I said some hurtful things to my ex bf as I have had trust issues in the past. I was jealous he was seein his ex as a friend. I regret so many of the the things I said. We have talked for hours on end and are still very close. He is very stubborn and says that he cant forgive me for the things I said. I regret this and have told him and asked him for another chance. I really want him back. How can I win him round? Anyone else been in this situation?
2007-07-15 19:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not in the wrong for not wanting him to be around his ex he is wrong for going around her when he knew you didn't like it. Honey, he is wrong here and you have nothing to be sorry for,if he can't see he was wrong then maybe there was something going on with the two of them. The worse thing you can do is beg him to come back to you ,that is a big turn off to a man.You want him back you will need to make him think that you have been seeing someone else that's the only thing that will bring him back to you. It works every time if you do it right and don't give in at the first sign of him coming back because if you do he will lose interest in you real fast.Make him think he has competition.
2007-07-15 19:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible he might forgive you in time. Nobody likes being pressured, though, so try to avoid that.
Do not listen to people like teenie who will tell you that your ex was in the wrong for not giving into your jealousy. To give into your jealousy would have been bad for you--feeding your jealousy-- and unfair to him, and on top of it it would have been terrible for your relationship anyway. I think you know that it is your responsibility to get over your jealousy; it was not his responsibility to try to indulge it.
Things may work out between you, but I'd suggest being open to the possibility that you might not ever be anything more than friends.
2007-07-16 03:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah been there and he said no forgiveness either, but eventually came back........every time....sorry that is not to say that will happen in your situation, but all you can do is try...have you tried giving him some time to miss you? that worked once for me, but then it was throwed in my face how i went off and had my fun...chances are you probably know him very well and you know deep down what will work or if anything...just trust you instict
2007-07-16 02:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will probably just have to be his friend for a while so that he can see that you are not like that anymore...it might take some time to build yourself up in his eyes again...but if you really want to be with him you will put in the time maybe?
2007-07-16 02:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋