I noticed my husband has a new female "friend" on his myspace. I asked him about her and he said she just appeared in his friends list and that he has not spokent to her, he added she apparently lives in the same small town we just moved to. I was nosey and looked at his messages. all his sent items were deleted but among her responses which were in the trash folder were "you know what I just realized your married...so why do you want an invite to one of my private parties? Doesn't mean I care if your married, just wondering? I'll still invite you and f$#k the hell outta ya, and like it even more that you are married...karen" , and "Getty up Cowboy...;)
....just remember to pull my hair and spank my a$$!!" I was ,logged in as me and clicked on the chat btn to talk to her, somehow she thought I was my husband and immediately asked me if i lived with my girlfriend because she didn't want an angry woman after her because she has been there done that.....
2007-07-13 16:29:04 · 23 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I told her I was his wife and she tried to tell me that he was polite to her and she was just talking. I confronted him and he told me he only responded to her 1st msg and told her he was married. He does not know I saw his trash and can tell he responded to her numerous times. My question is if it was just talk or was innocent why would he lie about having talked to her. I also saw she has sent him a msg today and he got up early this morning and deleted all her msgs. We have a baby and I need honest advice. I don't want to be unreasonable and leave -denying our child of her father but I also don't want to be played for a fool.
2007-07-13 16:32:45 · update #1
I already had him delete one myspace full of girls and he created a new one (this one) that I found
2007-07-13 16:34:35 · update #2
i think he is guilty. but then, go ask your husband directly about it... you're married, right? and marriage means that you can talk about anything and everything to each other. try talking to him and confronting him about this. dont go into conclusions just yet.
2007-07-13 16:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that your partner will not find out about this, then let it go. There is no need to get into a state about an innocent friendship. If your partner continues to disrespect you, maybe it's time to move on. If you have been a good solid partnership since his/her time of saying the horrible stuff, maybe you should give them a chance and see how things progress. Sometimes it takes a wee glitch to make you realise just what is important to you. Good luck.
2016-05-17 07:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by lelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you start snooping like this you might find something you wish you would have never found. In this case, this girl is pursuing your husband. If he is coming home from work on time, doesn't have new habits like going to the gym or buying new clothes, he isn't hiding his cell phone bill from you or the credit card invoices, then give him a "pass" on this one. When she gets nowhere with him (and likely she won't in a small town anyway!), then she will quit. Even if you know her, just be nice and pretend you don't know. She sounds like the type that would really enjoy the fact she was causing trouble in your marriage. Good luck.
2007-07-13 16:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of sounds like you caught him before he had the time to do anything. I suppose it depends what you consider cheating. In my mind, this is cheating, but that is me. You have a baby and that is definitely something to take into consideration but... he seems pretty guilty. Why would he delete the messages? Get up early? Play dumb about it? He already lied to you when he originally said that he didn't know how she showed up on his friends list, since he HAS to add her as a friend when she requests it. She did NOT just show up. Sorry sweetie. He sounds like a dog.
2007-07-13 16:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by heather c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is to tell him that you know of all the emails and the deleted ones. Tell him that you want to see the mail coming from her and don't want to see that he has deleted it. If he continues to delete the messages, then you know that there is something that he is worried about you finding out. You may mention to him that you are wondering if it would be worth loosing a wife and daughter over getting caught messing with a tramp like that. Just my opinion.
2007-07-13 16:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is quilty of messing around with her on the computer, but it could go further. Stop it now and delete your myspace
2007-07-13 16:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty. Definately.
Sorry.
2007-07-13 16:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't cheating yet, he is on his way. Put a stop to it now. Tell him if you find one more my space page with other women on it you're leaving and taking him for everything he's got. If he values his family and daughter he will stop what's he's doing. If he just wants to be selfish and immature there isn't anything you can do but refuse to tolerate it.
2007-07-13 16:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump his sorry ***!! He is fuc*ing around on you right under your nose! And if you made him delete one whole myspace thing with women and he created another, he doesn't give a damn what you think.
2007-07-13 16:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y'all need to get into counseling ASAP. Guilty or not, there are trust issues for YOU and he's got a roaming eye.
2007-07-13 16:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋