Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2007

This question is preferably for the men.

What do you think when it comes to having a family that consumes of 5 children?
Would you be willing to stay faithful in a marriage?
Would you work hard and spend little time for yourself just to support your family?
Would you countinue to love your wife even after she had your child?

2007-07-15 18:32:39 · 6 answers · asked by anastasia k 2

If they look back at all? My wife left for a nw lover real shock after 18 years together. What will make her look back and realize that I wasn't a bad guy.

2007-07-15 18:28:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, I am a woman and I am married too. My husband and I both enjoy porn together, but we both look at it alone too. For me personally I think it's a healthy way of exploring your curiosity without involving other people. Why do so many people think it is SO wrong and perverted?

2007-07-15 18:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by katherineleigh4 1

you are in need and he or she wont help until you sleep with them

2007-07-15 18:15:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 18:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by annej_68 1

2007-07-15 18:05:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

She called last week from Colorado and said her and my 16 month old son are going to stay there and not come back to Oregon. We dont even have a final order yet on our custody arrangements. Can she really get away with this? And what, if anything, can I do about this?

2007-07-15 18:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by prozac 1

if by law, it was ok for you to marry more then one woman,
would you?
(i dont like it ,Im just asking it)

2007-07-15 18:02:28 · 7 answers · asked by kittie 2

I just found my husband's stash of online porn that he saves from the internet and most of the clips he saves is of the guy cumming into the girls mouth or on her face. What does this say about my husband? Its hard to tell what he's into when half the porn he watches doesnt have intercourse in it (granted he doesnt know i've seen these). I just want to know if its something I should be worried about? I would ask him this myself but i dont want to embarrass him. And another question, why does he hide it from me? I've told him over and over that he doesnt need to hide it from me, but he still does? Why? Any type of answers to these questions is appreciated! Thank you.

2007-07-15 17:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by fayth_rc85 1

I am in the middle of a divorce. My 7 year old son has been telling me of several incidents over the last six months regarding his halfbrother (age 14) who i raised for 13 years.

According to my son, my ex frequently fights with his 14 year old half brother. On New Years, my ex tackled him, dragged him by his feet. My stepson sustained rugburns on his arms.

About 3 months ago, my son also said his brother was backtalking, and his dad grabbed his brother, twisted his arm to where he was crying saying, "its coming out of the socket."

Last week, according to my son, my ex threw a shoe in my stepson's face. My son didn't witness it, but he said he heard a loud thump, then heard Matthew cry out 'you hit me in the nose with a freaking shoe, dad'.

My son denies any altercations with his father. He is only witnessing what is going on.

Unfortunately my ex is a well respected physician in the community and I worry noone will believe me. He is so convincing in public.

2007-07-15 17:34:33 · 30 answers · asked by nurserose 2

2007-07-15 17:22:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your opinion on having sex only on weekends?
My wife works and tells me its to uncomfortable thru-out the day for her after having sex the night before.
I feel she's just not into it anymore.

2007-07-15 17:21:37 · 36 answers · asked by coffeemate 3

I'm 26 and been with my guy 2 years, and he says he's not ready to think about where he'll be in 30 years...I thought after 2 years you should kind of know where you want the relationship to go. Help!

2007-07-15 17:17:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 17:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by hottie 1

My boyfriend says that this is required in California. I've never heard of it, though. Can anyone shed some light

2007-07-15 17:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by Girlie bug 1

He looks like he bench presses with his jaw do women find thay sexy or a turn off? What does this have to do with divorce? Well I just got out of a 10 year marriage and I'm giving myself a whole makeover and I want to look good=)

2007-07-15 17:04:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I was supposed to go to my friend's birthday party and I couldn't get a babysitter.
She kept telling me to get my husband to do it, and he would have, but her party was at a bar with all of her friends that I don't hang out with so I wouldn't have known anyone there. Plus my husband is a bit jealous and I know that it would have been a huge fight between me and my husband if I would have went. Well up until last night I planned on just going there for like an hour, just long enough to drop off her gift and talk with her for a little bit and leave. My husband said that was fine. Well yesterday she called before I even told my husband what I was doing and this is what she said to me " I really want you to come, you never come to any of my parties and if you don't come then I can't be held responsible for my actions, I really don't think I will be able to talk to you or be your friend anymore."
Now that just made me mad that she said that, I go to all her parties when......

2007-07-15 17:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mom22 5

He majorly betrayed me in 1998 (not the first time) and I started my own online business and basically let him to run the wholesale side. I also started another online partnership with another company. Meanwhile--the wholesale side has shrunk to almost nothing. He refuses to call on customers, produce catalogs--the business is almost gone.

I have a serious neck injury--a week ago he told me there weren't enough orders and I would have to go on the road selling. I drew a blank. If there are no orders--what is he doing all I day? I told him to go out and call on customers and get some and grow some balls while he was at it.

The $$ situation is bad and I'm doing all I can but I'm not in the best condition with my spinal injury and constant pain.

Three days ago he told me I should get in an another accident so I can claim disability. I said how--I don't even show up as an employee in the corporation. I have no SS credits.

I want to leave so bad.

2007-07-15 17:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa M 2

I still cant find a good job, or rent an apartment. how am i supposed to live i was arrested for weed do you think its fare that seven years ago i made a mistake and paid for it but it still runs my life I guess my question is to all you convicted fellons out there where do I go from here how did you find an apartment after you got out of DOC

2007-07-15 17:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by settlesdustin 1

we have been married 35 years before he told me.how do i trust again

2007-07-15 16:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 16:38:00 · 15 answers · asked by aunshila 1

2007-07-15 16:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by moonstone 1

2007-07-15 16:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY HUSBAND IS IN JAIL AND ACCUSING ME OF THE WORST. I'VE NEVER DONE ANYTHING TO HIM OR OUR RALATIONSHIP I HAVE DONE EVERY THING TO PROVE THAT I AM HIS AND HE STILL DOES'ENT BELIEVE ME I HAD OUR CHILDREN TO PROVE THAT TO HIM ALL HIS NEEDS ARE MET. O AM SO FED UP WITH HIS BEING JEALOUS IM THINKING OF FINISHING IT ALL WHAT DO YOU MY FRIENDS THINK? AND NO BAD COMMENTS!THANK.

2007-07-15 16:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a BF that i should'nt have. My parents belive in arranged marriages. i love him dearly....me 13 yrs old

whats ur opinions about these horrid arrangements?!

2007-07-15 16:23:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's say the husband is in his mid-thirties and has only been married for 1 year.

2007-07-15 16:22:51 · 20 answers · asked by Richard 2

2007-07-15 16:21:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 16:16:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the divorce rate now?

2007-07-15 16:11:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am on my second marriage and ahve 2 children from my first marriage. My now husband wants nothing to do with my children as lately he is not getting on well with them at all. They are both teenagers. He says he loves me and wants to be with me. Is this workable or are we just fooling ourselves?

2007-07-15 16:00:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous