41, He has no children and wants me 2 have 1 4 him. I have went to the Dr. and she gave me some medicine to help me ovulate(to become pregnant). I have found out about 2 different females, what should I do ? If I need to explain more I will
2007-07-13 18:25:46 · 20 answers · asked by mustluv50 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait a sec.....this shouldnt be about him and his car.....this should be about him and these "2 other females"????? WHATS THAT ALL ABOUT?!?!? If this guy wants you to have his child but wont take you for a ride in the car (which could just be some alone-time, or could be he doesnt want anyone to see you in the ride with him for selfish reasons) but he wont do something as simple as take you for a ride???
I wouldnt let this guy put any part of him in me if i were you.
2007-07-13 18:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mark R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You have already had a child, right? Does he have any children ? You know where I am going with this don't you? You don't need a child by someone who obviously hasn't made it much past puberty mentally. He is still playing with his toys, and expensive ones at that. Do you have that right also? You are worthy, you are special. Start believing it !!! You deserve better. See if he wants to give it to you. Then you make the decision, will you be better off with or without him? Good luck !!!
2007-07-14 03:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you implying your husband could be seeing other woman? If you are, then don't have his child. It will be a messy situation. You want a man that will commit to you and want to be with you, not leave you and your son home so he can "while the cat's away, go and play"....that's not right. He can't have his cake and eat it too....that's not how life works in the real world. You deserve better and so does your son for a fatherly role model.
2007-07-14 01:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with this guy is ringing my alarm bells by what you have just written, and if I was you honey I wouldn't be trying to conceive to have his child just yet. It sounds like this guy wants his cake and be able to eat it too. So why aren't you and your son good enough to go out for a drive in the corvette?, is what I want to know, are you going to cramp his style and image?. I would be asking quite a few more questions here if I was you. Like where does he go when he goes for that drive in his corvette?. Good luck
2007-07-14 01:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to listen to Dr. Laura. She would laugh. If you are not happy in the relationship dont add a kid!!!! It will make it worse you will get heavier and be more tied down. Isnt a corvertte a 2 seater? RUN u chose the wrong man.
2007-07-14 01:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by katie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mid life crisis. He's looking for something that hasn't had a kid squeezed through it yet. Don't ask me why. It's something they do. The red flag should have went up when he's asking you for a family but he bought a corvette. How many kids do you think can fit into a corvette?
2007-07-14 01:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you have a child you will be tying yourself to this cheating idiot for LIFE. Are you sure you want to do that? My advice is don't do it.
Secondly, from the tone of your question you knew the answer before you posted it.
What do you mean he HAS to go out? He will not take you and the child? I can tell you from experience, there is NO reason that is good that a man cannot take his family anywhere he is going. If he can't, he is up to something bad.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings.
2007-07-14 01:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's obviously leaving you at home to visit with these other women...who knows what they're doing together. My advice- do not have his kid. Then you're tied down to him and you'll feel the pressure to overlook his infidelity for the sake of a baby. Take your son and yourself and leave his sorry *** at the curb. You're 34, you're young- there's no reason you can't find a great man who will be faithful and appreciative of you.
2007-07-14 01:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by victoria 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound frustrated and unhappy with him leaving so it doesn't seem as if a baby would fix that issue. You have to decide if this is the time to become pregnant or if you are questioning his commitment and faithfulness.
2007-07-14 01:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by donny_mollysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first female you found out about should have given you a clue.....get rid of him. For gawds sake DON'T have his baby, this will only worsen the situation. He wants a babysitter for his son and to lock you in further (control) he wants you to have is baby. Classic *ss!!
2007-07-14 01:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by kys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋