Here's a quick run through:
1. Realized I couldn't afford to live in california after the seperation.
2. Discussed my financial situation with father & advised I'd have 2 move & that we needed 2 come up w/ a custody arrangement.
3. Was served w/ custody papers preventing me from leaving.
4. I Initially proposed 2 let her stay w/ him for the 1st 3 years, where she would be w/ me in the summer & alternating Thanksgiving & Christmas ( 2 get aclomated 2 the new area), then for the following 3 years she'd come w/ me & be w/ him for the summer, etc. - - - He did not agree & requested 2 have her evaluated (I guess this request is a right he has).
5. Father has a history of trying 2 keep my 12 year old stepson from his natural mother & not encouraging a relationship between them (I've raised him for the last 10 years). He's showing signs of repeating that with our kid
6. He has spanked our other kids (welts, bruises), there is a report from CPS on fie.
7. She wants to come with me 1st
2007-07-15
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