It really raises a lot of questions..What would be your inital reaction, would you tell people, would you make him dress there & then, would you use it to your advantage or blackmail him?
2007-07-15 08:26:44 · 65 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To clarify he is the one that wants to wear the uniform.
2007-07-15 08:31:26 · update #1
well yes it would be shocking at first, but to say he's your hubby you don't really know that much about him do you! i'd think of it this way, at least he's opening up to you and not some other to forfill his fantasies, despite how shocking it is, you definately need to sit and have serious talk about how deep this fetish goes....be understanding and hopefully you can work around it... it may not be all that bad!...goodluck
2007-07-22 10:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'd have to try not to haul off and smack the hell out of him. Then I'd try to calm down and see why he has this need to crossdress... get some counseling, and if I couldn't deal with it, he'd be outta here. However, blackmail??? That's just cruel and would make you a terrible person. Someone who truly loves someone wouldn't blackmail them... but I'm certain you are feeling betrayed.
Why not, and if you can do this... use this to your advantage a bit. Maybe try some costume play.. however he is the MALE character and you ar the FEMALE character, but you can be dominating if you want. Maybe a strap-on?? I dunno, I wouldn't want to use one and I don't know how your sex life is, but you can either embrace it, you're braver than I am... or see why and see what you can do about it.
2007-07-21 19:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own,if you love him you wouldn't do anything let alone what you have said about blackmail,telling people.Ask him his motives as to why he likes to dress a french maid.My inital reaction would be shock,but I would sit and talk to him as to why he feels the need to do so.
2007-07-20 01:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by irene c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a one off fancy. Maybe once his done it he wont bother again. I don't think I would tell anyone because believe me we all have our little quirks. It depends how honest you are in your relationship.If you feel uncomfortable with it say no and tell him why. Maybe his just testing you to see what your reaction might be.Unless your thinking about divorce and need something considered unreasonably behaviour which could be to your advantage,blackmail is against the law,only you can decide.
2007-07-15 11:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA HA- This is hilarious!!!
Maybe your husband is a little bit on the kinky side! LOL I wouldnt be very amused to see my man dressed up as a french maid. You should ship him over to frnace and see what the french do to him. Or you can make him do the cleaning in his outfit and send pictures to all of his work colleagues!
Use it to your advantage and make him do the housework. Afterall, he is now been appointed as the new scullery maid!!
2007-07-15 10:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love it when my husband dresses up as a french maid.
And other things for that matter.
I was the one that first asked him to do it and since then hes wanted to try on all my different costumes and outfits. He looks so sexy in them hehe.
I really wouldnt of minded if he had told me he wanted to do it first, id have loved it no matter what hehe.
Oh and hes not gay or bi or anything like that.
2007-07-18 01:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2016-05-18 03:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is probably trying to come out the closet. If my husband told me that I would asks him if he is gay, because there is no reason for a man to want to wear women clothing. That is too freaky and I do not want to hear men say that they are just curious. That is just ridicoulous!!!
2007-07-15 08:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd send him to France and let the French deal with it. Good grief!! Not a good question. On second thought, Free Angel's answer is a great one!! :)
2007-07-15 08:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all hide your clothes, Also always make sure when you go out that you dont clash, there is nothing worse than finding yourself in the same dress as your husband,
2007-07-15 08:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Radiator 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋