well me and my husband are together for almost 3 yrs in a half and married for 1 yr and me and his sister and him live in the same house . but she has 1 kid and bf and he goes to work at 1pm and comes home late but anywaysz.........................i will admidt i am jealous of my sister in law.......because everyday she askes " wheres my brother"and she likes to see me get mad evryday and she always askes '' where you going'' and im thinking like dam why should she know every where i go because she knows where i always go and thats going with my grandmother
but also its like evry time i leave she and my husband are always happy & when i get home and when i dont go anywhere she gets mad and then when her baby cries she just doesn't care and its like dang am i missing something here.
and also when i was going to get grocieries he doesnt give me that much money and im like what am i going to buy with this....but he gives her$ 60 .its just stresses me out. please help me
2007-07-13 16:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by loca16_4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THANX EVERYONE THAT ANSWERS MY QUETION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-13 17:05:37 · update #1
Grrr....I understand your pain. I would say that you need to talk to your husband about it and let him know how you feel. I don't know if you guys are living in her home or if she is living in you and your husbands home but either way, I'd either be telling her to find another place to live, give her 30 or 60 days, etc. or if I were you I'd be finding another place to live. That would aggravate me to no end! Next time she decides to get nosy, maybe you should snap at her to give her the idea that you're getting tired of sharing every detail of your life with her. If she asks you could just say "I'll be back later." without telling her specifically where you're going or just ignore her and walk away altogether. Whatever you do, try not to let her see that it gets you upset. That's what she wants. Either way, good luck to you!
2007-07-13 16:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥MandiiCakes♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me, you're not being treated fairly! I think you should have a talk w/your husband & get this all off your chest & on his. Something has to be worked out more fairly between you all. What you do on your time is NONE of her business & in no way are you accountable to give her answers that don't have anything to do w/her. Why does he give her more money for groceries? That's not fair. I don't know if you're living w/them or they w/you. It still doesn't matter, it is none of her business what you do or where you go on your free time. I would tell her you don't owe her any explinations, & it's none of her business. BUT, you're going to have to have a heart to heart w/your husband & he is going to have to be made to see the facts. He should stick up for YOU...She also needs to mind her own business too & tend to her baby. Good luck & speak up for yourself. You have rites too!
2007-07-13 16:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love you, and I love your sister, but I can't live together a great big family with her kid and bf. I want it to be just you and me. Let's find a little place of our own (or kick them out).
And at the very least, don't you be giving her the money we need for food. So what, she's your sister? I'm your wife. I've gotta buy food.
2007-07-13 16:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and your husband must leave and live together to have a normal relationship or kick her out, a couple should NEVER live with other relatives it only creates conflict so again if you want to have a normal healthy relatioship with your husband is for you guys to live by yourselfs only, otherwise you will keep geting this kind of results living with others in the same household. make an effort to make your husband understand that you can't live like that you should go make your own life instead of sharing it with others no matter who it is.
2007-07-13 16:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First see how many are allowed interior the room for the transport itself (one i replaced into at it replaced into one the different allowed 2). The hospitals coverage itself could make that a mute element. regrettably in the event that they could't stand one yet another, then there is no longer lots you're able to do. i could kick your sister out. Its additionally your husbands toddler no longer your sisters. she would be able to met the recent arrival when you have long previous to restoration. different than which you're working the possibility of aside from your husband from the beginning of his toddler. yet its your decision and in basic terms my opinion
2016-10-19 04:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to relax a bit and have fun with them. Send them to the store for the food, he may not realize what it takes to provide for all of you. Talk with him, it will help. Remember its just his sister, not a sexual treat. Go out with some friends and have a good time let them babysit. even if u just take a long walk time to your self...Good Luck
2007-07-13 16:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your own house or trade him in for a real husband.
2007-07-13 16:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, you need to kick your sister-in-law out and put your man in check.
2007-07-13 16:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell your husband that's is time for your sister to moved out and that's it.
2007-07-13 17:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by hect85mon29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of punctuation would have been nice.
2007-07-13 16:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tristan Robert Due March 20 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋