I mean, i love to have sex with my husband, i would do it every night if we could, but sometimes, i wonder, men cheat when there not getting enough, but do you think they'd cheat when there getting to much, i don't want my hubby to get bored becasue we've done every thing and he gets it so much, i don't beleive at all he'd cheat on me, but do you think it's possible men will cheat when they get so much?.....would just like to see peoples opinion on this and if theres any men who have cheated although they got plentey of sex at home....
2007-07-13 11:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a wonderful hubby and has good values and has never cheated in the past but i'm just curious about this,
2007-07-13 11:21:40 · update #1
Its funny you wonder that, too. I wonder the same thing. My husband had an affair and blamed it on too little sex at home. So, after deciding to stay married, I developed the attitude that I was gonna be damned that I was gonna loose my husband to some whore just cuz I didnt want to meet his neeeds. Now, I'm scared that he'll get bored with the same old booty and go out and seek variety. Like you, we do it every chance we get. I try to bring out my freakiness...lol...to spice it up, cuz us women get bored too.
YOu ask a really good question. And unfortunately there is no easy answer to all of these cheating questions. ONe just can never know.
2007-07-13 11:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People don't cheat because they get too much or too little sex, that is just the excuse. They cheat because they're horny and lack values. If someone marries a cheater, he'll cheat even if he married Angelina Jolie. If a woman marries a non cheater, he won't cheat no matter how bad it gets. It's a principle thing. If your hubby has good values, then you'll be allright.
2007-07-13 18:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
For the dumbass men that cheat.....I don't thin k they always cheat because they don't get enough. I think their 2 cc brain figures they need something 'different'.
So, in some cases it's not about frequency, it's about boredom.
I've never gotten bored of whom I'm with. See....I do it right. I fall in love with someone and I'm in it 100%.....all my eggs are on one basket. My fantasies are about one woman, my desires are about one woman, my thoughts are about one woman, and my love is about ONE woman.
A lot of men, for whatever reason, don't feel this way. They get bored and want the 'sample platter'....same goes for women!
2007-07-13 18:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is the cheating type it will not matter how much sex he is getting at home, because its always going to be different with another partner. You need to work on your trust issues, unless there is maybe another sign that made you suspicious?
2007-07-13 18:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by unpublished critic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i PERSONALLY don't think men cheat because of too little too much sex. I think men/women cheat for ego boost. They cheat because they have the personality and lack of values to not care. I don't think people cheat for the actual sex "in most cases" i think it's deeper then that to fill some void in them self some need to sew their wild oats crap. however just my thoughts on it..
2007-07-13 18:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I get it everyday at home, I would only cheat on my wife with my wife. Maybe make her wear a mask or something.
Having sex everyday will make me horny and I think of other women if I can't relieve that horniness on my wife.
2007-07-13 18:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by RM 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Now I get it!
More sex = I'll cheat?
I highly doubt it.
Nice play on reverse psychology though.
Humorous question.
2007-07-14 05:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Fixguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think only men do it, women also have the same response. I have been with my wife for 6 years and i love her so much. We sure had a lot of sex but the main think i love her so much is her trust.
2007-07-13 18:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are having a lot of GOOD sex, you don´t have to worry about. If he loves you a lot, then you already have your answer.
He won´t cheat.
2007-07-13 18:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by helloy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if a man ( or woman for that matter) is going to cheat, he'll keep up sex with you for the charade.
2007-07-13 18:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋