i love one, and care deeply for the other. and can't seem to break up with either of them.
2007-07-13 05:24:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope they know shame on you
2007-07-13 05:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by 0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being In Love With Someone And Loving Someone Is Definitely Two Different Things.. But Think About This Would Rather Hurt Both Of Them?? Because You Never Know What The Outcome Will BE WHen One Or The Other Finds Out You Are Holding On To Both Becasuse You Dont Know Who You Want To BE With. Its Selfish And And It Hurts To See People Go Through This TYpe Of THings And Remember No Lie Is Bigger Than The Other A Lie Is Always A Lie... Look At This Do You Want To Spend The Rest Of Your Life Someone You Love Or Someone You Love And Are In Love With
2007-07-13 12:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a tough situation to deal with. I could tell you that it's not easy loving two women at one time isn't it. See the one you love seems like you are losing interest in her and you just going through the emotions. The one you care for deeply is where your heart is at this point, but you don't want to make the wrong choice huh? My advice to you is do some soul searching and what ever the answer your heart tells you go with that feeling.
2007-07-13 13:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these people who are saying to stay with both of them. It is wrong to have two girlfriends at a time, and if they find out about it you may end up with niether of them.
All I can really say is that you should stay with the one you feel you love most. Right now, you need to do what would make YOU happy and don't go back and forth between them because you feel sorry for not going out with the other one. I wish you the best!
2007-07-13 12:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by asianmonkey_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them both; tell them that while you enjoy their company, you aren't ready to settle in with a single person. That way, if they want to stick around they're free to do so knowing the deal upfront. If they don't, then you have to let one or both go.
It's okay to date several women at once, as long as the women know the deal and are willing to go along. Sneaking around is too much work and if you get caught will cause them a lo tof pain. If you truly care about them, show them this respect and even if they choose not to stay, they'll respect your honesty.
2007-07-13 12:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Harmless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop confusing yourself with the words "love" and "care". these are two different words that the intensity of feelings that comprise these two words are totally different. which word is the greatest? the greatest is "love".
caring for another person will not last as love does. don't be too selfish. set the other woman free. you can't make them both happy for each one of them will always demand your faithfulness and attention.
the problem is you, within you. you are the problem and not those women. think about it. do you want a woman to do the same to you? let go man and be happy.
2007-07-13 12:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bakekang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to break up with one of them eventually. If you love them both, think about THEM. How will they feel when they learn that they aren't the only one?
Or worse, they both find out and both ditch you and you're left without EITHER of them.
2007-07-13 12:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have two, this realy means that u don't love either one of them. Think of your true reason for wanting to keep them both around. You may discover that your reason's are completly self serving. Get honest with yourself, and then get honest with the both of them, before it is too late, and you loose both.
2007-07-13 12:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by simpatico_17_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the one you love and keep the one you care as life long friend.
2007-07-13 12:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you loved the first one why did you get involved with the other one? Or if you didn't love the first one but then fell for the other one why did you string the first girl around?
2007-07-14 08:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not a crime to date more than one person... this expands your horizons and gives you an opportunity to meet and spend time with a variety of people. however you need to be UP FRONT about the fact that you date others... in order to avoid a "fuss" or chaos.
it is great to be young and have the freedom to do as you please! enjoy it while you can.
2007-07-13 12:43:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋