Why don't the ladies just stop complaining about her man watching porn, looking at porn, and just join him in the festivities. Look at porn with him to see why he is so excited about porn. Maybe he wants you to be like the women in porn, dress all revealing for him in the house. Maybe we wants you to do the upside horizontal monkey swing with one leg on the chair. Why do women complain so much about it? Why dont you just join the fun and see what the big deal is? It may bring you both closer together and hieghten you sex life.
2007-07-13 06:08:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this question is not for me, it is for all the questions on here that i read about men and porn, why women dont like porn. i just wanted to ask my question based on their questions.
male strip club and porn is different, when men watch porn we dont get hit in the face with a boob, women at a strip club get their face, mouth, eyes, head, chest, hit with a strippers privates.
2007-07-13 06:34:44 · update #1
Because we feel like when in a relationship, if he really loves us, we're all he needs to look at, and if he is sitting there watching other chicks on tv/ movies etc. it kinda hurts thinking that we aren't the only one he wants.. Not only that, thoughts lead to action, and if he is checking out some random chick on a video, why wouldn't he be thinking about some random chick walking down the street or one that he works w, if you don't have those thoughts in your head, more than likely cheating or doing it w another chick wouldn't come to mind in a more public situation. Besides if a husband really loves and respects his wife, shouldn't he be happy to do what she asks of him? I would do anything my fiance asks of me and expect the same respect back. It's not the fact that i'm intimidated by other women.. I just don't think it's appropriate, but then again, i come from a very religious home as does he. He wants porn, we can tape a video together of us, but not of some stranger. And I would never put my husband through me looking at other men, especially mostly naked ones, he is the only one i have eyes for
2007-07-13 06:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-17 14:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A porn famous person does no longer have the values, loyalty or dedication i desire in a dating. Hell no, if i replaced into single i does in no way evaluate marrying a porn famous person. possibly a guy who's into swinging or an open dating could be extra ideal to someone like that.
2016-11-09 05:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by olli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman complain because they feel degraded and unappreciated. Of course he wants you to be more like the women in the porn, but that is in most cases totally unrealistic. Most women don't have the money for the plastic surgery a lot of these women had to have to achieve their looks. A lot of these women are drug addicted anorexics (I know not all). I'm not against porn believe it or not, but if you want to get your jollies off on that, fine, but don't expect me to live up to the same standards that the magazine or movie provides. Don't mix up fantasy with reality. That's where the problems begin. I'm up for a lot of things sexually, but it seems a lot of men replace their gf or wives for the fantasy and become addicted to it. How is your gf or wife just supposed to accept it then?
2007-07-13 06:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Expecting women to just "accept" something they find morally wrong or repulsive isn't going to happen.
Some women like porn, some don't. No woman should be expected to "just stop complaining about her man watching porn, looking at porn, and just join him in the festivities".
Personally, I think if a man or woman wants/needs porn in their life, so what? As long as it doesn't interfere with their sex lives, what does it hurt?
2007-07-13 06:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Or maybe it will drive a wedge between them.
People in porn movies are actors....no real relationship is like that all the time (dh & I have times when it's like that, but not always). When people watch it, it sets up an expectation that a real woman can't meet.
As far as magazines go, those images are airbrushed & the most widely attractive models generally starve themselves and live otherwise unhealthy lifestyles. No real woman can measure up to that standard either.
I don't like the idea of my dh cheating even mentally...I don't cheat mentally either. Porn is an open invitation to cheat mentally.
2007-07-13 06:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by StacieG 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Porn is a guy thing, because men like the visuals... i can't put any man down for doing what he likes, or what comes natural.
many women don't "get it" and so they moan and gripe about it.. instead of minding their own business? i even read where one girl took all her boyfriend's porn magazines and videos out from under his bed and threw them away? (as if she had the right to rifle though his personal items?)
i couldn't care less if my guy looks at porn or not. it doesn't interest me, but then, everyone is different, and i don't expect him to enjoy MY passtimes either...
If YOU want your girl to be more revealing, exciting sexually and join in the fun, ASK HER... stop biznitching about it! she will let you know what she likes... if you communicate your desires.
end of note....
2007-07-13 06:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I agree with you . I don't have a problem with porn , but the question is why don't women just join in ? Different strokes for different folks. Why don't men just join in and let us women go shopping------when we want to ?
2007-07-13 06:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by margo322 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I read the topic I first thought this was going to be about being married and being in the porn industry. But I digress, tell her it's like makeup. Women can't live without that. Guys like sports and porn. Porn for women are "chick flicks". And most men don't want to sit through that, but you force us. So why is porn so bad? We're even considerate enough to hide it and watch it when you're not around. What's to be upset about?
2007-07-13 06:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Randy C 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
mrs hog rider wonders about the porn and women issue as well... she doesnt care. but then shes not sexually repressed, scared or intimidated by it either.. i think women who are opposed to it are suffering from low self esteem and in addition to that are trying to control the sexual relationship, or at least thats what i get from the posters in this forum. they arent self confident, probably dont like sex an/or are afraid the man will ask for what he likes to see, and are not comfortable with their sexuality... i mean who could be jealous or threatened by a picture on a tv or computer screen or a piece of paper???? silly! you cannot have a sexual or emotional relationship with a tv screen, computer screen or a piece of paper, so there goes the infidelity angle....
2007-07-13 06:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋