married or marry again and again and again
She is a part of you whether you like it or not concentrate on why you married her instead of why you should divorce her.
2007-07-12 18:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by wkemrer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's time to split up. You don't seem to share common goals or lifestyles or approaches to life.
You mind is halfway to being with someone else, already. Good luck.
2007-07-12 18:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question sounded ok but towards the end you kind of made it obvious that it's manufactured...come on man just be hones with yourself, why ask these questions?
2007-07-12 18:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Orazali A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the relationship is over dont stay its not worth it realy think about how you want to live the rest of your life.Now think about you will live your life if you stay.
2007-07-12 18:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by kwelch19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro , did we marry the same goddamn woman.Again i say yes to divorce.i am only thirty one and dont know if i will see fourty.My heart races from stress always . i almost cant relax anymore just being in her presence.
2007-07-12 19:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by shinzenwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
differences in you both. my opion?
2007-07-12 18:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do admit that you are difficult yourself.I guess you two are very different???????????????????????????
2007-07-12 18:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋