I have dated a guy for almost 4 years and we were so much in love that we decided to get married.But when we got married everything changed.We started ti fight alot and things were going from bad to worse.We got devorced after a year of marriage.We are devorced now for 2 years.I feel that i still love him and i miss him so much.I feel that i should give him another chance but does he still love me?
2007-07-13 21:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry for your situation. Marriages are hard! I know I'm going through the same thing. The best answer I can give you without boring you with all kinds of drama is . . . ask HIM.
It might be hard but that is really the only way you will find out for sure. No one else (especially on line) is going to know how he feels. Ask him. The worst that could happen is he says 'no'. But then you know that it is time to move on.
I hope this helps. Take care and remember the only one who really knows him is HIM.
2007-07-13 21:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heather V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is too damn short! Anyway, do you guys have a child? If so, use it as your way to get together. (Like, every b-day of your child, your child is ill, graduation, first haircut, etc..) But, if you don't have any child, It'll be harder for you. Do you still speak to each other? Are you friends? If so, you can still be close but, if you don't see each other now, find a friend of yours or speak to his friends. Is his family angry w/ you? If not, talk to them. Ask someone's advice, the ones you trust but, I recommend a priest. =) You said that "i should give him another chance" So.. does he want you back? If yes, um.. just follow what your hearts says and.. good luck! I hope everything will be fine w/ you! :)
2007-07-13 21:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by guiltfeeder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get divorced? Has anything changed? Is he different? Are you missing him or just the idea of being married? These are hard questions but you have to answer them before you decide to take him back.
2007-07-13 22:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well more information would be helpful. If he is pursuing you and all your husband and you did was have disagreements then yes, work things out. If these are your own feelings and you feel deep in your heart that he's moved on then you know what you have to do you have to move on
2007-07-13 22:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Promise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS A SAD STORY...
WELL, IF YOUR REALLY WONDERING IF HE STILL LOVES YOU, THEN WHY DNT YOU CONFRONT HIM???
IT DOESNT HURT ANYTHING JUST TO GO FOR IT AND ASK QUESTIONS... ALL YOU GUYS DID WAS FIGHT?
WELL, I GUESS IT DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU FOUGHT ABOUT... IF IT WAS VERY DRAMATIC OR DEVASTATING SUCH AS CHEATING OR BEATING OR IF IT WAS LITTLE SUCH AS 'YOU DIDNT PUT DOWN THE TOILET SEAT' OR SILLY STUFF LIKE THAT... IF ITS DRASTIC, THEN HE DOESNT DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE AND YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM...
IF ITS LITTLE AND SILLY, THEN JUST TALK TO HIM AND TALL HIM HOW YOU FEEL...
WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN!?
LIFE GOES ON... YOU DNT HAVE TO MAKE MISTAKES TO LEARN FROM THEM :)
2007-07-13 21:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a classic case of "I want what I don't have". When you were married, you wanted out. Now that you're out, you want back in.
Even if he does love you, it's obvious you two will never work as a couple. Let it go.
2007-07-13 21:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to ask him. Sadly too many problems in marriages start with what they learned as children from their parents who's marriages probably werent good ...so.....you know the rest.
2007-07-13 21:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him that much, you would still be married.
You are in love with the idea of love.
Find someone new.
2007-07-13 21:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always give him another chance. Hopefully it will work out this time.
2007-07-13 22:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know what someone is like until you live with them, and maybe you should talk to him.
2007-07-13 21:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋