2007-07-15 16:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know a few people who have done it.
If they are on friendly terms and didn't have an ugly drawn out divorce, it is very possible.
2007-07-15 16:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to when there are so many other people out there.If it was meant to be you wouldnt have split up.There was a reason you split up.Once you have been hurt by the person you love more than anything in the world you change.Did one of you cheat? Did one of you leave the other for someone else? Was it sex,money,drugs,alcohol? What has changed? If you (or he ) was dumped you can never be sure it wont happen again. Will you be able to forget and forgive? Will you be able to trust again?I took my ex back,we are married now and my life is miserable.I am constantly looking over my shoulder. I am insecure and afraid as soon as someone comes a long with more to offer he'll be gone. I dont dare let him out of my sight.I am afraid to go to work I spend the whole day wondering where he is what he is doing
I have made myself crazy.I know from experience what you must have gone through when you seperated. The hardest part is behind you.You are a stronger better person without him.
2007-07-15 18:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can get back together if you've only been divorced five days, that's yall's decision...it doesn't matter that you were married once, you can get back together anytime you choose, and if you talk things out and date awhile and make sure things will work out it may be better the second time around you just never know.
2007-07-15 16:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, get back together?? THey can get back together, it is their choice. Sometimes they get back together b/c when they divorced they hadn't finished everything they needed to do. For example, my dad did it. My ex-stepmom had messed up really bad, but no one is perfect. My dad loved her very much. They had they bouts throughout the years about my little brothers and things like that. Eventually they got back together, even though my dad knew that me and my older little brother didn't want her to come back. It caused alot of problems, but eventually she messed up again. But this time my dad has realized that she is never going to change, and that it was time to give up. So... the bottom line is that they have to learn on their own, just like in any other situation.
2007-07-15 16:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Why not?
If you realise there is nobody you would want to be with more, than him/ her, among all those you have met since.
And he/she was not really so bad.
And that you have matured and realise everything out there is NOT better. Simply might be, but no more.
Then, talk about the things that were wrong, and how you can help each othar overcome those things for the good of each other.
Then, you will be happy to have met again.
Good luck
2007-07-15 16:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by tango bailado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My father got back together with one of his ex wives after 20 years from being divorced. They stayed together until illness separated them.
2007-07-15 16:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dorthy_Gail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the reason or reasons for the divorce...sometimes it's abuse, addiction, infidelity(those are reasons to RUN)
I would like to say yes......just believe....someday....
2007-07-15 17:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Pixie48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap.
2007-07-15 16:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as either one of them is not married. Maybe yes.
2007-07-15 16:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by leyte02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want to, of course.
2007-07-15 16:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by fran j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋