k so my husband had internet sex and phone sex with this girl who lives in the same state as us and he claims that he didnt do it in real life so it is not cheating.and this girl says that they were going to meet up some day .
2007-07-13 05:29:53 · 62 answers · asked by adriannmodel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, that is cheating. In order to cheat another person must some how be involved. That includes: texting, IM, web-cam, e-mail, letters, phone, in person. The girl is real and was involved with your husband.
Do not take this lightly. Your husband has cheated on you and is trying to cover his *ss.
2007-07-13 05:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that I would consider that cheating, but in a different way. He is trying to have a narrow definition of cheating, but yeah, he cheated, just not in the traditional way.
Tell him that when there was no internet, actual sex was the only cheating, but since there is internet, than those things on the internet is also cheating
2007-07-13 05:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you are with someone else in a way that you should ONLY be with your spouse - it IS cheating! Yes, I absolutely consider Internet and phone sex cheating. Although he wasn't physically intimate (supposedly) with her, he still shared an intimate moment with another woman!
He is trying to justify his actions by telling you it isn't a big deal! You should consider it a big deal! If he is willing to do this, chances are he wouldn't hesitate to meet her and continue this relationship. I think it is time to re-evaluate whether this is the kind of relationship you want to be in!
2007-07-13 05:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is definately cheating, even phone and cyber sex is cheating in my opinion because you are still sharing something somewhat special. He shouldn't have to do that stuff. He has you! I would either go get into some counseling or seek legal counseling for a divorce! You are crazy if you put up with that! No one deserves it!
2007-07-13 05:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by .:*:.mommy 2 joe-joe.:*:. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. Even though they may have never met, any time a married man spends time talking to or e mailing a girl in a sexual way when he should be doing that with his wife, he is cheating. I wonder if the girl knew he was married.
2007-07-13 05:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? if so don't let anything this small cause you to leave him. Yes its cheating but who said when you got married you wouldn't have ups and downs. You shouldn't leave him when yall took vows you said "for better or for worst" and I guess times have been going so good now when worst is knocking on the door you want to take cover. Talk to him about it and let him know (in a civilized way lol) how its makes you feel and your thoughts on it. Now if he truly loves you he will listen and take it to heart. But trust and believe that he's going to have his faults that will piss you off but that's why you love him because he is him no matter what situation yall have gone through or will go through. best of luck! :)
2007-07-13 05:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by luv it 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes its cheating he had phone SEX and Internet SEX the key word in both of those sentences are the sex hello Yes it is cheating don't let him weasel his way out of it
2007-07-13 06:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating and i would get rid of his *** and go find someone else! If he's doing that you know he's gonna cheat on you with that whore if he hasn't already you deserve a man that won't do that to you there is still a few good guys left that won't cheat on their wives! Girl get rid of him before u get hurt worse.
2007-07-13 07:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by little lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would say it is, A. because he's cheating emotionally on you and B. its bad enough she's in the same state so its only a matter of time. i think your a better person than that and you need to choose, do you want to live that way, or do you want to have peice of mind without the drama?
2007-07-13 05:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by You asked 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your husband RESORTED to internet sex and phone sex with this girl, cause she wasn't physically there. And yes, it's still cheating. It's kind of sick for a married man to be doing that. What is he, desparate? For god's sake, he's not an animal. This guy needs to exert some self control.
2007-07-13 05:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋