I want to tell him i no longer love him but i cant. Any suggestions.
2007-07-13 05:57:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to leave him before he beats you again. Don't tell him anything just leave.
2007-07-13 06:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek sme councilling on the matter. You were abused by your husband twice too many times and you possibly cant wait until he does it again cause it will never stop. Telling him you love him may earn you another beating from this man and i propose you try to leave and go live with family members or a really close friend or get a place of your own, take out a restrainig order since he gonna come looking for you and then serve him up some divorce papers. you dont have to say anything - just do it. Life will go on - you deserve better than that weak good for nothing man thats beating on you. Good Luck
2016-05-17 03:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do that there is a possiblity that he will beat you again. (My mother escaped from an abusive husband aka my dad) Without him knowing I would start the proceeding for a divorce ( the papers) then find a friends or family members and make them aware of the situation and ask to stay with them and move all of your stuff out of your residence while he's not at home and leave the divorce papers. This may sound extrem but it's the safest route. My mother left my dad not soon after neighbor down the street tried to leave a husband who had beat her a couple times. He beat her to death in the front hallway as she tried to escape. My mother always said once a beater always a beater. They have that mean streak in them and you never know what will set it off and come lashing out. Good luck darlin' and brightest blessings!
2007-07-13 06:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont do it alone cuz if he beats u no telling what he might do to u alone. Do it in a very public place with alot of people u know and care bout u around u. After that stay well away from him and never go back.
2007-07-13 06:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?
Please get support from a womens' shelter. They help you to understand why you are staying and other challenges you face.
You and your man may be able to work things out together, or it might be better for you to leave him. Maybe you are afraid to leave him and any security he offers.
If you fear a future beating, please leave while you are still capable of making a new start.
2007-07-13 06:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to tell him you no longer love him and he has already best you twice and you can't that means you are scared of him...and if he's done it twice already he will do it again...you really need to get out...try and talk to someone..like a faimly member or a support group..or even go to your local police department...someone that can help you to get away from him before he does it again...next time maybe you last time you don't know...please go and get some help...
2007-07-13 06:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man beats you ONCE you should drop him and run like hell.
There is NO excuse in this world for that behaviour. Any woman who puts up with it just ONE time and stays needs her head seen to.
2007-07-13 06:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Terry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeal, girl friend... say to ur self... IF BEATING ME, HITTING ME IS ... HIS WAY OF SHOWING ME, THAT HE LOVES ME.. THEN I CAN LIVE WITH OUT THE BEATING AND HIM...
U NEED TO RELAY THAT TO HIM... or walk away.. and loose contact with him... I was in your shoes many years ago.. and I came to that conclusion... after every beating,, he would want to make up and say, i didn't mean tooo,baby,,, I still love you., baby.... U still love me,baby? Until one day, i could not say that I loved him any more,,,
to ans. ur question... YOU shouldn't love a man? boy! who beats on you.. not once ,, twice or ever... !!!!
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good luck... cause hitting is not ... loving.. it is anger... he needs help...
if he is mad at the world then he needs to deal with it,,, not take it out on you...
2007-07-13 06:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling and get away from him. No man should ever physically abuse a woman. the smart woman wont put up with that either.
2007-07-13 06:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youy might still love him, but you deserve to love him from a distance. leave him teh first chance you get , and get counseling there are many placed that can help u get through this tough time. you need to love yourself enough to move on.
2007-07-13 06:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by yellabanana77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋