should i just hold the pillow tighter and longer?
2007-07-09 01:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, seriously girl, if he can talk--you aren't holding the pillow down tight enough...longer is really up to you. So tell me how far you willing to go?
2007-07-09 02:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- put the pillow down. Couples need their "alone time" so that when they get back together they can share their experiences and have something to talk about. Also- men need to be able to get away to think about all that is going on and digest it.
If you and your husband spent every moment together you both would be sick of each other. As .38 Special sang "Hold on loosely, but don't let go."
2007-07-09 01:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Someone somewhere doing something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a sleeping pill, then roll him over, face down in the pillow. Now you are no longer smothering him.
2007-07-09 01:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember, men think differently than women. I agree with some of the statements below except that it could be something as simple as a little alone time. Since I don't know you or your husband it would be very hard to say what the problem is. I know that I need some time to myself (without my wife) just to think or not think. However, I do need to provide my wife with what she needs in order to keep our marrige healthy, so if that means I need to give up my "alone" time for some snuggling when she needs it I do it. Marriage is a two way compromise. If your husband were to do this he would probably find he wouldn't have any trouble getting his "alone" time since your needs are satisfied.
2007-07-09 01:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by train120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is overwhelmed with the relationship thing and maybe you were smothering her more than you thought; or since she isn't used to being in a relationship she just felt that way and the two of you see thing differently. I would give her, her space. Let her be the one to text and to be the one that instigates communication between the two of you.
2016-05-17 15:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it mean when your significant other is breathing heavy and calling out your name?
You didn't hold the pillow down long enough!
Tell him he is lucky he is the only one you are smothering!! Remind him out easy it would be for you to "give him space!" :)
2007-07-09 01:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by PrettyMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With men, we always ending up winning if we put enough time into it so I'd say keep the pillow longer.
2007-07-09 01:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on what you are doing. Are you giving him adequate space? Sometimes people don't realize that even in marriage people want their personal time and space. I would give him a little room to breathe because then he has time to miss you- but if he isnt showing you affection and you have given him time and space I would talk to him and see if it isn't something deeper. If you have other friends I would spend some time with the ladies just to give him his personal space and to have time to keep your mind off the present issue.
2007-07-09 01:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sylvia Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a nice dose of alcohol before, so that he won't notice you smothering him. Unless, you like to have him struggling with you.
2007-07-09 01:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what he thinks your smothering him about...are you on him because he is golfing too much or playing too much ball with his friends? or are you on him because he is out at the bar which is not a good thing for either of you....
men like to play "sports", but if he is out around girls stick to your guns
2007-07-09 01:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by amayseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋