What ifyou found out the that man you were seeing had a permanent fixation on a woman from his past?
What if he was deeply in love with her and things went bad and he lost her - but he could never get over her?
What if she was his true love and you were merely a "replacement" - (you resemble her somewhat in appearance - that's why heis with you)
What if he kept a picture of her in his wallet and you found out he had pictures of him and her together and he was obsessing over them.
What if he felt he could never love anyone ever again the way he did her - and he could never be 100% open with you?
2007-07-13 18:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all just love your man as much as u can.dont care where he loves u tht much.n no can can forget his or her first love.so dont try to take her position.if ur man gives you the happiness u need,just be happy.k.try to keep him busy with you.go out with him.have some romance and i guess he will not keep tht much attention to the past.
2007-07-13 19:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by pinky_noor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just love it when people ask a question and then answer themselves. Thank-you for making my job easier. Obviously as the woman in question will never be able to replace the "woman from his past" their relationship is dead in the water. She had best move on.
Ok, so I'm not a woman. But I was a catholic nun in a previous life--that does count for something right?
2007-07-13 18:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Quexner_the_wonder_leech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gift wrap him and send his *** back to her! Never live in someones shadow. You are more than likely better than her anyway. He can't see it and you don't need to force him too. Tell him to call you when he gets a spine. In the meantime don't allow him to know you are affected. Men love to make women jealous. Bet he don't think you give him up. IF he was so hung up on another women he wouldn't be seeing anyone. Such babies men are! If he think he is going to lose you I bet he will beg you to come back. He might learn how to love again, you think!
2007-07-13 22:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long has this problem started? i think that if this problem started a while back then end the relationship. if it just started then talk about it or confront the woman that he is obsessing.
if he is just "using" you as a replacement then this relationship is pointless. he still loves the other woman and refuses to move on. if he feels that she is THE ONE then he is not meant for you.
he should be loving you, not her and u know that. thus, i would just move on.
2007-07-13 18:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by woot woot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt stay.... you will never be his top priority or number 1 in his life... he needs to go back and pursue that relationship and stop getting involved with other people until he is totally over this women...
2007-07-14 00:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he's been in a relationship, it's just not with you. I once dated a man like that for a short time------- a very, very short time. Believe me your prince is out there,( mine was ), it's just not him. Don't waste any more of your valuable time on this worm.
2007-07-13 20:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should leave her.He longs for her touch ...she left him alone there must have been reason.. so if you want to be 2nds you will never find true love..He should try to find her and you should stop being the replacement....
2007-07-13 18:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a man that wanted me not a lookalike her
2007-07-17 00:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie get the hell away from him because he mean you no good, let him go back with her and find you some one that will love you unconditionally!
2007-07-13 18:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by mustluv50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,... I would'nt be able to be happy and he wouldnt niether,. so I would part ways
2007-07-13 19:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋