My husband of 15 year does not love me nor respecct me anymore.He has a series of affairs and he moves with other women openly without caring for my feelings.This has gone on for over 10years.We have 3 children (14,12,1 and half years )he is finacially stable,He gives us all the financiall support and he loves his children but as I said earlier has no love for me.We have not had sex for over 1 year because of his lack of interest.
Three years ago I fell in love with another man who now loves me dearly.He has show me love ,respect and attention that I have not experienced before ,with him I feel like a quen.We got so intimate to the point of getting a baby with him.The baby is now 1 and Half year old (my 3rd born) and due to ignorance my husband is not aware that he is not the biologocal father.
I now want to runaway from my husband and get married to this man who loves me dearly.
Pls advice.
2007-07-15 21:36:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Legally, yes you would be blamed for the break up of your marriage because you had a child with another man.
You would have been much smarter to have left your husband when your affair first started ( or before it started) since you were no longer in love with him. Now you don't have a legal leg to stand on. You have lost your rights to a lot of assets that you would have had prior to the affair. Silly girl!
2007-07-15 22:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by peanut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have left him years ago. Leave and file for a divorce. At that time you can file for child support for all three, unless you want to tell him that the last one is not his. Why did you wait to do this? Just because husband was unfaithful, it does not give you the right to do the same. That is revenge, and revenge can cause a lot of bad things to occur. You need to do some serious repair work on your life.
2007-07-15 21:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice?? See a lawyer, as soon as possible. What you pay the lawyer will be to your advantage. You really need legal help with this. If you want to keep your children, and have them live with you, see a lawyer. Good luck.
2007-07-15 21:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by fredg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get the advice of an attorney so that you don't lose your children. You want to make sure you do everything by the book.
2007-07-15 21:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you got to do.
2007-07-15 21:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋