Marriage & Divorce - 13 July 2007

2007-07-13 12:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by kbolivera 1

In response to this birthday question, i asked my best friend to secretly ask my wife what she wants as a present. He said that she said, "if you were married to me, ide like you to give me a pearl necklace"
I did'nt think she likes pearls, but obviously she does, so should i give her one or not...????

2007-07-13 11:53:41 · 32 answers · asked by pop c 2

And I don't mean getting pregnant like 6 months after married. What happened to settling with your husband, making a good life, then having children at a respectable age?

2007-07-13 11:48:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

if someone were flirting with your spouse in front of you?

2007-07-13 11:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6

how many women would hate marrying into the name delgado

2007-07-13 11:41:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-13 11:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by Kim Davis is a douche bag 1

i mean, have you ever given someone advice on here and then think well, i should be doing that myself, i mean, it's always easier said than done, just curious if anyone else ever gives advice that you know is the right thing to do but then stop and think, do you handle the same situation like that, and if not, why aren't you taking your own advice?...lol...just a funny thought wanted to get other peoples opinions on this....

2007-07-13 11:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7

then married the man she cheated on me with, in 6 months. One might say well... she didn't love me, and now she is with the guy she loves? I think that is a crack of @#$%. we were together for seven years, Love is commitment , I would say she doesn't know what love is. and what are the odds that she will find unhappiness with her new husband? She grew up in the church? Divorce was not an option, but she did it anyway! and remarried! all while I was trying to save our marriage. now she is pregnant with this guy! talk about depression for me. I still can hardly breath!

2007-07-13 11:34:40 · 22 answers · asked by fstmx 3

Me: gutted.
Not the affair but the total lack of emotion, not even the slightest I'm sorry but.....

2007-07-13 11:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Rabid Dog 2

After 3 years of my boyfriend deciding that he was going to do his drug I finally let him go . He decided to quit his job knowing that our rent went up $250 and is just like nothing so i decided that it was time to do the right thing and I left hes trying to give me the guilt trip now. Do you think I made the right decision. I m 25 i dont need this stress right now

2007-07-13 11:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by victoria c 1

I got a phone call last night from the police who said they had my husband. Aparently he was drunk and passed out in front of an apartment building. Some residents there called the police. Luckily for him (or perhaps not) the country we live in takes a fairly lenient view of these things, and apart from calling me to take him home, nothing will happen to him.
The fact that he is employed in a white collar job seems to mean that his behaviour can be excused.

I got dressed and got my 3 year old daughter out of bed took a taxi to where the police were waiting. My husband was passed out on the pavement in front of the building. I talked and yelled at him trying to wake him up......when the policemen pulled him to his feet he could walk and we got him into the taxi and home.

2007-07-13 11:09:16 · 29 answers · asked by psychokitty 4

2007-07-13 11:08:55 · 30 answers · asked by gapanic5827 1

Do men feel inadequate if their wife makes more money than they do? If so, why?

2007-07-13 11:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kitten 4

I mean, i love to have sex with my husband, i would do it every night if we could, but sometimes, i wonder, men cheat when there not getting enough, but do you think they'd cheat when there getting to much, i don't want my hubby to get bored becasue we've done every thing and he gets it so much, i don't beleive at all he'd cheat on me, but do you think it's possible men will cheat when they get so much?.....would just like to see peoples opinion on this and if theres any men who have cheated although they got plentey of sex at home....

2007-07-13 11:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7

My husband and I love each other. Dont get me wrong. I'm not one to run away from problems....
BUT
Yesterday we got into an arguement that was so bad we decided to split up. Ok well knowing that neither one of us wanted that we decided a few hours later that we would stay together. Ok at 5am I wake up to him with his hand around my neck attempting to choke me...I said what are you doing and he layed back down and stopped. He says he doesn't remember this and says "dont you think if I wanted to choke you I would have done it already?"
The fight yesterday was all because I got out with him at a store...(I told him at first I didn't want to go then decided after he was in there that I would go in) I'm confused because I love him and dont want to make a mistake by leaving if I really shouldn't. Please help! Just need to hear what other people think...

2007-07-13 11:03:11 · 29 answers · asked by Just here. 4

My husband brings in less income than i do. He's usually always broke and I usually have some kind of cash on me. I pay all the bills so he can pay off his car. He always takes a few cigarettes from me or some money out of my purse so he can eat. I can't buy packs of pop anymore because I usually have 3 drinks and find that he's guzzled the rest. Same goes for food, and lots of other things. The thing is though, once in a while i will be broke and i wont ask him for anything but he finds out and gets me things i need ( if he's gotten paid recently) even if it makes him broke. It a guilt trip every time because he doesn't have much but is very generous with what he has. But the only reason i run out of money is because he takes from me everyday. I started hiding things and he was outraged. He's always mad at me now, constantly reminding me of how selfish I am. I feel terrible but I don't want to be taking care of him anymore. any help?

2007-07-13 10:54:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

As of now I am extremely hurt.....We got married 10 years ago and we have a beautiful family But when I came home from work the other day, my wife was on the phone and didn't hear me come in. As I passed the kitchen, I overhead a part of her conversation, which included: "If he knew I was on the pill, he'd kill me." Shocked, I discussed it with her and she said that she will never use it again and felt terrible after seeing how hurt I was. But now 3 months later I see that she is on it again. What should I do or say to her to save this marriage after such a betrayal? I still love her.

2007-07-13 10:52:51 · 20 answers · asked by joe 1

I have been married for 15ys together 17 in the begining the signs were there but I didnt read them !! I will try to make this short !! He didnt like my hair style he didnt like my cloths, I couldnt lay out the sun on 35 acres for someone would see me,I couldnt workout ,I couldnt go to the tanning bed,I was to made feel like I wasnt good enough , everything I did was wrong, everytime I would fix something about me that he didnt like then there was something else he would find , he threatin to leave me all the time, he told me I should think about things before I said them , I have been cussed out over his sister,freinds,his son,and even a stranger, I felt like opipion was not important, I had to fight with him to him to take me see my parents out of town when something would happen to them,ETC Well I left him 6 month ago couldnt take it anymore, but now he saids he has changed and he loves me and missed me , but I dont see it he has not made any changes to get me back !! please help!!

2007-07-13 10:50:49 · 24 answers · asked by IT IS WHAT IT IS 1

My husband and I have a joint checking account that we keep for household expenses (bills, groceries etc) and then we each have our own checking accounts that the other doesn't have access to. I was talking to my girlfriend the other day and we got on the subject of money and marriage. She's a SATM and her husband is the breadwinner for the family but she works part time taking in other kids for daycare etc. When I mentioned the arrangement that my husband and I had she was totally shocked an appalled that we kept what finances we didn't need for bills separate from each other and she thought that it was being really distrustful of us to do it that way.

So my question is, should all your money go into a joint checking account and should your spouse have full access to your 'spending money' ??

2007-07-13 10:36:48 · 27 answers · asked by Kitten 4

My husband does it and has done it for some time now. At first I was okay with it until I realized he cheated on me. Now I am totally against it. I am also upset because he hangs with his single friends who are dogs and his married friends who are dogs. Me on the other hand have just started meeting nice respectable people to hang out with, after three years of marriage. However, there is this one woman who I met two years ago. I stopped talking to her because when we did go out to clubs my husband said I was disrespecting our marriage. Whatever! So I cut her off to make him happy. He didn't ask me to but I did out of respect for him. Well we came back in contact with each other and now she wants to go somewhere tomorrow night. She mentioned a few clubs but I told her I would rather just go get dinner. I feel that I have to keep it low key since I tell him it's not cool to stay out after 2 or 3 a.m., but in reality I didn't care about him doing it until I knew he cheated.

2007-07-13 10:34:44 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

I'm having joint barbeque next week for my divorce, getting legless at the moment, it was good news.

2007-07-13 10:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by TRIKER CHICK 3

I keep seeing this problem come up and I would like to know how people handled or would handle this and why. Male or Female.

2007-07-13 10:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Johnny 3

he's been doing this *stuff* for 25 years... on and off. I caught him with meth and then he left, left to stay at a motel for a week...he smoked pot/meth for that whole week and then came to the realization that this was something he couldn't continue this way. BUT... he decided this after i gave my ultimatem (sp). I had told him (last sunday) that he was to call me and work things out (or not) that night or nothing at all. He called the next day (Mon.) and he was ready....I told him no, that i wasn't. He decided to stay one more night (that is so selfish) and continue the pot/meth/drinking...then talk with me when he was ready. I'm mad at myself for taking him back and now he's trying to make a new start... he's in AA meetings and has rededicated his life to God. He's lied for so many years that I have a problem even believing what he's trying to do now and what if it's for real. I've lost trust. We have been married 2 yrs & have 2 kids. Do I take a chance and stay?leave?i'm confused!

2007-07-13 10:26:03 · 16 answers · asked by Christy S 1

We're both over 25.

We met a few years ago online and have met in person.

We've kept in contact but will go months at a time without speaking. Well, after a year of no contact, he called me like every night last week. He missed one night of calling and then last night, he called and told me out of the blue that he wants to marry me in two years.

I was shocked and would have married him when we first met. I didn't think he felt that way about me. He's been hinting over the years about marriage in general, but last week he was talking more about it and even said he's ready to settle down. I didn't think much of it and then last night he just came out and said it.

I don't know what my question is... I suppose is it normal for a guy to suddenly realize he wants to spend the rest of his life with a girl?

He has his own place, his own business, no kids, and never been married. He also lives 2 time zones away!

2007-07-13 10:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have 3 kids together ages 8 ,4,and 2.We met senior year of highschool dated went through all kinds of drama including pregnancy miscarriage broke up twice before ending for good . A year later while he had a gf and i was depressed/lonley we had a fling the result of which is our eldest son.For a year we tried to make it work and get it all together but failed.Few months before my 25 birthday we met up again for a chat because i had just moved back to our home state.He wanted to be more involved with our son's life and we started talking more became friends.We started dating again casually and have been together 4.5 yrs straight ever since getting married.I still wonder what if i had not had that fling with him or not gotten pregnant would we still have gotten together?I feel so much guilt sometimes what if the girl he was dating during our fling was better for him than i am they were friends for years before they dated?Am i crazy?

2007-07-13 10:24:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Divorce may take along time but don't give up.

2007-07-13 10:12:49 · 16 answers · asked by TRIKER CHICK 3

He just told me he got work off early and is on his way home.. What are some fun things we could do at home or away?
thanks!

2007-07-13 10:04:01 · 16 answers · asked by tina*21 2

to talk to various women. Eventually he got serious with only one. It got so intense that they got together and slept w/eachother. He evn fell in love with her! When finally approached him, he denied at first but then he admitted it. In the end, I gave him a choice. He chose me because he loved me more than he loved her. My question is for those of you who have experience it, and have forgiven, how have you gotten past it and survived marriage? It's been hard for me. I've been depressed at times. I wonder if he really loves me anymore!!!!!! I just would like to hear from people who have experienced it first hand. I love him w/all my heart and would love to move on!!! Please help!!!

2007-07-13 10:03:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Posted this question another way and got some real crappy answers. Everbody has needs and mine aren't being taken care of, before i got married i was having sex just about every day of the week and now i am going weeks on end without any. So now i suffer because my wife isn't as sexually active as i am? Not looking for another relationship just want to take care of my needs and come home to my wife after

2007-07-13 09:58:22 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

He rides my nerves until I snap and lash out at him and he refuses to help me keep control of my temper and B.P.D. He makes everything worse. My own dad has seen the way he treats me and has never helped me. I am on the verge of suicide. My mother abused me in most every way u can think of for 19 years until (thank god) she died. I married in 2004 and my hubby has turned out to be like my mom. What did I do to deserve this torment????? HELP ME

2007-07-13 09:57:01 · 28 answers · asked by mrs_dlzr 1