Wife's friend is a new mommy. Real skinny but her boobs ballooned from an "A" to a "C" due to nursuing.
My jaw must have dropped cos I thought I saw her blush when she saw me. I tried real hard to look away but she looked like a wet dream come true.
I mentioned it to my wife (she seemed cool about it), but I keep getting flashbacks of the friend. She never used to turn me on before but she looked like she belonged in a playboy or hustler magazine.
Help me get her out of my head!
2007-07-13 06:03:28 · 40 answers · asked by RM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is the first time I've ever posted. I'm amazed at the 27+ responses I've gotten in 20 mins.
Not going to set any records straight. Suffice it to say, my wife knows about my boob preferences - she noticed how much more attention I gave them when she was nursing. She's even talked about having enhancements, although it would be tough to explain it to our kids why we should be happy with ourselves. FYI, I'd never cheat on her - she has several other body parts (*** and legs that don't quit) that I oogle at. Shallow? Yes, I am a hot-blooded male and I like sins of the flesh. Thanks to all for the replies.
2007-07-13 06:22:39 · update #1
It makes me laugh when I see all the mad responses.
But hey don't feel ashamed, because thats just human nature to find someone attractive. No one is a saint, the people who have answered you angrily cannot deny they aren't guilty of being human.
This thing your going through is just a dumb phase that you will get over soon. If you want to get rid of it sooner, then just do something that will keep your mind busy like watch tv, read a book, exercise, or do something for your wife like take her out and just talk to her as much as you can. The more talking you do with someone the easier it is to forget sometihng that was on your mind.
2007-07-13 06:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by HITMAN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Picture yourself coming up along side your wife's friends beside as she sleeps clad in just a sheer white nightie as you stand in the shower then unload all over her and hold that image, repeat it as often as you need to. Don't tell your wife. Make sure you save enough for her too. She'll never know the difference and eventually the fantasy will grow old and will leave your mind.
THIS is an honest answer to you question vs all the opinionated folks.
2007-07-13 06:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happens. don't stare it wont stay like that and its filled with milk -maybe you can imagine mikl squirting out if it turns you off. LOL- ANYWAY don't keep mentioning it or looking - don't make you wife jealous and let it be known you were attracted. You'll embarrass your wife and some women that aren't very attractive will flaunt on purpose. don't let her make yo wife feel bad either. you were taken by surprise and are a boob man- it happens - just don't oogle!
2007-07-13 06:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to look, and even have a fantasy now and then... but seriously, think about the consequences of acting on that.
There are reasons you're with your wife and things you love about her (and of course it's not all physical). If you did anything with this woman it would destroy your family and hers.
The best way to get her out of your head is to stay away from her, and try to concentrate on something else. If that doesn't work, talk to a therapist who can help you through it (I'm serious... it can help).
2007-07-13 06:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kavasa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you !!! You say you love your wife ,then keep that in mind. Love does not come easy . Having a nice looking friend is always better.You should not want to mess up your relationship with your wife so get that thought out of your mind. Friends are always better to be around . Get that thought out of your head be a good husband to your wife that's her friend should be your too.
2007-07-13 06:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tina the cat lover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just think about that right now if you squeezed her boob milk will squirt out. No lie a stripper did it to me once while I was getting a lap dance. It was the weirdest thing I've ever seen and was a HUGE turn off. And just give it 3 months and they'll shrink back to a flabby pancake A size. Belive me pancake tittys are not hot!
2007-07-13 06:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's lucky that men find her so attactive after giving birth. Don't get to attracted to her though because that will cause problems.
My husband loved my boobs after giving birth. I accidently flashed a few of my husbands friends who were staring at my chest. I wasn't used to having all that extra weight up top and had to learn what to do with it. Don't worry, if she was an A cup, she'll be flat as a pancake when she gets through nursing. They acutually get smaller for the first six months after quiting and then fill out again.
2007-07-13 06:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Button 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go get one of the aboved mentioned magazines and replace your new infatuation. Or you can start treating your wife like she's the one you're infatuated with. Just a thought.
2007-07-13 06:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is really a way to get her out of your head.
I mean if you think she's hott it would be hard not to think about her.
I guess you could try thinking about her as she was before you were attracted to her & then you will probably eventually stop.
but that wouldn't really work because you'd see her then you would think about her again.
you really just have to control what you think about.
it will be hard at first but it will become easier.
i hope things work out!
2007-07-13 06:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you saw was a temporary breast enlargement. They are only rentals, so to speak. When she's done nursing she be returning them to where they came from. How are you finding any attraction to them when they have a baby attached to them anyway? That was a huge turn off to me when my wife was nursing.
2007-07-13 06:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Scott S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋