im talking to this guy right..long distance as friends...when i told him he needs to communicate more..like text me first, or email me first, or call me first without me doing all this stuff first...he saids thats too much work ...keep in mind this is he same man that saids..he dont like the phones..and he admires me and likes me and cant wait to see me...and wants me
Im alil bit confused here
2007-07-13 08:41:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
irrlevent question
2007-07-13 08:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by snowmonkay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep an eye on this guy. You say you're in a long distance friendship, right? Did you meet online? He could be married... he could be a player.... he could just be that lazy.
None of these traits make him a good person to get to know. If he's married or playing you, than this is as far as it'll go.... but if he's lazy about emailing or texting..... imagine how lazy he'd be about taking out trash, or doing work around the house. Yikes!
Time to cut bait and leave this guy........ he isn't worth your time if he won't invest some of his own........
2007-07-13 15:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people really don't like talking on the phone, or emailing, or anything if you're not within arms reach, but if he's not making an effort to communicate or get to know you better without you being right in front of him, I'd say he's interests are more physical.
2007-07-13 15:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, didn't you kind of answer your own question. If he doesn't like the phone, does that mean he's not crazy about texting and not crazy about computers either? He may just be the kind of guy that doesn't do well with communication like that, but does really want to be with you, just doesn't want to have the hassle of all that other stuff. If you know he's for real, then don't question it and do everything you can to go see him!
2007-07-13 15:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly Blessed if this how you see yourself, then wait on the one person that never tires or complaines of the work your chasing when you should be sitting back and relaxing and letting the race come to you remember ,if he really wants you he will make a way and show you so don't get impatient and start making demands then you look desperate and that' s when you get played ,BE SMART AND CAREFUL.
2007-07-13 22:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mike W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to pursue you, you have to quit chasing after him. Not only are you turning him off by pursuing him, but he's not learned that he doesn't have to pursue you because you beat him to the punch every, single time. If you don't stop doing this, he's going to tire of you real quick. You're way too easy of a catch.
2007-07-13 15:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much work huh? Guess you're not worth the effort. In essence that's what he's saying, although not straight out.
I can't imagine why you'd be confused unless your a complete ditz. I would be insulted if it were me.
2007-07-13 15:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you are both a bit too immature emotionally to have a stable, adult relationship. Why does he have to text you first, or email you first....before what? Before he calls you??? That's silly and redundant. Your question doesn't really make the situation clear.
2007-07-13 15:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its long distance i would let him go because he probably has more people out there that are just lyk u
he doesn't lyk the phone because on the computer he can talk to more of you at a time
ur probably being played
2007-07-13 15:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Becca H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should think about him because u know hearts always beats for each other and the others cant understand feelings, but u know what he can feels, and u know the best that may he love u more then ur nearest guys, its not sure that u love that guy who is ur neighbour, may u shall spend ur life with that guy who give u more respect,love and care in ur life.
2007-07-13 16:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Blessed,
This guy is not a blessing. Dump him. He is high maintenance and doesn't want to do his part. You have had an early warning. Heed it.
Sorry, but there will be someone better, I'm sure.
2007-07-13 15:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋