She is going to the beach on holiday with her best friend and meeting up with an old guy friend... worried??

Question

I am not sure if I should be worried or not - both of them (her and her best friend) when together are totally crazy... they have fun and do the craziest of things.... and now - they are going on holiday... Her best fried, Alice was out of town - so she called her and asked Alice to meet her in another city for a week - I overheard her sayin 'its gonna be crazy fun, Come on, you know it' and alice said 'okay, I am in'

Now, Sophia Is here for till friday night - then she is flyin to the beach, and alice has just taken the first flight out...

I am a lil worried - cause yest Sophia and I got into a fight cause my ex kissed me and help my hand and all - sophia was not there - and so she is annoyed - tough the plan got made way before this thing with my ex.. Last night Sophia broke up with me and now this trip.... HELP

Answer 1

Let her go, if she really is meant to be with you she will come back to you. It sounds like you are both young and should still be having fun. Why don't you go have some fun too. Life is too short. On the other hand, why is your old girlfriend still in your life? This is more of an issue I think.

Answer 2

just don't answer her calls and don't call her. She will wonder what you are doing and won't try this again.

Maybe she will have a fling and get it out of her system. Act like you don't care what she did. Talk about drunken nights with the fellas. Trust me, she won't do it again.

Answer 3

Call her and appologize....and dont try to talk abt the trip....ask whether is it ok if you also join....you have to compromise brother if you want to get results.....

so make that call....and join the trip....and pls dont tell that you are willing to join their trip coz you are worried....show her that its coz you care abt her and wanna like to spend some time with her....

Answer 4

if you didnt learn a lesson, and want to blame her for going-you should be worried-not about her but about yourself=the way to honor is in true friendship that leads to Marriage. Relationship with another is a gift from God, if you truely love someone you commit to them. Marriage is to put it into writing telling the whole world that you are legally together in honor-lots of guys will say they love someone and live in with them yet as someone said to me =

Best Answer - Chosen By Voters

I agree with "Makemeaspark" about guys that say they love and commit but wont marry, "The heart is decietful." Jeremiah, but it is not just the hurting ones that fall for believing a guy when he says he loves you, and lets be together. Sometimes you believe because you believe (in innocence) that truth and lies are obvious. And in your arrogance (or youth) you think you can tell the difference. You trust and are deceived, and there are those who are loyal even after the deception is revealed, out of duty, out of fear, out of a misguided loyalty...wow it still hurts. Sometimes they stay because they feel stupid and worthless and have no where else to turn. They feel like they deserve the punishment of being unloved, because they were untrue to their own moral compass, and unfaithfull to God. So they stay untill they are discarded. 3 Votes 43%

this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths to believe too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).
My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.
Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.

The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
Its all good and now as a Jew who has come to know Jesus is my Messiah, savior, and best friend giving me joy beyond words and power to live right. And someone said this for me telling them this too
Praying the best for you in every way, David

Answer 5

Geeeze I would be worried too mate ...