Today I met with my Lover and this is how it went down:
Me:How could you go back to him after you told me you loved me,We talked about having a family.After the way he has treated you you giving him anther chance?
Her:Im sorry,I just want whats right for my daughter.Im putting my feelings aside for now.
Me:What does your daughter have to do with you having a physical relationship again with him?
Her:Im just trying to do my part in this.
Me:Once you told me you loved me I felt like you were mine.I feel like you cheated me.
Her: (Tears fall)
Me:Im not saying no one can love you but You know no one will ever love you like I did.I came along and I took away the pain he caused you and now you leave me hanging.You wouldnt B standing here if you were sure of what you've done.But you made your choice,I hope he's worth it.I know what I did was the wrong way but I regret nothing cause I loved you.
Me:(holding her)Goodbye Luv
Her:(crying)Goodbye
The End
2007-07-09 17:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should be grateful that you are no longer involved with someones wife. Find a woman of your own that does not have another mans child. Never talk to this woman again.
2007-07-09 17:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah its hard when she could not and do not want to try a better option and giving up on u just like that. I hate that situation so much. I hate when people give up easily and turn down their own hapiness.
But i think u still have the chance and u should do all effort or method to convince her that she should be with u. Women is soft and when u try ur very best and show that u care her more, she will come back to u.
Unless she is the damn stubborn type then, its hard to change her mind.
Chase her until ur last final effort u can think off.
2007-07-09 17:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, very sad, but you did the right thing, let her go, she will soon regret it and start resenting why she stayed in the first place, I feel bad for her daughter the most because she won't be in a home where the parents are truly happy and they are her example. But then again, she may have been using you until the other guy came around...
2007-07-09 18:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you, but it seem like you were brought in for the rebound. I know it was selfish on her part, but alot of women to this. She still has feelings for the other guy, even though he was hurtful towards her. Sometimes us women refuse to give up on love, even when it hurts. She has to relize that sometimes someone loving us harder is whats needed. Through your love she will relize what real love is. If she does not play it out with the bad guy, she will never relize what a good one you are! Let her go, and when she is ready, she will be back. You must be patient. When she is ready for a real loving relationship you and she will know a first sight of one another, good luck!
2007-07-09 17:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This probably isn't the end. Don't contact her. Go on with your life and see what else is out there for you. Be happy. I bet anything, that she will find her way back to one day. But, don't wait for it. You deserve to give yourself a break from this painful relationship and relax a while, unwind, stay busy, find new activities, just explore your own dreams in other areas more. She will probably be back and with the growth you will experience if you don't hang on to this pain, you will know if you want to walk down that road again.
2007-07-09 17:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has a young daughter, then she is doing the right thing. Her daughter needs both her mom & dad living in the same house raising her. Respect her decision. It's a very hard one to make, but she is putting her daughter before her self.
2007-07-09 18:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well -
If your lover is married to the other guy, then she made a vow to stay with him FOREVER.....and I am a big believer in keeping promises. So -
I think she should give him another chance for her sake and her daughter's.
I think what is sad is that people get involved in extra-marital affairs and then even more people get hurt.
2007-07-09 17:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she want. Sound like she's another mans wife. Good for you. Now go get one of your own. And leave other men's alone. Also you should be happy she belong to him and not you. The lady is not ready.
2007-07-09 17:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both have issues, she is probally really codependant and cant say no to the one who abuses her because she feels like she deserves to be treated that way and that she owes it to her child to take the abuse and you are a manipulater, when she was trying to tell you the truth you say how can you do this to me, that is called control issues, she is sick and needs theropy why dont you try to help her instead of shaming her, and not give up on her if you really love her that is what love is, loveing someone no matter what
2007-07-09 17:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry friend but anyone that is stupid enough to get involved with a married person deserves to get hurt.Stay away from married people and you will never have to go through this again it really is that simple.
2007-07-09 17:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋