Had a great time with my girlfriend yesterday.we rented a movie got a pizza and had some margauritas.we were both buzzed but not drunk.She went and lay on the bed and Istarted giving her a massage.I know massages dont necessarily lead to sex and if I do get sexual and she's not in the mood she will let me know.She did not give any sign this time.She let me take off her clothes.I turned her over and started kissing the whole front of her.I had my hand down there and she was very wet.After a while I went for a condom came back and put it on.Continuing to sensually run my hands over her body I slid inside of her.30seconds later she made sounds like she wanted me to stop which did but I was confused felt like i took advange.I said sorry kissed her on the head and went outside to cool off.I came back in I asked her why she stopped me cus I feel bad and she said why r u saying its my fault n i said because you let me get that far.Its cool if she didnt want to but why let it get that far.
2007-07-15 19:54:48 · 9 answers · asked by Tool7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not a new relationship. We've been living together for a year
2007-07-15 20:18:49 · update #1
She had trouble with her birth control pills they make her sick. She hasn't gotten around to gettting a different prescripton.
2007-07-15 20:25:21 · update #2
Now I'm confused why did you stop that was your first mistake.If she let you do all that and go get a condom and put it on then she wanted to have sex with you,the only thing i can think of is when you went and got the condom maybe that broke the mood for her. If she is your girlfriend why are you wearing a condom anyway maybe that bothers her to. The sound she made are you sure it was a sound where she wanted you to stop or were you just being sensitive.
2007-07-15 20:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, its really no ones fault here so don't put blame or fault on each other. She at that point for some reason had second thoughts, OK you did the right thing and asking her was also a good thing. She is confused and really didn't have an answer so she said what she said. Give it some time and next time, talk to her during the foreplay giving her the option of moving forward or staying where you in the foreplay, move slowly and the time will come where its the right time for both.
2007-07-16 03:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does her taking birth control have to do with it? Or are you meaning that if she were on the pill you wouldn't have used a condom? If so you'd better think about that and start planning on saving for a college fund, because there is no birth control method on the market that is 100% effective and ANYTHING can happen if you're not using a condom.
2007-07-16 04:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u are right on... but...... why do men think a massage and kiss kiss, is the key to sexual encounters... why not stop and make her ask for more ??????, or make her get the condom if she wants more?????? men just see a green light ,,, until we have to feel guilty.... it isn't fair..
men ALWAYS want sex.. women do too,, but it is not WHAT is said or what is done...
it is HOW IT IS SAID OR HOW IT IS DONE!!!!!
2007-07-16 03:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you took too long to go all the way. Girls are confusing. It could be a milllion diffrent reasons she changed her mind. I'm a woman and somtimes I don't know why I do the things I do. =) However I don't blame you for being aggravated about it.
2007-07-16 03:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had no reason to apologize because usually if someone isn't in the mood they will say so instead of what she did. I think she should apologize for telling you to stop at the last minute.
2007-07-16 03:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, what u did seems very familiar to me. But why did u stop. also going away for 30 seconds to get a condom can stop her mood. next time, whether u want to do it or not, get it ready. ladies don't normally want to stop halfway especially if they are all wet. u could have mistaken want she wants.
2007-07-16 03:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRINKING always confuses everything - don't.
2007-07-16 03:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sh'es a little cock teaser !!!
2007-07-16 03:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋