My childs mother moved to another state (since returned) and was married.She has told me that my son was adopted by her husband,claiming to the courts that I had decesed.Could she have actually gotten away with this and how can I find out?
2007-07-15 14:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by joseph t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get a lawyer immediately, and let him know what's going on. The only way she could get away with this is if she had a death certificate which she must have made one up or she is lying to you. I think you need to go to court to petition custody of your child. Get a paternity test done, and take this witch to court. Sue her also for distress. she can't get away with what she has done, and you have rights. You didn't sign your child away, so don't let her get away with this anymore. Find out where she lives, and get her served asap, before she skips town again. Don't let her know what you are up to until you and your lawyer are ready to take action. Good Luck. If you can't afford a lawyer then google some things that can help you get a lawyer at no cost.
2007-07-15 14:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you paying child support? If so then there is no court in the land that will allow her to let another man adopt your child (I know I have been through this) You can call your local child support enforcment office. Call the court house that she was living in. And get a lawyer.
I also agree with what Sweet said.
2007-07-15 14:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you know where they lived before moving back? do you have his full name? i think with that info you should be able to find out. you'll need a laywer though. they won't give this info to just some guy walking in off the street. if she's telling the truth, and they told the courts you were deceased, the adoption isn't legal anyway.
2007-07-15 14:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the court where she lives and get the info. she said you were dead, so she had to defraud the courts with a fake death certificate.
you have a lawsuit and a half against this pig and you can get full custody when she is put in jail for fraud. if he adopted the kid, you're off the hook for child support.
2007-07-15 14:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look up the court records for that area. Some of these things are public record. If not then file a missing child report or sometimes its called a parental abduction.
2007-07-15 14:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if thats the case, she commited fraud. The courts however, to do this, would needto see proof of ur death. So chances are, she's trying to get u to leave them alone and she's hoping that that lie willdo the trick.
2007-07-15 15:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you think enough of her to marry her.. did you put your last name on your sons birth certificate..if not them u need to see a lawyer..all is not lost and they can help you..good luck...i am not downing you.. and i would like to see her get what is coming to her...dam this people who think they could do anything they want to just because they did not get married to the person.. sorry for the rant
2007-07-15 14:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the records are sealed, she can state anything.
Were you/are you paying child support before she got remarried?
2007-07-15 14:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daddy I'm ur son. Mom put me up for adoption because she caught you having an affair with her best friend. She got back at you. Can you pay for me to go to college now?
2007-07-15 14:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by James M 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope, she would need to produce a death certificate. I would call her out on the subject. Is she still collecting your support money? They obviously, you are not dead!
2007-07-15 14:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by angels_eyez2012 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋