Me: gutted.
Not the affair but the total lack of emotion, not even the slightest I'm sorry but.....
2007-07-13 11:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Rabid Dog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can forgive the affair,
Just the emotion bit that takes the biscuit.
Still love the girl tho, been together a lon long time, totally mind f$%^ed at the minute tho.
2007-07-13 11:51:17 · update #1
sometimes people wrongly believe it is best to just gloss over and behave as it never happened.. sounds like a time for so long overdue talking. have you ask why and how she feels now.. she might be sorry but struggling to find a way to say it..i wish you all the best and am sorry for your pain,hope you guys work it out..
2007-07-13 12:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Redmuppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, mate, but this is the big "IT."
Emotion or not you have now lost the one thing - trust - which can hold even the most mismatched couples together.
The truth is she left you a long time ago. Not because you were cruel or inferior - just because she left the relationship without actually moving out.
Move out and move on. Keep your self respect and find the right one for you.
There is a good reason that cheating (although they call it adultery) was the first reason they could think of when they made divorce legal.
2007-07-13 18:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-13 22:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid she is trying to hurt you so that you are the one to finish the relationship.Its the cowards way out,thats why she isnt showing any emotion,she doesnt give a monkeys but doesnt want to be the one who ends the relationship as she seems to be more bothered about what other people will say..Im sorry you had to go through all this but im afraid its time to leave her, otherwise she will just keep hurting you.
2007-07-13 20:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by L C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is not sorry for what she did. Its one thing to screw up, even that bad, and show remorse for it, but to blow it off like she stole a candy bar from the store, now thats pretty bad. I forgave my husband for cheating, but only cuz of the remorse he showed. If she is not sorry, chances are this has happened before and you didnt know and/or she'll do it again. People often repeat their behavior if they are not truely sorry for it the first time they did it.
2007-07-13 18:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She trying to tell you to give her a divorce so she won't have to sneek around anymore. I think it would be best for you to get out of this situation before she brings you home a gift that will kill you (AIDS). Not to mention some of the other things she will bring you. I'm sorry , but this isn't the first time. She has done this before, you just caught her this time. Get out before you get sick
2007-07-13 18:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgiving is easy.bottom line is trust has been lost,trust is the rock,foundation of any relationship/marriage.its like living without a heart,cant be done,it will creep back at you at every argument and you be wondering what shes up to.no counsellor can fix this,no can it be glued back together
2007-07-14 02:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i put myself in her shoes, i would probably do something like this without remorse if i was getting back at someone.....did u do something similar to her...or did u piss her off with something very important.....it would either be this or maybe ur relationship just lost that spark...but then again that isnt a good enough reason for her to cheat on u...
sorry to hear your situation....
2007-07-13 19:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by kera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be harsh but get rid of the partner, if the person shows no responce then that would say to me that she doesn't care about you or your relationship.
sorry for being so blunt
2007-07-13 18:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by vexon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your seat backs and tray tables in their full upright position and hands and arms in the ride at all times. It is probably action that you need to take to protect yourself from the future, unless of course you can deal with that kind of partnership.
2007-07-13 18:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋