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2007-07-13 09:37:35 · 30 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some people don`t like to have sex
2007-07-15 05:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But it ususaly means there are other problems in your relationship. Either your husband doesn't do it for you, or you just may be stressed out and tired and have no time for it. I was a very sexualy active teenager and got married at 18. By the time I was 20 I had a baby and a full time jo band a house and all sorts of stress. Sex became another chore I had to do.
I left him about three years ago and sex is woderfull. I have no hit 30 and it's friggen amazing!
If there are no other problems in your relationship and it's not a matter of being overworked and over stressed, then I would suggest councling. Otherwise, I'd chalk it up to a busy life and an insensative husband! The good news is when you hit 30, you'll be like a teenage boy ready to hump stranger's legs in the park!
2007-07-20 07:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by foxxinaboxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband this is not normal. Do you tell each other what you like and what you don't like? Please go to a Doctor before your life goes to space. A lot of women just have orgasm another ways than intercourse, and this is perfectly normal, is it the point? Sex means so many things and not only intercourse that should be only the final of hot and lovely moments. Sex shall last long and with lots of deep pleasure. Between you nothing should be forbiden, if brings pleasure for you. Please you both,built the occasion, dinner on candle lights, some wine, a french perfume, sexy dressed, low voices, eyes on eyes, hands holding hands, hearing romantic music. Forget the bed during those moments, and use it only at the end of an endless night. Better to have quality than too often, but never without pleasure at it's maximum level. Try it, you're a beautiful woman and please don't waste precious moments life can bring you. Don't let it for tomorrow, talk to your husband and to a Doctor,do it now, ask for help and do your best.
I'm sure you'll do it. Good luck.
2007-07-21 09:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HATE having sex with your husband or just with guys in general???MY question is did the guy KNEW before he married you,if so then he hates it too....I think you might have a problem with OR just the general idea of sex etc.or you dont like/hate it the way you are doing it......have you tried different things,could be very helpful and this way you stop or CHANGE if it doesnt feel good,your hubby should be willing to undergo it though,what kinda guy is he anyway....OR you could be lesbian or bi-sexual??In general you WANT to have sex cause you love your guy....so deep down something besides the SEX is lacking...and Im sure deep down you know the answer,somewhere in your youth,very strict upbringing maybe...this caused you not to enjoy sex or maybe some ex did **** you real bad....Its a shame though green eyed beauty.....you would FEEL much better after some GOOD sex
2007-07-20 21:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it has nething to do with u hating sex, maybe its just having sex with ur hubby seems more like a chore than a pleasure. If your sex life is routine ( same position, same room, etc...) then it will get boring and not worth the hassel for u. Or you just have so much to do sex is the last thing u want. But having sex not only lets off alot of stress but can help ur body n many ways. Forgot exactally what, read it somewhere.
2007-07-20 19:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dunkyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think so but my wife is the same way. But she loved it for 15 years and the stopped. I just asked a similar question. Did you love it and then stopped or did you always hate it? Was it always just one position? Did he make sure you were always satisfied before he quit? I'm asking because I did it all oral, on top, on the bottom and any way you can imagine. I just love it and love satisfying a women but she still started to not want it and I don't understand. I would love to know more from you about you maybe it would help me or even both of us.
Carl
2007-07-21 08:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that there is a "normal" to describe how a person enjoys anything, including sex. I'm married also though and I feel pretty secure telling you that sex is a pretty important part of most marriages
2007-07-21 08:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna ask you a question. Do you love your husband? Cause honestly, I hate having sex with my husband, and I think it's because I'm not in love with him. I cringe every time he touches me. But who knows. I think it's more normal than people would like to admit. Not everyone is a sex addict. Thank goodness!
2007-07-21 07:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by just-wanna-be-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and live alone or maybe wit some pets. Don't know why you don't like sex but if you are treating your husband this way, you just need to move on to something that you want to have sex with. but if you just don' like sex for what it is, then get divorced and live alone. see how that feels. You are equipped to have sex but if you aren't using such "tools"I suggest you just live a life of "having noe sex, no marriages,no relationships or any type of affection. Sorry for being so upfront but you asked a question that i had to respond to. Hope you find your normalcy!!!
2007-07-21 08:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by b dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate having sex with any man, period!!! It is just the way I am and if my man doesn't like it then tough bikkies!!! It is not that I don't want to have sex, I just have no sex drive. I know many women like this so, yes, for some of us it is normal. If it a worry to you go to the Dr. with your husband and ask for a referral to a sex therapist.
Hope this helps.
2007-07-21 00:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you hate sex or just sex with the one you are married to ?
2007-07-20 16:46:44 · answer #11 · answered by canivieu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋