Me and hubby work together and every time we go home and come back from "lunch" our co-workers are always asking us what we did for lunch.....what da heck.....am I wrong for telling them none of your business??? Or lie about it??
Its really none of their business.
2007-07-13 06:45:35 · 76 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im not mad, but this lady really was trippin me out today.
2007-07-13 06:46:24 · update #1
Tell them the truth... If you must know I just got laid :)
2007-07-13 06:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by To The Point 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
You shouldn't be defensive about what you and your husband did for lunch or any other time for that matter. If somebody asks you just say you had lunch. People can be very nosy but the more you act defensive the more it makes people suspicious. You're right that it's none of their business, but it would be better to shrug off the question with a simple answer then to be guarded.
Maybe it's the broad smile on your face and your rosy cheeks when you get back that makes them wonder. Just be polite at first and if they press you on the matter tell them to "Get a life."
2007-07-13 06:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with what your doing your married and i'd do that too if me and my husband worked together! No you are not wrong for telling them none of your business don't lie just keep on telling them that. People are nosey and are gonna ask stuff like that cause they are lonely and wish they could do that!
2007-07-13 07:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by little lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time anyone asks you what you did, tell them that you just had completely mind -blowing, rock your world, knocked your socks off, still seeing stars and can't breathe right yet-sex. That should shut a few mouths-- maybe open a few too. At least then maybe some people will keep their noses out of your married business.
2007-07-17 16:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by roloswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There just acting childish. Just tell them it is non of your business. Or you could tell them what you ate for several days and if that don't shut them up. Tell them that you went home and your husband took you before you ever got into the house. And get into really nasty detail about the whole thing. Must of them will probably back off at this point
2007-07-13 06:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them you ran errands to pay bills, went shopping for something you saw over the weekend, or maybe met some friends for lunch. It's not that they are intruding, but remember, you leave together, you come in together. It may just be conversation. But if you get annoyed, use on of the phrases listed above. Then get back to work.
2007-07-13 09:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by glennfiddich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah what you do out side of work or on your lunch is none of there business if you are having sex its with your hubby. and it really doesnt matter and they need to get some more excitement in there lives and stop talking about yours
2007-07-13 06:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by chad t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have boring little lives and you are giving them something to talk about. When you tell someone that it is none of there business it just adds fuel to there fire. We had lunch is best response.
2007-07-13 06:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I work together and this always happens to us. We just smile and keep walking.
You never have to tell anyone any of your business. If you and your husband had lunch break sex, so what...Your co-workers may be upset because they aren't getting lunchbreak sex or any type of sex...
2007-07-20 09:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a joke of it. or say something like the toilet was overflowed and had to spend the whole lunch working on it. Give her real vulgar and descriptive details about the toilet.
The more evasive you are the more she is going to pry. she is either nosy or trying to live vicariously through you.
2007-07-13 06:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might say that it may be terrific in case you may shop your distance faraway from this coworker. you have a overwhelm in this person and in basic terms being around him while pointless isn't smart. in case you get in contact with this person there is gonna be outcomes, and the main substantial element is that GOD would not like for married people to devote adultery. think of on the subject of ways you may sense in case you have been married and your mate have been having lunch and dinners, and getting rides with a coworker or everyone that has a overwhelm on your mate. you comprehend specially circumstances we ought to positioned ourselves specially circumstances and think of how we'd sense if we've been in the different person footwear. stay faraway from the area and don't get harm or harm everyone else. think of on the subject of the persons mate and young toddlers that could desire to be in contact. consistently bear in mind the asserting, what you do to others would be finished to you, in easy terms worse. In last: do unto others as you have got others do unto you.
2016-12-10 11:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋