Would you be angry or jealous.....?

Question

if someone were flirting with your spouse in front of you?

Answer 1

Neither - I'd be proud. And then I'd take him home and remind him why he's so glad he chose me. ;)

Answer 2

If the person didn't know that I and my spouse were married I would not be angry or jealous. I would just smile and say sorry but he is taken. If it were someone who knew the relationship and definitely were trying to flirt without regards to my feelings I would politely say back off...then if that didn't work I would bite her ankles.

Answer 3

I'd be a little of both, angry because they know you are right there and jealous that someone else is flirting with my hubby other than me, so i would for sure be both.

Answer 4

I would be more angry than jealous. If my man wasn't reciprocating I would be very happy though as well, knowing that he is mine and he isn't showing the least bit of interest in the woman being rude enough to flirt with him.
Sometimes its harmless and I wouldn't say anything, but if it reached an uncomfortable, inappropriate level I would say something and hope too that my husband would say something. Even if it was "If you can excuse us my wife and I have to head over to blah blah blah, it was nice talking to you." And leave without making a scene.
In fact even you can step in and say "Please excuse my husband and I but we have to be..." heading out/or over there/etc etc.

PS its kinda nice knowing you have a man that women want to flirt with but they can't have. That sweet candy is all yours to savor.

Answer 5

jealous...perhaps even a little hostile...angry...with whom? spouse or the flirting person?
indignant I suppose would be my answer...if people want to flirt, they should not be doing so with a married person...it is just bad form

Answer 6

I would be amused. Just as important is how did your husband handle the situation? Because how he handled it probably has a lot to do with how you feel about it. Also, how secure is your relationship? If it needs some work... you might feel angry and jealous.

Answer 7

Maybe a little, but i will get more angry and jealous if he was flirting back... but don't get mad with him if she is flirting.... be glad that he has game.. and other girls want him but remember he wants you......LOL...

Answer 8

Nope and I'll tell you what's hilarious. When the ex calls me up whining that he's bored. I tell him go play in the snow. (Before the divorce I saw him flirt with another woman and throw her in the snow) He'll tell me it ******' summer time, there is no snow! I tell him has he ever heard of the word "improvise" and does he even know it's meaning? Go to his freezer, get ice cubes and throw them on the ground and jump on them. Then I tell him he still expects me to do all the thinking for him, hasn't he learned a ******' thing yet? Pathetic, just pathetic.

Answer 9

She is mine and I trust her so I wouldn't care...
...Unless he put his hands on her. (a man picked up my wife into the air from behind and started feeling on her a few years ago at a club)...
...I literally almost killed him . Very ugly & bad situation.
Luckly we got out of there before the police arrived so I didn't go to jail.

No joke.

Answer 10

Hmmm...nah... I'd just sidle up to my man, wrap my arms around him, give him a huge juicy kiss, and whisper in his ear that we REALLY need to go because I need to be f**ked RIGHT NOW (loud enough for the tramp to hear, of course).

Answer 11

Neither so long as it was not reciprocated! It is not his fault that he is as sexy as he is. I would make sure that I got to him quick smart and make her realise that he is a taken man though.