Marriage & Divorce - 9 July 2007

so... all you happily married couples please share your "happy marriage" moments, memories and thoughts

2007-07-09 02:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by cristelle R 6

I live in south carolina and we have already completed all the paper work but would like to have a general idea once my wife files the papers.

2007-07-09 02:30:49 · 9 answers · asked by h82lose 2

Can you now live with the guilt?

If you haven't cheated then you can't really answer my question.

I cheated and want to know how other have dealt with it - PS I'm not going to do it again but hell it's in the past now and I'm certain that my wife wouldn't want to know.

2007-07-09 02:27:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

If the man in question was only 17 yrs old when he was put in jail would you have trust issues with him?Okay my daughters real father and i were together for 3 yrs sometimes on/off and even got engaged.We broke up when i found out he had omitted the fact that he had been in prison(one of his family members let it slip)and he got defensive would not tell me why.Anyway now that i am getting a divorce and he is going to meet our 5 yr old daughter for the first time(though they have communicated over the years)he finally told me why he was put in prison.He was put in prison for assult charges,stealing he was accused of robbing a number of places with a group of people but claims it was only 3 times in which he helped,and poccession of drugs he claims to not have been an actual dealer though.He was released from prison after his 22 b-day and went live and work for his uncle in Ukrane.He now handles banking/investments and is 34 yrs old.

2007-07-09 02:23:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a divorce and my soon to be Ex husband is making my life a living h*ll. He has been living with another woman for months now and he is always calling me and driving by my house checking up on me. I have never once called him up on rumors that I hear or things that he has done since our split. Everytime he hears anything about me he is calling and chewing me out. He says nasty things to try and hurt my feelings, and it works, and uses our children against me. The other day I let a friend crash on my couch because he had been drinking. I ran into him and told him he could stop by and sober up a bit. He passed out and I let him stay on the couch. My ex showed up and saw him there and now he is pissed. He is spreading all these nasty rumors and making me look like an awful person. All I was trying to do is help. My friends keep telling me to keep my chin up but it is getting pretty hard to. What should I do???? Is there any help out there for me.

2007-07-09 02:15:43 · 16 answers · asked by just me 2

My boyfriend and I just broke up after 3 years together. About a year ago, I found out that he had been having a long-term emotional affair. Since then, we have tried to make it work, but it just never seems to be able to get back to the way things used to be. I have become bitter and suspicious and we now both realize this isn't going to work out. He is actually the one who took the step to end things. I'm upset, but I understand. Now, though, he has become so angry. He doesn't want to speak to me at all. He is even going to quit the bowling team we are on together and stop going to the church we go to so that he doesn't have to spend time around me. We are not young, he's 38, I'm 29, we have kids from previous marriages who have all grown to love each other. Can someone explain to me why he is so angry at me when I was the victim in this?

2007-07-09 02:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by Mel 6

We agred to stay friends after we split up because neither of us know many people in this area or wanted to start a new relationship. Neither of us are over our ex's and jumped in way too soon so we mutually decided to keep things good between us because we get on well and enjoy each others company.

We chat most days on msn but over the last few days he has become moody and withdrawn. I dont want to ask too many questions as I have no right to but I also dont want to be treated badly by anyone. I have asked him if he is ok but he just gives me one word answers and then signs off a few minutes later. What am I supposed to think. He always chats first so I am not pestering him but when we chat I feel like he doesnt want to. Should I just forget our friendship. I have just bought a bike and lost nearly 2 stone and joined a gym but he doesnt seem interested in anything I say anymore. Please help can we salvage something.

2007-07-09 02:04:17 · 26 answers · asked by Jane s 1

My husband moved out on me and my two kids over a year ago. I am moving on and dating. However, my father in law recently took me to dinner. He said that he wanted to apologize for his part in this. I asked what did he mean. He said that over 20 months ago, his son told him that he was going to start having sex with someone else (he had probably already started by then). My father in law just took the "Heh heh, guys will be guys" attitude because his son was turning 40 and "Well, men sometimes think that they have to prove they still have it. I didn't think that he would take it this far."

I believe that I should not have much contact with them (in laws)anyway but they want to stay friends even though they have the other woman sitting in my chair at their house. What? Why apologize to me?

2007-07-09 02:04:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He always had an 'alter-ego', the front he put on in front of people, a sort of fake charm that used to embarrass me frankly, because he didnt need to do it, I loved him the way he was, he was just a normal guy with all that brings! But he used to do the considerate caring 'new man' thing with other women, but at home, he was just himself ! Anyway, I hear that with this girl (well I say girl, he's 48 like me, and shes 26) he runs around after her like a puppy dog, she gets the alter-ego all the time. What does this tell you?

2007-07-09 01:55:49 · 41 answers · asked by myfavouritelucy 7

I love you but you forced me to marry you...
I will love you if you get thinner and give me two kids.
I hate your family.
You are not my friend you are my wife.

2007-07-09 01:52:49 · 24 answers · asked by kishoti 5

My brother is 34 years old, he is married with 2 kids. He used to live at his inlaws with his wife, but now he stays at our house, because he had an argument with his wife..He is self employed, a plumber, he is good at his job, but he cant seem to handle cash. He doesn;t give his kids or his wife money. He has a drinking problem. I tried taking him to hypnotherapy, but he went 3 times and stopped. I need to help him, but how can i when he wont take help? Please advise as this could ruin his marriage.

2007-07-09 01:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i just hold the pillow tighter and longer?

2007-07-09 01:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2

my boyfriend and I are so in love. After many years of searching I've finally found the man I want to marry with, he says that I am a kind of woman he wants to marry with as well. But he wants to break up because he needs to settle up somethings!! in his mind and thinks our paths are different. He wants to be just friends now. Is it just some kind of excuse or Can I still be hopeful that he might want to get back together some day? Might it be helpful for our relationship or is it the exact end?

2007-07-09 01:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Feynman 1

will not go on a family vacation with her husband and kid but wants to go to the beach with her single girlfriend? my wife skipped and would not attend our summer family vacation with me and my son but wanted to go away with her single girlfriend...how much of a problem is this and why would she not go after pleading and asking her for 3 months.

2007-07-09 01:04:55 · 19 answers · asked by amayseng 3

I am not sure if I should be worried or not - both of them (her and her best friend) when together are totally crazy... they have fun and do the craziest of things.... and now - they are going on holiday... Her best fried, Alice was out of town - so she called her and asked Alice to meet her in another city for a week - I overheard her sayin 'its gonna be crazy fun, Come on, you know it' and alice said 'okay, I am in'

Now, Sophia Is here for till friday night - then she is flyin to the beach, and alice has just taken the first flight out...

I am a lil worried - cause yest Sophia and I got into a fight cause my ex kissed me and help my hand and all - sophia was not there - and so she is annoyed - tough the plan got made way before this thing with my ex.. Last night Sophia broke up with me and now this trip.... HELP

2007-07-09 00:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 00:40:50 · 13 answers · asked by candie 4

I knew a guy, Mark, since I was 13 years old, platonically. Fast forward 20 years later, I am married and Mike just happens to go to the same pool that my husband and I go to. I introduced them to each other, but Mark seemed a little reserved about talking to my husband. Now when Mark sees me in the pool, he comes up to me (whether husband is there or not) to chat....about anything...restaurants, pool water temperature, kids, etc. I see it as very harmless, but my husband says that Mark has disrespected him and that I wouldn't understand because I am a woman. I asked for specific examples (b/c I just don't see the disrespect). He said Mark should've made eye contact w/ him and acknowledged his presence. I explained that Mark doesn't know him and I know Mark can be aloof at times. My husband asked me to cut all ties with this guy. Is this healthy jealousy??? I want to be fair!!! This guy means nothing to me, but that's not the point.....

2007-07-09 00:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by bonbon0974 1

Just curious.

2007-07-09 00:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous