me and my bf have been dating for more than a year an a half now..i have a very bad temper..and each time when im angry..i'll take my anger out on my bf..he's really caring and continue being patient with me..until this year..he could not stand it any longer..he sad that he wants to take a break..and he is tired of arguing with me(we argue too often)...i cried and beg him not to leave me.. but he said that he'll leave me for 1 month..and in this 1months time..he's expecting me to change my attitude and anger..i really don't want to lose him..what should i do?
2007-07-15 23:14:50 · 11 answers · asked by pinky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go take anger management classes,get spiritual help, pray....forgive the ppl who hurt u, and stop hurting those who love u....
2007-07-15 23:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by El-rene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get some counseling on controlling your anger and find out why you are so angry. People around you get tired of being a "punching bag" for your emotional outbursts. You can get control of it if you are willing to be honest with yourself and your counselor and do some deep soul searching. One month may be an unrealistic time period, but you can start and let him see you are willing to change. If he is really your bf, you won't want to continue to treat him this way, would you? Good luck!
2007-07-15 23:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by doreenangier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do as he asks change ur behavious by controling ur anger. He has been understanding for a long time think about how he feels when u continually take ur anger out on him and its not even his fault? I suggest you take this month to think about what makes u tick and learn to control it. Or u could go 2 anger management or play a sport like boxing and let it out at practise.
2007-07-15 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by mrz.charmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help - join an anger management group. Even if you can't change completely in a month, you can however prove to your boyfriend that you are willing to try. And don't quit it as soon as you get him back, (if he chooses to come back) or you may lose him for good.
If that's not your only problem, seek counseling as well.
2007-07-15 23:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking your anger out on him because of insecurity? You really need to take a hard look at yourself and deal with your feelings.
2007-07-15 23:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your behavior! what do you mean, "what should i do"? go to anger management, do something. you are screwing up a good thing, and don't really seem to care. you haven't done anything all month. i think that he needs to just leave and find someone who really cares for him.
2007-07-15 23:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he dont loves you now.he is intrested in somebody else now.but try to change your attitude.it not please you only but also we think you are very rude & if he really loves you.he has try to change your behaviour by his love ,im saying this by my personal experience.
Me too was very rude but my bf changes me alot.now i think he becomes angry sometime on me but i never on anyone else & he done all this by his love on me.
dont worry.everythg will become fine & if he was made for yoy ,he wll definetly come back to you.
take care & be happy.smile always
fatima from india kashmir
2007-07-15 23:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by leaves 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change your character
2007-07-15 23:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your attitude and anger.
2007-07-15 23:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will control your mind and make good attitude
2007-07-15 23:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋