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2007-07-16 04:07:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i Dont think i was perfectly clear on this, im Married Male 38 yr old with 2 kids. want to start a new life away from my wife, think ppl got it the wrong way around. thanks for all replies so far.
2007-07-16 06:58:28 · update #1
Please don't put up with any abuse physical or mental ,,, no one deserves that sort of behaviour directed towards them .
Look up your local directory it will have help lines for your situation and there are womens refuge hostels that would welcome you
You partner will not be allowed any contact with you there and restraining orders can be obtained ,if necessary
Take that first step NOW leave this excuse for a man and get on with the rest of your life
Good Luck
2007-07-16 04:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to go, and do it. I was in a similar situation, I left the relationship with little posessions, and even went to a new state to do it. If there are children involved then this makes it a lot harder. If you are without, find some share accommodation until you can get on your feet, ( a lot cheaper) then when you are on your feet, you can get a place of your own. If you have no money to do that, then find a job first, and as soon as you can get a paycheck, then leave. If you are desperate, then hock or sell something, but you do need minimum income to share a place. If there are kids involved (and depending on what country you are in) go to a refuge, and sometimes you might have to wait a month or 3 to get a place. But whatever the cost is, nothing is worth being in a abusive realtionship.
Take Care
Chris
2007-07-16 04:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by altscrap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack some stuff and leave, go to a womens refuge, speak to Social Security and they can give you crisis loans, speak to your local council who will get the ball rolling to find you permanent accomodation.
If your partner is abusive go to the police they are there to help, you should never be abused by anyone in anyway hunni. There is also a helpline google domestic abuse help. Email me if i can help dont give up and get out!! x
2007-07-16 04:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are agencies close to where you live to help you on this. Look for abuse or womens shelters and they can send you on the right track. There are places all over to help with this. Don't worry, and stay strong. Do not be afraid to ask for help, that is what they are there for. If you want, you can even go to one out of town. I'm proud of you for seeking help and respecting yourself enough to get out of the relationship and protecting yourself. You are a fine example for women out there who think there is nothing they can do about it or do not have the courage to do anything about it.
2007-07-16 04:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't any longer unusual for infants who've been abused to grow to be abusive themselves. i think of tat he tries very complicated to no longer be - additionally no longer uncommon. besides the undeniable fact that he's decrease than a super sort of stress on the 2nd and could be tormented by melancholy. combine this with alcohol and he ought to correctly possibility dropping administration and lashing out. that's no longer by fact he desires to break you yet extra to do with that he probably feels that no longer something is in his administration, undesirable issues are happening in his lifestyles and he can not do something approximately it. He could no longer have felt like going to paintings - melancholy could have that effect. some human beings take longer to recover from grief than others and if he feels some gentle experience of duty for his brother's death (although if imagined) this could play on his suggestions. Being a guy he will locate it complicated to talk approximately his thoughts. What you like is endurance and take a examine out to softly convince him to allow you be responsive to what's troubling him. do no longer push it if he does not prefer to - yet do no longer choose him, help him. he's no longer "skipping" paintings - melancholy is a actual ailment - do no longer forget approximately that. If he's unquestionably suffering to bypass to paintings get him to work out the physician and interior the long term he ought to need counselling. solid luck and take care :)
2016-11-09 11:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no family to help you .Go to a shelter they will help .Why are you staying and taking the abuse ? He might go as far as to kill you .Get out now before he does some serious damage .
2007-07-16 04:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by feistyirishme7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone your local womens refuge you dont need money they will pick you and the kids up when hes not there and take you to the refuge, where you will live till things are sorted out
2007-07-16 05:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥**•.¸¸verbalkint♥**•.¸¸ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family/friends? you could go to a women's refuge where you will be able to stay until you sort out finances and accommodation, there will be someone there to help you do this.it will be hard going at first but you do not deserve to be where you are now. Good luck
2007-07-16 04:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by madge 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek "help" not "money" at a local shelter for abused women and their children.
2007-07-16 04:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call 911 and ask them for the domestic violence worker on call to be paged and call you...they can take you to a safe house and get you out of the house safely..you dont need any money to do this
2007-07-16 04:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋