would you allow your spouse to have sex with anyone he/she wishes? would you give yourself the same freedom (with your spouse's permission)? i'm interested to know your persp… more
2007-07-15 05:19:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heck NO!!!
2007-07-15 08:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't own my wife, if she is determined to have sex with someone, there really isn't anything I can do about it before hand. Afterwords, I would file for divorce--it just is not my lifestyle. Some individuals do not realize that taking a fantasy and making it real, has a price.
I realize there are individuals that have this lifestyle, and have even met a few. I have never seen married couples with this lifestyle that married years later.
I see numerous problems in this type of lifestyle, STDs, who is daddy babies, lost of common goals, lost of attachment/commitment, financial, and etc.
I still believe my Native American great grandmother's teaching, Beware of who you have sex with, when you have sex the souls mix, if they are a bad person, you will give up some of your good soul and receive part of there bad soul.
2007-07-16 01:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
how is that even ur spouse when u guys are letting each other have sex with anohter? is it because one person did somethign incredebly stupid that the other person wants to take revenge? and after that had talk, and one person said to give them space and theyll give the other their space as well? if its this case, why r u guys still together? u guys are suppose to set up ground rules, and sometimes people disagree, and thats how arguments happen. arguments help to straighten ou the ground rules. i would definetely NOT let my spouse to have sex with another or even touch them. i wouldnt be with her in the first place and shell just be a **** in my head
2007-07-15 12:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by luciferstatus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! Marriage is not about going out and having sexual encounters with other people...whether you have permission or not.
I understand that there are swingers, those with open relationships, etc., but that doesn't make it okay. When you get married, you are committing yourself, your body, and your life to that other person.
If a married couple feels the need to seek out other sexual partners, then it's obvious that there is something missing in their realtionship.
2007-07-15 12:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone if you didn't want to share an intimate, one-on-one relationship with them?
Why is this even a question? I'm sorry, but this is a perfect example of the moral breakdown of the sanctity of marriage today. It makes me very sad that people do this or put up with these kinds of things in their relationships. There's nothing healthy about it.
2007-07-15 12:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Holly :) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why get married then? Because by giving your spouse permission to have sex with anyone they choose and you the same, your giving permission to cheat. It's concentual cheating is all it is, and your opening yourselves up to ALOT of problems. So to answer your question NO!
2007-07-15 14:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! People should not have open relationships for married couples. Think about watching some having sex with the person you are in love with.
2007-07-15 12:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by aspoiled2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly do not think that I would. I feel as if you love the person you are with you would not even think about being sexually active with anyone else. Some people have a diffrent look to it. If you are both comfortable with this then i guess. but personally I would not.
2007-07-15 12:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never.
So many problems arise from this, especially if your hearts are involved in the relationship.
I am content with my hubby and he is with me..I am 28 weeks pregnant and still he makes love to me like I was not...with passion and fury.
Why would I let him do this to another? When I want to share all of my passion with him alone!
sorry, but sex outside the marriage is wrong for us.
Blessings
2007-07-15 13:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLL NO! Casual sex is immoral and there are consequences for it. My suggestion is that you get your mind off your crotch and focus on God instead. It is people like you that make other countries hate us for being so disgusting. There is more to life than sex. Get right with God. Get educated. Get some morals.
2007-07-15 12:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this would cause mistrust and jealousy. It may sound like fun but if you want to stay married it's probably a bad idea. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't let her and I wouldn't ask her if I could.
2007-07-15 12:25:06 · answer #11 · answered by Lostandconfused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋