My wife has kinda decided that she doesn't want to be with me anymore. She says that she has everything she needs from me but doesn't love me like the feels she does. I am so confused about this. she says that she doesn't want a divorce because it may be the biggest mistake of her life. she wants to be indapendant but needs my help. there is a "2%" chance of me getting back in so she says. what should i do in thissituation.
2007-07-13 06:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow...been there done that, only I chose to stay and he continued with his internet love affair, relocated me and the kids for her and we eventually divorced and he still never married or dated her. When they say the love is questionable, start healing yourself now. Go to counseling, lean on friends, talk to lots of people, get stronger and set yourself up to begin again. You don't want to be with someone who is gives you a 2% chance...those are not favorable odds.
Good Luck...I remarried the man of my dreams two years ago, so life does go on and the right woman for you is out there, but you won't find her waiting on 2% to increase.
2007-07-13 06:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by YankeeBelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Read your own question. The answer is right there in front of you. She doesn't want a divorce as you have a 2% chance? She "needs" your help, though she wants to be independent? Sounds more like she wants to feel better about certain flings and wants you to pay for them. Let her go guy, but don't pay for jack! .......or Bob, or Bill, or Tom. Get my point? Let her have her way, only do it YOUR way and divorce her. To set her free to run at your expense is ultimately the stupidest thing that you can do.
2007-07-13 06:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes in love with someone else. Ask her straight up what the heck she wants. Shes a weirdo! Tell her your not the type a guy to listen to all this confusing bullcrap. Either you love me...or you don't. I think you deserve better than a women who is so emotionally confused like that. If she says she doesn't love you, then there is no fixing it and move on. Good luck man
2007-07-13 06:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait for her to decide what she wants? Divorce the woman....she says she doesn't love you. How long is she willing to wait so as to not make the biggest mistake of her life? How long are you willing to wait?
2007-07-13 06:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to go for counselling together...she might be distracted and confused at the moment.however you cannot just wait while she decides if you will get that 2% chance with her best of luck.
2007-07-13 06:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Versacetica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is definitely confused about what she wants from you--she wants to be independent, but not divorce? It is time to start thinking about what YOU want from her and honestly let her know. Good luck to you.
2007-07-13 06:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by MNature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh!!! baby----- don't walk---- run to the nearest attorney.... she is using you and your love.... she loves u,,? but don't want to be with you.... ?? what kind of a mix message is she trying to send to you...???
she wants to be independent??? but she doesn't want a divorce...? oh... plzzzzzzzzzzz... anything u acquire is half hers if u do not divorce.---- 2% she will take u back... ? well i am 98% you should not want to go back.... .. either she is in 100% or she is out 100% you don't turn love on like a water faucet.... get real....
2007-07-13 06:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words...."I don't love you...I don't want you to touch me...I don't want you at all but leaving you is a mistake because I like this lifestyle that's provided but I want to go out and get laid by someone else and have a great time"
Thats what she's telling you sport. plain and simple.
So..what are YOU going to do?
2007-07-13 06:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you could just start an open relationship with another women and see if your wife would be cool with it , if that dont work you guys should just leave each other for good , good luck to you and hope everything works out
2007-07-13 06:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by justaguy2709 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to take gingko biloba cuz her drivel makes no iota of sense.
2007-07-13 06:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋