my boyfriend and I are so in love. After many years of searching I've finally found the man I want to marry with, he says that I am a kind of woman he wants to marry with as well. But he wants to break up because he needs to settle up somethings!! in his mind and thinks our paths are different. He wants to be just friends now. Is it just some kind of excuse or Can I still be hopeful that he might want to get back together some day? Might it be helpful for our relationship or is it the exact end?
2007-07-09 01:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Feynman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you ever heard the expression "it's not you, it's me"? Honey, he IS breaking up with you. He's just trying to be diplomatic about it. He's just not as into you as you are into him.
I'm really sorry. We've all been there.
2007-07-09 01:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage to splitting up am I missing somthing here.How did you two get together in the first place.Most people would want to split up to sort out things this is normal Notttttttttt!. Maybe its the old saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. Sounds to me like he realized that there is something better out there.
2007-07-09 01:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by brian m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl who broke up w/ her boyfriend for 2 weeks to make sure he was the one she was supposed to spend the rest of her life with. They did get back together 2 weeks later, and, it turned out that she did indeed marry him, I believe it was the following year. This may not work for you two, but, try to be patient and see what happens.
2007-07-09 01:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not in his mind that's want settling. The paths you have are going in a different direction.No sense in holding on you can't have a relationship by yourself. Let it go maybe he may change his mind or you change your.
2007-07-09 02:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question: Why would you want this guy back? You deserve better than some vague "our paths are different" bs...you deserve to be loved and cherished. If this guy isn't going to committ to you don't wait for him.
The right guy is probably just waiting for you.........
2007-07-09 01:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...this story is complicated.If he suddenly wants to break up then maybe he was with another girl all the time.You should ask him again why he wants to break up.if he still wants to break up you should really break up with him.There are lots of boys in the whole world.He isn't the single one.You should know that.
2007-07-09 01:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by pufuleticusare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone when they don't want to be with you?
What he said to you was just an excuse to get out of the relationship. When two people are in love and committed to one another, nothing in the world will pull them apart.
2007-07-09 01:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So let me get this straight...........dude wants to break up, have you wait around on him so he can go "settle" things up? ...........that sound ridiculus to me! I would tell him he will make a descion NOW............either he wants to be with you or not end of story. There is no breaking up so he can go do what ever the hell he wants to do.
2007-07-09 01:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like he's on meth with his non logic nonsense.
2007-07-09 01:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋