Marriage & Divorce - 13 July 2007

My husband and I just decided on a divorce a few weeks ago … He just moved out last weekend. No papers have been signed or filed yet. He is already on the prowl. It was my decision to end our marriage, but I am still bitter that it has taken him so little time to move on …. We have two children together, and while I have them 24/7 he is out picking up on little 22 year olds …. He took all of the furniture and got an apartment already …. So while he’s living all good … his family (or what once was) is living in an empty house. I just think it is sooo selfish on his part … I know I made a good decision, but should I not be bitter or do I have a right to be?

2007-07-13 09:48:17 · 26 answers · asked by luvlily00 1

Does anyone know whether or not female ejaculation really exists?

2007-07-13 09:47:14 · 33 answers · asked by babyred 2

okay so my ex boyfriend who i still love's mom is dating this guy who does drugs i know he does drugs cuz he used to be married to my aunt
anyways his two kids do drugs but the 13 year old is in jail and the 16 or 17 year old lives with his crackhead mom
so gage is the guy that i still like
me and gage are only 12 and i know hes a good kid
i dont want him to get involved with drugs
i pray for him every night
i am terrified for him
the guy that his mom is dating and wants to marry is going to court next week for beating his kid
iam so scared for gage
i love gage and would hate for anything bad to happen to him
i am so worried that he is gonna do something he will later regret
i cant stress to you how much i am worried about him
i am really scared for him
what can i do

2007-07-13 09:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

thank you

2007-07-13 09:37:35 · 30 answers · asked by sexy 1

I've been married for some time now and wondering were the best place to go for sex would be. Are there places that married people go? Don't want my wife to find out

2007-07-13 09:37:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a pretty good looking guy and have a lot of money. Are you interested in getting married and having a few babies? I like in California and have very few viral infections.

2007-07-13 09:34:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If not, you should or else she will find someone that does! Don't be selfish fellas!

2007-07-13 09:31:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Suppose you were married and after a some odd years, you find out that she's been seeing a girl behind your back but NO men. She tells you she loves you deeply and is sincere and has been faithful with the same gender, but she needs the love of a woman in addition to you the husband and offers you to get into a 3-some with her indefinitely. Her partner agrees and thinks it would be a terrific idea. Would you divorce her for cheating or would you forgive her and join the fun? Be as honest as you can. Thanks

2007-07-13 09:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out he has been looking at internet porn. I asked him about this and he said he would rather do it than be with me because sex has become a hassel. What should I do?

2007-07-13 09:22:52 · 19 answers · asked by momof2 1

I recently posted a question about how to talk to my husband about taking cash out of my wallet without asking me and not bothering to tell me that he's done it.

I make more than he does but I never ever take cash out of his wallet because I know he doesn't have a whole lot of extra. This morning I went to get something at the grocery store and my cash was gone and I was unable to use my card (which he was aware of) to purchase my groceries.

Was this considerate of him? I feel he should have at least mentioned to me that he borrowed it instead of just taking it and not saying anything, am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-07-13 09:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by Kitten 4

2007-07-13 09:10:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

5 years ago(while we were newlyweds) my sister came to visit us (she's older) and while she was sleeping,my husband came on to her (as in sexually rubbing her) She told me the next morning and I in turn left him for this. After many long conversations about us, I went back home. My family was furious but I had an obligation to my husband also (as did he) He told me that he didn't know what he was thinking and was sorry. He said that he was unhappy with me because I wasn't a good wife(i vouche that I was not. I was sleeping all day,no job, and lazy while putting on 30 pounds) and I wonder if he would have done it if I was good to him. Anyways, five years later,what happened is still in my head. It will not go away and I have given him heck about it since,hanging it over his head after forgiving him. He has been good to me ever since this happened. My family still acts really odd around him as does my sister. Everything is awkward to this day. Any help on moving past this?

2007-07-13 09:09:45 · 18 answers · asked by Mary.Jane 1

i loved X.we had no communication in 2 years.in the mean time, Y proposed me,and i responded.now i am happy with Y and i want to marry Y.here,Y also loves me and we have a serious relation now.in this situation,X became crazy and i cannot tell her that i don't love her anymore.because sometimes X phoned me and i just acted with her.i hanged X for these two years.what should i do?help me.if if say X the truth,will she suicide or make any accident?seniors....what should i do?

2007-07-13 09:05:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I grew up in a polygamist home and currently believe that it is a happy and loving lifestyle. I just don't understand where the hate comes from, specially from those that have never even met a polygamist. I had a happy childhood with loving parents. I am sure they had their marital issues like most people do, but they worked through them together like most people do. I was never told who I had to marry or when I should get married. I was taught the religion of my parrents and then when I was old enough had to chose for myself what I believed. I have brothers and sisters that chose to live polygamy and ones who did not. None of them are outcasts and we all still get together as a family. So I guess my question is if it is between consenting adults trying to live their religious beliefs why do people who know nothing but what they hear and read in the news hate us so much?

2007-07-13 09:03:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-13 08:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

Am i wrong for being upset with my husband for getting drunk yesturday and not going to pick our 5 month old from daycare, granted that i could still pick him up when i got off of work because my husband gets off before me, but his routine is to pick the baby up when he gets off. He says he had no intention of drinking he was only going to play a few games of madden then go get the baby but his friends gave him a cup and he figured he would only have one and one turned into 2 and so. But my argument was that he shouldnt have drank anything knowing that he had to pick up our son...am i wrong for telling him that, because he seems to think that everyone makes mistakes, but i dnt think that was a mistake he should have made...what do u think???

2007-07-13 08:54:44 · 20 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2

im talking to this guy right..long distance as friends...when i told him he needs to communicate more..like text me first, or email me first, or call me first without me doing all this stuff first...he saids thats too much work ...keep in mind this is he same man that saids..he dont like the phones..and he admires me and likes me and cant wait to see me...and wants me
Im alil bit confused here

2007-07-13 08:41:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 and defiantly a Xer. I simply do not like baby boomers. They are very high on themselves and their generation but I can not see any of the great things they have done. As a generation if I had to generalize in one word about them it would be that they were Selfish. They have viewed the world in terms of power, money, and things. The ironic part is they truly believe in their generation’s greatness and how much better they have made the world for everyone else. I believe as time passes they will go down as a generation that sold their kids and grandkids tomorrow for their today. The Xers are truly a generation searching for the “something more” in life. We like the money, power, and things but are a little less sure if we are willing to purse it at any cost. Xers are not team players and a generation that has definitely bought into the idea that if you do not feel good or look good there is a medical treatment for it. In many ways we are not so different than the baby boomers except that we know the evils of that way and are not sure if we care enough to do anything about it. The Gen Yers, well who knows. They are seem to be less like the Baby boomers than the Xers but it is too early to tell what they will do.

2007-07-13 08:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your wife came to you and told you that she had an older guy offer her 3 grand a month to see him a couple of times a month would you let her?

2007-07-13 08:38:23 · 22 answers · asked by Jim C 3

it does not have to in order.. with me are 1-my fam..2-my job 3-the fact that i can say "debit" and not "credit"

2007-07-13 08:37:45 · 32 answers · asked by mmm..whynot 3

We've known each other for three years and have been married for two and a half years. I've given him pens (he loves nice pens), clothes (he likes to wear name brand products), and shoes (he's a jogger and loves nice durable shoes) for just about every birthday. I want to try something different but I'm strapped for money at the moment so I only have seventy dollars to spend.If this helps, he's an older male in his forties.

2007-07-13 08:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by Lily 2 3

10 year marriage failed and back out there and I hate it. I go out with my friends time and time again and each time is worse than the last. Don't get me wrong I love hanging out with my friends I'm just done with the scene. I wasn't ever looking for someone else in a club because thats just stupid, but now I'm just over the whole going out thing. I want to be back home being a boring married person, watching movies and cuddling. I know its ovr for me and my ex, but I just don't have the energy to try and find someone else. Does any of this make sense? Is there any mail order husbands, so I can bypass the dating...

2007-07-13 08:11:35 · 21 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

Unintentionally, I walked into a certain port city hotel in the Persian Gulf a few years ago. The power of aggressive female sexuality bombarded me from every side, as prostitutes from all over the world propositioned me. The seduction game was reversed. The rawness of women selling their flesh, pretending that they desire their customers is a game; but I respect something about their objective detachment from my values, and I'm attracted by their aggressive use of their feminine sensuality - converting it into cash for their children and families back home. A beautiful Ethiopian woman with fine features, dressed to seduce, covered in gold and a scent that made me want to lick her all over, sat down at my table. (See Additional Details)

2007-07-13 08:01:12 · 17 answers · asked by Sultan 4

I am currently going through a divorce. I have been married for 5 years and my ex and I are mutual. I haven't asked for spousal support or child support and we agreed on everything. You can say we are having a really easy divorce. Our children dont seem to be affected by it at all.

I am currently dating this guy and I really like him, but for some reason I can stop dreaming about my ex. Is this normal? Is it because sub-conscientiously I want my ex back or is it because I am used to him; being with him for 5 years.

2007-07-13 07:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by Going to NY 2

2007-07-13 07:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would any girls date a man who is closed-minded in the fact that he doesn't believe in abortion, nor evolution, nor that being gay is right?

Has anyone married someone who believes opposite of them (in areas such as those listed above)? If so, how did the marriage turn out? More specifically, did anyone marry someone who believed that abortion or being gay was ok? If so, how did that turn out?

If children were involved, please let me know how they turned out....were they rebelious, did they have a "preferred" parent (if so, which one)....etc.

2007-07-13 07:54:55 · 22 answers · asked by cobra427jah 2

The last two days have been awful for me. It just seems like everything that can go wrong has. I don't get upset to often but this morning I had all I could take and finally blew up at my husband. I told him my life was so much easier before we got married. I didn't mean what I said at all, it was just a combination of things and I needed to vent. Well to make a long story short, I have appologized to him several times, but I still feel awful, does anyone have any suggestions on something I can do to show him that I am truly sorry and didn't mean what I said?

2007-07-13 07:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by Angela F 5

I have been with my fiance for 4 years this September, and have been engaged for almost a year. I am 19 and my fiance is 23. We have two dogs, our own cars, we OWN our own brand new house, and we have lots of nice things (all of which we paid for on our own by working). We travel, and we take at least one big vacation a year. We are also both in college finishing our degrees. So can anyone tell me why people keep insisting that we are still too young to get married? People just keep saying that we are missing out on things. What are these "things" that people think we are missing out on? We spend time with each other, and our friends and families, we go and have fun, both by ourselves and with each other. Can someone please explain to me what these people are talking about?

2007-07-13 07:52:30 · 21 answers · asked by hotchic00692003 2

Background: Here's the story, I'm married to my wife for 10 years and have 3 kids. We have a married couple that are neighbors and their kids and our kids are friends. My wife is a nurse so she is home during the day alot.

Anyway, my wife and the my neighbor's husband have been talking on the phone for about 3 years now and their monthly minutes reach about 1,000. I've expressed my displeasure to my wife about it and she says they are just friends. I say that is OK, but 1000 minutes is like 30 minutes every day. Anyway, this guy is also in sales and my neighbor has seen his truck in my driveway during the day when I'm at work. When I told my wife about this she said that he stopped by a couple of times.

So I bump up our cell plan to 2000 minutes and tell the wife that she better never go over this... One month I see my bill higher so I go on-line and download my bill information. (This is when I started noticing 1000+ minutes per month to/from this guy)

2007-07-13 07:51:54 · 35 answers · asked by hocus_frocus 1

I am astounded by the reaction of my husband since i have left him and am going to divorce him for abusive behavior. He is writing to me poems...recipes...asking how i am .....giving me little quips about his day......I think he is on the ''hunt'' as i have escaped from his grasp and he is trying to lure me into his trap to ''cook'' me in the end. Am i correct? It is the first time he has ever been so ''romantic'' and caring since we first met. I fell for his ''lines'' then and suffered, so i am not making the same mistake again. I am an older and wiser woman now and not that young silly naive girl he captured before..what do you think?

2007-07-13 07:45:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous