What do you love about marriage?
What do you hate or dislike?
What would you change if you could?
Serious question, thank you in advance for your honest answers.
2007-07-09 17:46:26 · 8 answers · asked by >Golden Ticket< 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all for your answers :)
2007-07-11 04:25:05 · update #1
What I love about marriage is that I get to be together with the person whom I love. Spend the night together with him. Wake up in the morning together with him. Eat meals together with him. Laugh with him. Cry with him. Everything!!!
What I'm really having a hard time with is adjusting with him. Because each one of us has our own strengths and weaknesses (flaws). But I'll just have to accept that fact because I love him and I know that nobody is perfect. Not even me.
There's nothing that I like to change about him because I love my husband for what and for who he is. I have accepted him as he is. Maybe if there's a change that I want, it would be within myself and that's controlling my tantrums. Hehe. However, my husband has already a way on how to deal with my tantrums.
So you see... there should be give and take for the relationship/marriage to work. ^_^
2007-07-09 17:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about marriage?
* I love the fact that married couples who love each other tell each other a thousand things without talking.
*I love the fact that there is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.
What do you hate or dislike?
The fact that no matter how you think you are prepared for what marriage will bring the truth is that you have to struggle to grow. Love seems to always come the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. Never give up on each other.
What would you change if you could?
Nothing. It is work and anything worth having is worth working for.
2007-07-09 18:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about marriage?? Loving and being loved unconditionally.
What do you hate or dislike?? Being made to feel like you're not as good as the in laws.
What would you change if you could?? To accept me for who i am and quit trying to change me.
experience----25 years of marriage and 2 years divorced. You have to find someone who you can work together with in marriage not fighting against all the time.
2007-07-09 17:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by askmeimightknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no longer married
I liked having someone to come home to and care for
I disliked her spending more money then i could make - it eventually drove us to divorce as the payments on her new car were more then the mortgage payments - it was the straw that broke the camels back - i could no longer afford her taste
I laid out my life when by the time i was 13 - i have two dreams left that i havent reached yet - i still want to be a millionaire and i still want to own my own island - i am currently trying to work on these
I would probbaly look for a more conservative woman if i had to do it all over again - one that would be more synonomous with my two remaining goals - i dont hold out hope in finding anyone like that any more so I go it alone
Well almost alone - i still have a few of the kids living with me - i guess when they finally move out I will be able to save more and work toward attaining my goals at a more leisurely
pace
2007-07-10 01:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by jimkearney746 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Formerly married says:
What do you love about marriage?
....the fact that someone would want to try to commit themselves to you. Also, regular booty call for a while
What do you hate or dislike?
People marry without really living the other in a mature way.
What would you change if you could?
partners...i did. Great move, Not a cheater like my ex was.
2007-07-09 17:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I love that I am truly living happily ever after. I married my other half and I wouldn't trade one minute with him for time with anyone else.
I can't think of anything I dislike about being married.
If I could change anything it would only be to spend even more time with him. We are best buddies.
2007-07-09 20:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sword Lily 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
qt 1:i love the fact that i have a best friend that i can share things with. I like that i can share my feelings with him,i love waking up knowing that the guy i'm next too loves me very much
qt2:i can't just get up and go without qt's,arging, little disagreements sometimes turn into bigger ones,not having mulitiple sex partners.
qt3:I wouldn't change a thing--no relationship is perfect
2007-07-09 18:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by J-LO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love having someone who loves me and someone to love 24/7.
I don't like disagreements.
I would change the misunderstandings we have.
2007-07-09 18:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋