Does my X wife have the right to keep the kids from seeing me, when she herself would keep the kids with her parents in which one of them sexually abused one of them in front of her and she never said a thing? While I told her to take the kids from there and she said no the parent was not doing what I thought I saw them doing. Later that year another one of my family members saw that same thing happen. I reported it to social services but no action has been taken. Help me save the innocent children before anything serious happens. But I still want to see them.
2007-07-16 19:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by simpsonomar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Report it again. I'm surprised social services didn't step in on this..Where do you live???? Report it again and explain to them in detail what is going on. I remember like a year ago, someone called social services on me just because my son was always tired in class. They were over my house quicker than a prostitute gets laid! It ended up being thrown out, but still they were all over it! And that was just because they thought my son was being sleep deprived..LOL You would still be able to see them I'm sure. But make it a point that you feel your childrens welfare is being threatened. Speak to a supervisor!
2007-07-16 19:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your X-wife has to have a court order saying you can not see your children, does she have one?
Get the other family member that saw the abuse to also report it to social services, sometimes with these cases they act on more than one complaint. Advocate for your kids, it is still your job to keep them safe. When you say help me save the children before anything serious happens, Im not sure what you mean by that. If one or more of your children have been abused at any given time then something serious has already happened. Why is your X keeping you from your kids?
2007-07-17 02:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is messed up! Are you saying she doesn't trust you with the kids and if so..why? Have you done something wrong with them?? If not she cannot keep them from seeing you. Go to court. Ask Social Services why nothing has been done and what needs to be done because you don't plan on going away until you get some resolve in all of this. Go to the newspaper if you need to and tell how unconcerned Social Services is and see what happens. Don't give up, get a lawyer if you need to regarding the kids. good Luck.
2007-07-17 02:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the other family member to contact social services with you. Social Services MUST investigate every report. Keep on them. If you have witness that the ex wife knows then you could get custody in most states. You need a GOOD lawyer. My kids would not get molested again!
2007-07-17 02:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-wife is in denial. you did the right thing by contacting social services, what I don't understand is why didn't they do anything. Do not give up with social service maybe you should contact the authorities. Your children is in a dangerous position, if nothing is being done things is going to get alot worse. Good Luck to you!!!
2007-07-17 02:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she don't let you see the children because she hi-dding the truth and the child will tell you and there for she is neglectful to the child and hi-dding her family member dirty on going play toy press charges on that person and have social services do a forensic check on child !!!!! ask them i had to for my baby and they will do it but you have to push them dount give up you child needs you and you should understand and see the signs do to what happend to you thats how told on myex stepson that hurt my daughter but i still dont get to see my childern the courts are ugly when you cry are yell and let you know that my action we not personol but court busness and so my childern are just number in the system and like the judge told i should not have told on my exhusbend to he said that i was being to hate full but i have the report and the boy tells the socil services how men times he sexully abused her and where and the test came out that my 6 old was no longer a vergin but im her voice and i will dye trying to get my4 childern back from that dad that belive his daughter and he says if it happen she asked for it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-17 09:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by deidre c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to you at age 5 was wrong! But if anything you are aware of abuse, especially your kids.... I see no reason why you cannot see your children because of this..And if there is abuse at your x-wives home, it needs to be reported! Keep on it! They shouldn't ignore this activity.
2007-07-17 02:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Thunderrolls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a registered letter to social services along the with name of the other person that saw exactly what you saw.
2007-07-17 02:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEED TO KNOW MORE SORRY TO HEAR THAT NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO ABUSE ANYONE AT ANYTIME YOU CALL 911 AND THE CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES WHEN IT HAPPENS I HOPE EVERYONE IS OK GOOD LUCK
2007-07-17 02:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2007-07-17 03:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Am1!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋