Marriage & Divorce - 13 July 2007

If your best friend was abusing his wife, and you weren't sure if it's true would you say something or do something?
And what if you knew it's true, would you do something?

This isn't happening to anyone I know, it's for school stuff.

2007-07-13 07:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by ;) 2

How can I make her stop? It's been like 6 years now, she still doesn't realize I don't give a crap about celebrities or Coach handbags.

2007-07-13 07:29:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

At the risk of being extremely unpopular..... to all the unmarried or recently wed people, this is not a question for you. It's meant for people who have been married for > 5 years. Why? Cos they've adequately experienced monogamy. FYI, I'm not looking for a reason/excuse to cyber. I'm just curious what other people think.

This question could also be called "adding spice in the bedroom of a marriage other than the usually 'date night' or 'romance your wife' scenarios."

2007-07-13 07:20:11 · 14 answers · asked by RM 2

husband divorces his wife and leaves all his stuff to the children then remarries.Has his second wife on the title of the house and vehicle and then dies. Does the second wife get the vehicle and house? She is the survivor benefit on the tiltle of the vehicle

2007-07-13 07:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by 8995st 2

2007-07-13 07:13:17 · 31 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4

He works in a business environment with lots of women that are in their mid-20's like us. His job has also started to require that he travel pretty often. When he travels, it's generally with at least 2 other women. I've never seen or heard of anything that would make me doubt him. What's my problem and how do I overcome it. We've talked about it bothering me before and he always assures me that I have nothing to worry about.

2007-07-13 07:10:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife went through a traumatic time before we got married and that supposedly affected her feeling anything during sex... I need some ways that would help her enjoy being with me... Thanks for trying to help.

2007-07-13 07:09:05 · 13 answers · asked by spextommy 1

My B.O.L. spent the night at my and my husband's apartment last night (he's in college and partied a bit too hard, so he crashed on our couch). He farted throughout the night and in my small 700 sq. foot apartment, it left a bad smell this morning. I am at work now, so do you think it will be gone by the time I get home at 5:00pm? I sprayed Oust, but it still smelled on my lunch break. What should I do?

2007-07-13 07:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by jrhod263 3

2007-07-13 07:06:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

for those that are either engaged or married, i like your opinion on having seperate accounts? how has that been wkg for the two of you if you do? do u pay one of the spouse the half of the bill when it comes in? did it create more problems or help solved your money problems? any advice?

2007-07-13 07:00:05 · 18 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3

So far every question is about "my husband is a crack head" , "my wife is dating other men", and my baby daddy ani't giving up no support"

When did yahoo become the Jerry Springer show? I guess most of the decent posters rolled because of the censorship that goes on here!

2007-07-13 06:58:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I'm going out with the guys tonight, and at the club, I dance and grind with some other girls....but don't go home with them or anything?

2007-07-13 06:57:12 · 28 answers · asked by Y-Knot 3

My ex lives with his parents, he is 33 ( loser) anyway we broke up before my daughter was born and he never signed the birth certificate. i filed papers to recieve child support and to establish paternity...he never showed up, that was about a month ago. the court ordered him to be served, they went to the house and his mother answered and she refused to take the paers or sign for them. it says on my account they were left at her feet in plain site...my question is what happens next? i have to go back to court on the 31st of july, if he is not there AGAIN will she be responsible and get in trouble? and what is the next step the court will take?

2007-07-13 06:56:58 · 13 answers · asked by what2do? 2

Me and hubby work together and every time we go home and come back from "lunch" our co-workers are always asking us what we did for lunch.....what da heck.....am I wrong for telling them none of your business??? Or lie about it??

Its really none of their business.

2007-07-13 06:45:35 · 76 answers · asked by **What??** 4

my STB Ex-husband (as stated in an earlier post today) left me for another woman 2 1/2 months ago and she is now pregnant, possibly with his kid. but he has began to call and text me, spilling out all of his feelings, and confiding in me. a month ago all i got from him was "i hate you, i can't stand to even look at you, i wish i never had to see or hear from you again". we have a 2 y/o daughter together, so that's not possible. but i just dont get it ... if he has this other woman (whom he DOES talk about when confiding in me and telling me how torn and depressed he is), then why isn't he crying (literally) to her and telling her all these things? why is he calling and texting ME? he's telling me all this stuff i never thought he would, but stops short when he gets to "there are things i want that i know i can't have" i ask what they are, and he pauses and sayd "i can't tell you". please, GUYS, give me some insight here? why????

2007-07-13 06:37:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

At first I thought that this new system would be good to get rid of the trolls but it has gotten completely out of hand with the continual deleting of answers and "suspension" of accounts.

I have had simple 2-3 word answers like "sorry, no" and "you are wrong" deleted for being "against community guidelines". What the hell is happening here?

2007-07-13 06:36:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife moved out now with her kids (7 y/o and 13 y/o, to where I don’t know two days ago, after I told her I am not driving your 13 y/o son around town at 9: pm as the price of gas is now. She use the car that evening and didn’t put gas in the car, told me she needs my card. I told why u just get the gas while you out, she had money, I told I just pay the bills. You pay for gas and food. She get mad. Her son suppose come home at certain time he late. He doesn’t respect anyone especially his mother, unless he needs something badly. When if you say no, he goes in a rage by slamming kitchen cabinets, hallway doors and also hitting the wall with his fist. Then he starts playing the TV loud. I told I not let a 13 y/o boy run this house. I told him if you don’t like the rules in the house are, get out of the house. I told that in front of my wife. She told me I was wrong to tell him that. I told her this kid not running over me in my house. He does not have respect for my wife or me. She stay home the next day from her temp job, soon I got home she packed her things and left. She told I was wrong to tell a kid that. I told her you told me I am not their father. I can’t punish them. I have an 8 y/o daughter from prior marriage. She just a doll, respects everyone and even to my wife. But my wife thinks I treat her like a princess. I told that what a father suppose to do. I treat her daughter the same way. But my wife doesn’t spend time with her kids. By taking least 30 minutes out of her day, each day to listen what they have to say. They will respect you. She never told her kids about her spending problem (checks bouncing) every week. Her complaints every week is the bank fault. I told her, she needs to budget and we make it; I never had a money issue until my wife. I told her pay a bill on time, she doesn’t. She got a school check; I deposit for her its bounce, she doesn’t know why. Found out she call the school tell them she never got the check and both show up she put one in her account they took the fees she made, and never told me what she did. They put a stop payment one I put in my bank, now I am short in my bank because of her. I told I need her to give me back the money. She said I am not working and no car, I get to you soon as she can. And tell about her son football equipment in my car she wants back. Wants me call my friend about a car for her, she not working, no figure. I really think my wife is bipolar. Should I assist her, give back her son equipment? I know I never get my money back from her. I am seeking a divorce now. She had someone take my belongs while I was at work before?

2007-07-13 06:29:36 · 12 answers · asked by newyorkerhpd 1

My wife has kinda decided that she doesn't want to be with me anymore. She says that she has everything she needs from me but doesn't love me like the feels she does. I am so confused about this. she says that she doesn't want a divorce because it may be the biggest mistake of her life. she wants to be indapendant but needs my help. there is a "2%" chance of me getting back in so she says. what should i do in thissituation.

2007-07-13 06:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't the ladies just stop complaining about her man watching porn, looking at porn, and just join him in the festivities. Look at porn with him to see why he is so excited about porn. Maybe he wants you to be like the women in porn, dress all revealing for him in the house. Maybe we wants you to do the upside horizontal monkey swing with one leg on the chair. Why do women complain so much about it? Why dont you just join the fun and see what the big deal is? It may bring you both closer together and hieghten you sex life.

2007-07-13 06:08:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since some marriages end due to financial
reasons, do you think that couples should keep their
fiances and debts separate?

2007-07-13 06:07:39 · 51 answers · asked by gloried 3

Wife's friend is a new mommy. Real skinny but her boobs ballooned from an "A" to a "C" due to nursuing.

My jaw must have dropped cos I thought I saw her blush when she saw me. I tried real hard to look away but she looked like a wet dream come true.

I mentioned it to my wife (she seemed cool about it), but I keep getting flashbacks of the friend. She never used to turn me on before but she looked like she belonged in a playboy or hustler magazine.

Help me get her out of my head!

2007-07-13 06:03:28 · 40 answers · asked by RM 2

My older sister was dignosed with bipolar disorder(manic depression) she is been acting weird since then. her husband left her and took away her kids from her ,she is falling apart but she refuses to take medications or seek therapy because she thinks she is fine, I am so sad for her yet I cant do anything , and I am so anxcious that this will happen to me too since my husband is no better than her husband. I did not tell my husband about any of this yet, because he might use it against me in the future , I am very sad and I am thinking that what happened to my sister might happen to me too. thats why i am so anxcious and irritated and I am having many arguments with my husbands over old unsolved issues ,but the only reason in my head is my sister I am feeling responsible for what happened to her I dont know why?

2007-07-13 06:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 1

I've been with my husband for 3 years now and married for almost a year I love him very much but do not agree with the way he's been since he joined the military in oct. of last year. It didn't really get too bad until we moved to his first station duty in Texas. when we were both from MI. long ways from home. So it's hard for me to adjust abit. I've been down herer since march 1st. so 4 months now and all 4 months He's been disrespectful, rude, calls me names and insists on getting drunk with his buddies every weekend, 1/2 the time he never does but when he does. He becomes a true asshole to me. He starts to call me a whore, slut, and he doesn't give up. He will sit there and do this the whole night untill he passes out. I've never cheated on him although before we even decided to get married he was being an *** so I broke up with him I did end up sleeping with another guy during this time. and My husband now didn't take the break up seriously I guess and he feels like.

2007-07-13 05:58:51 · 24 answers · asked by Ashley. 3

I want to tell him i no longer love him but i cant. Any suggestions.

2007-07-13 05:57:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Never do you admit your faults, your not acting like somebody who reads the word."

2007-07-13 05:56:35 · 25 answers · asked by September 2

I have children (2), no family. Once my husband and I pass, my children will be growing up alone.
My family is all older, will be gone in a few years, my husband's are also and they live in Germany - no contact for many generations.
No cousins, Aunts Uncles, nothing.
What if something happens to one of them as they grow older...then 1 will be left alone.
Yeah I know - they'll develp friendships and all, but nothing is like family. Who will attend their weddings, graduations, etc...I'm really worried and sitting here in tears thinking about this, as I do quite often. I feel I'm at fault for not having built bonding relationships with more than a few friends (childless) Any advice, help or insight you can provide will be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-13 05:44:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why should i feel bad about giong out on a date if were seperared and the divorce is not final? shes been going out after i left in may. do two wrongs make it right?

2007-07-13 05:37:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so my husband had internet sex and phone sex with this girl who lives in the same state as us and he claims that he didnt do it in real life so it is not cheating.and this girl says that they were going to meet up some day .

2007-07-13 05:29:53 · 62 answers · asked by adriannmodel 2

how do i go about finding clean people??? I'm very shy so i have no clue were to start??

2007-07-13 05:29:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a series relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years. We live together and I think we both love each other. Since relationship grows with time, I want a marriage and have a happy family with him. We started talking about it a few years ago, and he said he needed some time to get ready. And then, we agreed to decide (if we are getting marry or not) later. A couple of years passed, and I asked him recently about it. He said he still is not ready. I am sad and confused. I don't know if he really loves me or not. I want a happy family with someone I love and comfortable. Is it time for me to break up with him and move on with my life?

2007-07-13 05:28:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous