ok im CRAAAAAAAAAAZY bout sex. total freak, love the whole jungle scenario....doin it like the animals...love the costumes and bunny outfits the 6 inch heels, EVERYTHING.
ok, but here's the THING...all of this i want to share with my FUTURE ONE DAY WIFE...(not married yet)
but im going to college in a month, and i would like to fool around with a FEW girls...not a bunch b/c i want to do SO much with my wife one day...
sound ok?
2007-07-09 19:06:04 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people say its RISKY...but i'd use a condom EVERYTIME!!! DON'T WORRY ABOUT THAT!! lol
2007-07-09 19:12:35 · update #1
Well, I know how you feel there man. But as hard and prudish as it may sound, pre-marital sex is not OK. It is risky business. I don't really need to explain now do I?
I think if you remain a virgin until marriage you will be more happy with your future wife. I think it's better to focus on college for now, or until you're ready to marry. OK, hope this helped.
2007-07-09 19:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Adel 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know every guy in the world thinks like you do. I will point out that your future wife is some other guy's "girl to fool around with."
I suggest you get a handle on your morals. A condom won't help you there.
2007-07-09 20:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex with another person to you, it is just sex because you are a male.
But, when you have sex with a female...she is not just having sex. She is looking for a RELATIONSHIP.
Everytime you have sex just for sex...think about the other person's feelings. Consider what you are doing with them and how it will effect their future. Because while you are just their for a good time...they may be giving their heart away to you, only to get it back broken.
Your future wife is the one that you should consider when it comes to what you do with another female. Consider the other person as being your wife-to-be and how you would want her to be treated.
Do you want a future wife that gave her heart to someone that only wanted sex? And then she suffers the heartbreak and baggage that comes along from being used.
2007-07-09 19:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you believe. If you believe that sex is sacred and meant only for marriage then you might want to wait. On the other hand, maybe you just want to set limits. I have a friend who will do anything EXCEPT intercourse. He finds this doesn't violate his beliefs but still allows him to experiment a little. If you don't see sex as sacred and for marriage, then just make sure it's with someone you care about and have known for more than 4 hours!
2007-07-09 19:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by mb20and151 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brother, this one is totally up to you. Just make sure that you always treat your flings the way you'd like your future wife to be treated by hers- and keep yourself safe and healthy. Use condoms and dental dams every time- even if it's "only" oral. You don't want to be giving your future wife any nasty STIs.
2007-07-09 19:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by dscougar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definately wait until you are married. How bad will you feel if your wife waits, but you totally cheated her out by having sex while you were an immature college kid?
2007-07-09 19:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by lilyamongthorns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The idea of fooling around with a few girls for fun is wrong. Take responsibilities for your actions and think of the consequences.
2007-07-09 19:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is such a personal judgment. I don't think any one can answer that for you. It has to come from your heart. It is so completely up to you. What are your morals,.....where is your integrity....will they be compromised in your own mind if you decide to fool around before marriage??? Only you can answer those kinds of questions....no one else.
Best of Luck!!
2007-07-09 19:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is for you to decide. Do you feel comfortable doing these things?
Do you want to marry these girls you will be with? Or just play with them, use them? Do you love or respect these girls?
Will your wife be a virgin? Will you be?
2007-07-09 19:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go by the bible and by the elders no its not okay , but in the world we live in today everyone is doing it .. if you're gonna have sex with many girls wrap it up
2007-07-09 19:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋