I'm a boy of 23. I'm a goldsmith and I want to get married with a good girl. I want to present my heart to my love!
2007-07-10 11:20:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound romantic and like you don"t live in the United States. I think all people are good. As we grow up, we all make bad mistakes along the way. Most of us learn from them.
I have a feeling what you really want is a virgin. Are you a virgin, too? Are you a good guy? You can present your heart to any girl that you trust and feel wonderful being around. Please, don't judge her by her past.
2007-07-10 11:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you are still a little young. Statistically, most men marry women who are younger than they, on average by 3-4 years. So your likely mate is barely 20 right now.
You are an apprentice of a trade and not a college grad. Not sure if you have any religion requirement about the wife. So how does a "good girl" translate into specific attributes for you? By that, it would be stay-home or working woman, extrovert vs introvert, religion, and other physical attributes. These attributes give you some ideas where to look. Could be church of similar religion or places where these women are found. Example, say you really like nurses, then you go to cafeteria or foods places near a hospital.
You want to present your heart to your love? YOu won't know she is the right person even if she stands right in front of you. At your age, you should keep an open mind and just make friends. You don't expect a "good girl" to become your girlfriend immediately or jump to bed with you. You give it time. SHe might not be the right one but at least you won't end it on bitter terms. You have at least 5 years to meet that girl. Take your time.
2007-07-10 18:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always said to find you, you shouldnt seek it. However it never hurts to see what is out there and get your flirt on. This doenst mean you are cursed to the bar and club life to find a wife.
Some of my best relationships honestly stemmed from online personals. However heed caution and always meet publically for the first time, no matter how harmless they may seem. Never rush.
Lastly, talk to your friends and see if they have prospects. Sometimes that is where happiness is found cause you have common links.
Before you explore these options, the overall key is to know what you want in a lady. Also to know who you are and what you have to offer. If you dont know...how can you get them to look at you? Best of luck, its a rough road filled with heartbreak, but the pain is well rewarded in the end when you find your destiny
2007-07-10 18:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by dyke-a-licious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, a sweetheart, fair, kind, have a sense of humor, do an honest day's work, be a good man, loving, giving, considerate, down-to-earth, smart, unselfish. Heck, I want somebody like that. Oh, I already have somebody like that! Just treat the ladies nice and soon you will find somebody who is the same to you. Be sure not to rush into anything, make sure you take your time and get to know the lady really well. Good luck and God bless!
2007-07-10 18:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by BLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can start by not rushing. if you rush you will not find the actual right girl. you may meet someone who looks and feels like the one. but i guarentee that after you get married her actual behavior will come out. so take some time to get to know the girls in a non freaky way. if you do that you will get the right girl. then maybe get her a diamond ring with gold in it for you wedding
2007-07-10 18:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by locdown120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.
(Proverbs 31:10)
Pray for the wife that God has intended for you.
Finding a "Ruby" in this world is very difficult these days but your faith in God and trust in what HE has in store for you is worth waiting for.
May he bless you greatly.
2007-07-10 19:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and optimistic ; one day you will find a good girl. Make a wish for true love! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/ ; it's free and who knows? Good luck!
2007-07-10 18:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking, if it is meant to be, it will come to you. Give it to God.
PS: It does not matter if you are a Jeweler or a Janitor, you are worthy of love, and it will come to you if you are patient.
2007-07-10 18:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go out looking for it, it'll come to you and you'll know deep in your heart she's the one.
2007-07-10 18:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking and be yourself. no one wants to be looked at like a piece of meat. be in a club, orgainzation, church or school and get invovled in something. nature will take its course if it was meant to be.
2007-07-10 18:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋