I keep seeing this problem come up and I would like to know how people handled or would handle this and why. Male or Female.
2007-07-13 10:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Johnny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would divorce her. I'm going to cheat on her anyway, so I would divorce her instead of being a cheater.
2007-07-13 10:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jethro M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lack of intimacy comes from many things. Either they have gotten busy with life and forgotten to nurture the intimate bond between them, or they may have hurt feelings that is driving them apart. There may be a medical condition that makes sex painful or difficult.
The list goes on, but the answer is that they need to get to the root of the problems before anything will change.
Truth
2007-07-13 17:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by I gotta Tell you... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the way you said "want" rather than "need".
We have sex 2 or 3 times a month. When I try to talk to her about it, she just says that she doesn't "need" it as much as I do. It's not about "need". I want her to "want" to have sex. I've told her it's not about quantity, but rather quality, for her. If I can somehow make it good enough that she would "want" to have sex, quantity would no longer be an issue. She has yet to express her opinion, or reveal to me how I can make sex better for her.
To answer your question. If she doesn't "want" to have sex, there's got to be underlying issues, and if she isn't willing to share them...time to move on.
2007-07-13 18:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months ago my wife decided sex was no longer important in our marriage.
8 months later I asked for a divorce.
We're going to counseling.
2007-07-13 18:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cry. I blame myself a lot. I feel unattractive. I feel like there is something wrong with me. My husband has a porn addiction, had an emotional affair of four years, sexual anorexia, and has to take a pill to have sex with a real woman- me.
2007-07-13 18:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by starrrrgazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female and if there was no reason behind this lack of sex then i would be ready to break up.
2007-07-13 17:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were a physical problem and could not be fixed then I would come to an agreement.
If it were strictly " does not want to", I would be compelled to move on.
2007-07-13 17:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't want to or couldn't?? If it's a physical problem, a man who loves his wife would want to get medical help. If it wasn't "fixable", I'd try to live with it. If he refused to see a doctor or if he just didn't want to, I'd wave bye bye because that would tell me our marriage wasn't important to him.
2007-07-13 17:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not into sex so much so i wouldnt make a big deal at first but if i tried having sex and he kept saying no i would think he was cheating and id leave him.
2007-07-13 17:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were young I would divorce her.
If I were middle age or old I would probably stay with her and get companionship elsewhere.
2007-07-13 17:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋