2007-07-16 18:09:36 · 16 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is like gamble if you succeed you can win a jackpot if to fail you become bankrupt. As far physiology of women is concerned even GOD won't be able to comment on this. A woman can be so good that can sacrifice her life for you & if she becomes bad she can deprive you of your life. If she is faithful with you & you give her full love, affection & respect not only she will forget her past love & love you but even if the past love comes in her life anytime in future she will not only ignore him but if he tries to enter her life again will kill him. But at the sometime I agree with bebe as some can never forget their past & try to run away from her matrimonial home back to their lover, here the fault no doubt is her but even husband lacked the personality to keep her attached to him , with his love, affection & respect.
2007-07-16 21:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not true. I know that's probably not the answer you wanted, but it's the truth. Marriage does not automatically delete the former loves from the spouses mind. That doesn't mean that she will love her husband less because she still remembers her past loves, and she can remember those past loves without still loving them. And you shouldn't discourage her from remembering them, because that will push you apart faster than you can even imagine.
The past loves were loved for a reason. And they are PAST for a reason. If she married you, then that means she wants to be with YOU, not them. Just remember that if you ever start feeling insecure because she fondly remembers a past love.
2007-07-16 18:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Raven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your other questions and I understand what you are asking. Your love is now married to someone else. She did not choose him, but he is her husband for the rest of her life. If she was going to defy tradition and culture, she would have done so before the wedding.
No, she will not forget you. You are someone who she cared for and who meant a lot to her. She will, however, move on with her life with her husband. She will think of you less and less. She is living with her husband and being a wife to him. She is busy running her household and getting to know the man she married. In time, she will also be the mother of his children and have even more to do. Between her relationship with her husband, her family, her own children and everything else a married woman is responsible for, it does not leave much time to pine for a long lost love.
2007-07-17 06:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes, but not always, just depends...i mean, it's hard for us woman to forget our past, after we get married of course we are gonna love our hubby but it is hard to forget about a past love even though you are married and love the man your with, but over time she could realize that this is a much better love and then not have time to think about the past lovers because shes' to busy being totally in love with you.
2007-07-16 18:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing magical about getting married or a wedding that will do this, no. But a woman may realize that her past love belongs just there, in the past and will begin her new life with her new husband.
2007-07-16 18:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you ever forget your past love and it doesn't mean that you don't love your husband. You will always have a special place in your heart for your previous love. They might be total opposites, but there is room for both.
2007-07-16 18:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. People marry for all sorts of reasons. If you want to forget your past, then you will do so. If you want to fantasize about a previous lover then you will do that to. If you call yourself getting married to forget someone else then you are making a big mistake. Try to solve your problems before you create new ones.
2007-07-16 18:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a woman marry a man if loved some one else? that's just stupid.
unless your talking about different types of love? you can love your friends and ex's but not the same as you married partner, well I'd hope not!
if you love someone more than your husband you've got real issues.
2007-07-16 18:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Cooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it true that she will love her husband? Well, I hope she loves him *before* she marries him.
Is it true that she will forget her past loves? No. But that doesn't mean she still has romantic feelings for them.
2007-07-16 18:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.. I still love my ex's. Not in love but I still care for them. I love my hubby to death but an ex has different memories. Life doesn't start brand new once a new person comes along, You still have memories.
2007-07-16 18:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋