Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2007

It really raises a lot of questions..What would be your inital reaction, would you tell people, would you make him dress there & then, would you use it to your advantage or blackmail him?

2007-07-15 08:26:44 · 65 answers · asked by ? 1

On this format, there is complete anonymity, so you can be honest. What do you regret doing, or not doing? What would you go back and change, it you could?

2007-07-15 08:26:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has an excellent job and great pay and i have well nothing really..but i cant live with him anymore ive done it for 6 years...im so unhappy i dont want to live anymore...will my kids hate me if i leave them?

2007-07-15 08:20:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do you tolerate everything to provide a full family to your children

2007-07-15 08:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, some of you warned me. My husband and I tried our first threesome recently, and it was great! I got to experience two guys for the first time, and it was the best ever. Our deal was that we'd only do this once a month, but I can't stop thinking about it. Every time we make love, I imagine having another guy there. I'm not romantically interested in the other man, I just want the satisfaction! Should I tell my husband, or just wait until the end of the month?

2007-07-15 08:16:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Of late my wife has been telling me about her fantasy of going to a discotheque and having a one night stand with a stranger.First i thought she was joking but,she seems serious.She has been convincing me that there is nothing wrong with that and many people these days have been swinging or trying to experiment beyond marriage.She says that its something that she wants to try in life.In our marriage its she who has an upper hand and all decisions are taken by her.A couple of days back she took me to a disc and said that to start with may be she will just dance with someone in my presence.She danced with a stranger and she paired me up with one of her friends.The stranger and she did get very cosy but they did not have sex.She thanked me and told me that the next time she would like to go ahead.I really dont know what to do.....i want guidance from married people who have faced similar sutuations.I am too henpecked a man.....I really fear my wife.

2007-07-15 08:03:45 · 14 answers · asked by Silvio D 1

2007-07-15 07:49:40 · 28 answers · asked by Chantel S 2

This is my status message on both MSN and Skype, and sporadically I would get alarming reactions from some men.

Just wanted to know your opinion guys.

Thank you!

2007-07-15 07:40:25 · 16 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4

The wife and I are planning on getting a divorce to makes things more complicated, she's prego due in SEP07. She's told me that if sign away all my parental rights, basically giving her full custody, she won't seek child support from me. Is this true??? Should I get it done now or wait untill the child is born?? If we do 50/50 custody, am I still liable to pay child support?? Under what means am I free of paying child support??

Before getting married the wife and I both had an agreement that we were both too young (20/18) to have kids, however she went back on that. So basically we got married, but the marriage is going downhill, fast. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-07-15 07:29:01 · 17 answers · asked by LUIS J 1

i cant stop crying,and my mind can't work

2007-07-15 07:24:22 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 07:03:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was shocked when i saw my bf screamed and so afraid ,crying when he saw a spider in his car.one time i saw him putting powder in his face and wonder why he use that,sometimes he is asking if he can borrow lipstick to me coz he wants to try,coz he said he love lipstick why like that?is it he's gay?or using me to be consultant for make up artist.im confused to him help pls

2007-07-15 07:01:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Isn't it interesting that questions about threesomes, homosexual relationships, divorce, seperation, cheating, porn, and other such topics are so popular?

Is anyone else noticing how perverted our culture and society is becoming?

2007-07-15 06:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by fellowsjs 2

37,as i look very young, he changed,he said he couldn't see me the same way and that we didn't have future together because of this age gap.Before the age matter he was very attached to me.This 2 weeks were hard for me but i was trying my best to get it over.Before 2 days he sent me a sms saying:"i want you to give us another try no matter how old you are".I was surprised as when we ended he sounded very determined not to come back again.So we met and i gave him another chance but he seems a little distant.He said that he reconsidered the whole matter and he wants to be with me but i don't know if i can trust him.I like him but i want the things to be like in the beginning.How you see this situation?

2007-07-15 06:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't care what you do but can you be honest about it.

2007-07-15 06:29:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why oh why, do many committed and or married men, stare at "other" women, whilst they are out with their significant other?

Just your own personal opinion, and experience, that has lead you to understand this behavior.

Any suggestion(s) and or positive solution(s) to women who go through this.

Please write from the heart...straight to the point, addressing an "ideal" situation (an attractive wife/fiance/life-partner), and a realistic reason as to why this happens. Considerate honesty and do-able solutions are a plus! Best of Luck!

2007-07-15 06:22:59 · 21 answers · asked by Patience 3

She was married and her husband knew the child wasn't his they have since gotten a divorce and now I have to deal with the feelings all over again. My husband and I have a 4 yr old. He now pays child support but the other guy is the Dad and the child has the other guys name. Any suggestions on how to cope AGAIN.

2007-07-15 06:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 06:17:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my live in boyfriend and I took our dog out to a dog park. Everything was fine, I was in a good mood. So in the car he says "Yesterday I went to the mail box and there was this tall girl. I always thought she was really cute. She asked me for a cigarrette, and I said I don;t smoke. She said wow its hard to find a man that doesn;t smoke" Then I just walked away and she kept staring at me". I got pissed off. First of all, because there was no point in what he was telling me. I didn;t care, However the part where he says " I always thought she was really cute, ticked me off. Becasue I work 6 days a week, completely support this house and on my ONE day off he has to say something stupid like this, for what? Tp ruin my day? He doesn't even as much take the trash out around here. Then when he figured out that I was pissed, he says " Well if you want to have a trophy boyfriend, this is what you have to put up with". My reply " well stupid people say stupid things"

2007-07-15 06:16:28 · 17 answers · asked by Melissa J 2

Would this be an unhealthy relationship?
well i like this guy at work. i had a major crush on him. we went swimming together and for walks etc. and i basically had a good time. then a week back all us friends went to his place for dinner, where he introduced us to his wife! that came as a shocker and i was like ****! i have to so get over him.
and so i tried to avoid him all this week, didnt even go near his office.
i met him yesterday at lunch and he explained that he wasnt really married, there are no legal papers, he doesnt love that girl, they are just good friends and she is always on tour because of her job. they just have the same apartment and say they are married because they are from orthodox families and live in a conventional society.
i met his 'flat mate' "wife" and she said the same thing and that they have no feelings for each other. and for her safety at work she pretends this. and some of our close friends also said the same.

2007-07-15 05:47:34 · 10 answers · asked by deby 1

Is it possible for 2 people to get married right out of high school, have a child, then 1 goes to college and continues to improve their life, education, and place in the world, and the other enjoys the dead end, no rewards job that they started with out of school? Because these 2 peoples goals are so complete oppsosites is there any hope for them? Please include any websites/links and words of wisdem that may help.

2007-07-15 05:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to cook some chicken on the grill today but I don't know what to season or marinate it with. The last time I cooked some it was to dry. I really want some BBQ chicken. Please tell me step by step how to prepare chicken for the grill.

2007-07-15 05:22:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you allow your spouse to have sex with anyone he/she wishes? would you give yourself the same freedom (with your spouse's permission)? i'm interested to know your persp… more

2007-07-15 05:19:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was wondering,if you have been betrayed (cheating, lies), why is it so important to forgive? isnt that more like i agree with what happened and was done to me? i hear and read all the time about forgiving, to me, thats like giving an ok.

2007-07-15 05:12:45 · 22 answers · asked by not this way 5

Someone knows about australian laws here? One of my friend planning to have a devorce for her husband from australia but my friend is from other country. The reason is that the husband didn't care of assurance of support while she's applying her spouse visa because of that the embassy will deny it if it's happen soon. The question is that Is there any lawyer in the embassy can help my friend's problem about this matter? Do you think the console will help this problem between two nation diffirent laws? Thank you.

2007-07-15 05:09:23 · 1 answers · asked by rockstones 1

My husband is in Iraq...recently my husband asked for a divorce....after six years of marriage. Today is our anniversary, I wished him a happy anniversary by saying "You hold a special place in my heart. I am truly
sorry things couldn’t work out between us but I still want to wish you a Happy Anniversary. I hope you have a blessed day. Please take care of yourself and be safe!" and he basically replied " I also would like to say Happy Anniversary but I know it isn't. " Is he trying to hurt me...i am so confused...any advice

2007-07-15 04:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by yuma yuma 2

2007-07-15 04:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by Calvin James Hammer 6

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months. During all this time he has never given me oral sex. He loves to receive, but he doesn't like to give. He told me that he has had unpleasant experience in the past, and that oral sex is just something that he doesn't enjoy, and every time we talk about he gets very upset and we end up fighting over this issue. I told him that oral sex is reciprocal, and that I will stop giving him oral sex. He pretty much doesn't care I stop doing it, so I decided not to give him any more massages. He got very upset and didn't talk to me the whole night, he thought I was punishing him. I jusnt think...why he should receive pleasure from me, if he is not willing to reciprocate? He enjoys messages, just as much I enjoy oral sex. All the man I've been with have given me oral sex. I think this is a very normal part of love making, specialy when you love your partner. I can't force him to do it, but I'm sexually unsatisfy. What can I do?
Jess

2007-07-15 04:10:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont want to destroy my marriage but i seems i cant stop talking with my friend.. i miss her everyday..

2007-07-15 04:00:19 · 28 answers · asked by pretty 1

Tell us about what is working, and wat is not. Why did you decide to do therapy? Tell us all.

2007-07-15 03:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by Gonda 1