My girlfriend of 6 years and I have been having some trust issues. About 6 months ago she needed some "help" from a guy I didn't like to get on with a company. She was hiding text messages, and calls, and things like that. We talked it out and was fine.. well now she wants to do a ride along with him..
She did one last week and is doing another one. All I asked of her was not to ride with him, I'm not controlling, I just don't trust the guy. She says she couldn't choose who she rode with, but 2 weeks in a row she's riding with him??
Tonight we made plans, I would get off early and come over. Well I go to her house and she has went to do another ride along without giving me a heads up... until 3 a.m. with this guy.
What do I do? We've talked about it but I dunno anymore.. is she cheating?
2007-07-13 20:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by aa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dude , he's tapping your woman's ***.
I'm100% sure about it. You keep reposting the question because you know what's happening.
2007-07-13 20:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I couldn't say for sure that she's cheating, but it doesn't sound too good. Maybe you should do a little detective work and find out for sure though before you make an actual accusation to her. I'm sorry you're going through this. I know how anxious and worried you must be.
2007-07-14 04:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ride it out for a while longer if it gets to much be nice and ask and if she goes off at you don't go off at her play the sympathy card say that you really love her and that it would be the worst thing in the world if anything happened.
2007-07-14 03:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nevermind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we start to question our mates behavior we already know something is going on because our instincts tell us something is wrong. 99.9%our instincts is always right but instead of listening to our gut feelings we choose to look the other way and wonder what happened.
2007-07-14 04:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw poor thing yeah if she's doing stuff like that then there are problems, it doesn't matter what her reasoning for it is. sounds like she's cheating or planning on cheating with him in the near future...
2007-07-14 03:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering you already posted this question and I already answered it, you need to relax and put a little more trust in her. read my other comment and you will see my thoughts on this!
2007-07-14 03:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by yepyep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is cheating, maybe she isn't; but, she seems not to be a good material for you to be in a relationship.
2007-07-14 04:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry guy, she is cheating. and if not her actions are ridiculous.
2007-07-14 04:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by partly smart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's cheating.
2007-07-14 03:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋