Is it cheating?

Question

If I'm going out with the guys tonight, and at the club, I dance and grind with some other girls....but don't go home with them or anything?

Answer 1

what does your wife or girlfriend think? It really is up to her not anyone else. If you don't think you can tell her, than it is cheating

Answer 2

Yes it is cheating! How would you like it if your girlfriend was bumping and grinding on some guys at a club?! I bet you would be pissed wouldn't you? Just think about what your saying man you should have enough sense to know that is wrong cause obviously you feel bad!

Answer 3

From a strictly physical standpoint, possibly not. As you aren't engaging in intercourse. But ask yourself A: how would you feel if roles were reversed? and B: If you're going this far today, how far will you go next time?
From an emotional stand point, it sure is. You are basically showing a lack of respect and loyalty to someone you profess to love. In the emotional realm you are not only disrespecting her but being abusive as well. and all for a fleeting physical stimulation. If you think that little of your girlfriend you should just cut her loose and show at least a little respect.

Answer 4

Personally, I don't think that is cheating. Just don't lie about it to your girl or get upset if she dances/grinds with other guys.

Answer 5

That is not right for you to do.Do you love your woman, Tell her see how she reacts. Then ask yourself am I cheating. Love is not going out with the Boys dancing with other women grinding on them . Turn the table how would toy feel. Your cheating your self. Not good to do... Unfaithful

Answer 6

I dont think its cheating, but if you respect the one your with than its not something you should do, cause remember sometimes one small thing can lead to something bigger, and Im sure you wouldnt want some other guy dancing with her the way your talking about dancing with other woman. just think about what you do, I dont think just dancing with someone casually is wrong, but the grinding and other stuff is something I think she wouldnt like.

Answer 7

I'm not sure I'd say it was cheating, but it's certainly disrespectful of your lady. What are you doing grinding on other girls if you have a girlfriend/wife anyway?

If you have to ask about it, don't do it.

Answer 8

I don't really consider that "cheating"...but i would come unglued to see mine doing that. Think about it...if you're grinding on her then your probably thinking about going home with her. If you wouldn't want your girl letting some guy grind up on her while you weren't around...then just don't do it.

Answer 9

Technically it is not cheating...but it is temptation. You may be able to walk away from it tonight, but the more comfortable you get about it, the more likely it will lead to something else...after all, nobody just jumps into sex- its a gradual thing, and I would say bumpin and grindin in the club with club rats is defentitly opening a can of worms that you may not be ready for. Why risk it? bump and gring with your girl in the club, not some other man's.

Answer 10

If you're wife or girlfriend were there would you still grind with other girls? Then it's cheating. If you saw your wife or girlfriend grinding with other guys, would you be angry? Then it's cheating.

Answer 11

In my opinion...absolutely. But, it really depends on how your partner feels about it. It's disrespectful to the one who invests emotions, intimacy and sexuality into the relationship to have it cheapened by useless "grinding".