Marriage & Divorce - 29 May 2007

i cheated on my husband and he never found out... i ended that relationship. i am still with my husband but now i can't kiss him it's really hard i love my husband but i cant kiss him i panic and hyperventilating and sometimes get grossed out i figured it could be the bad breath so now i buy gum and give him a peace like if i was sharing to see if that would help..




any advise?

2007-05-29 14:38:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so confused, do I love him or have I been with him for so long, I forget what true love is?? He has anger issues and on meds for them, but he does fly off the handle at the drop of the hat. Everytime he gets angry, he breaks something, last week he put a hole in the wall, tonight he broke the lid to my rabbits cage. What do I do??? When he gets on this rage, all I feel towards him is HATE.....please help. Is he worth all of this, or am I really to blame. This all started with a game of b-ball between us, when he busted the side of my face with his hand trying to knock the ball out of my hands. I was angry and told him to leave me be for a minute.....he got so pissed, he flew off the handle.

2007-05-29 14:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by carebear2804 1

this always makes me back down and he knows this i think.My friends told me to tell him "don't let the door hit u in the ***" to see what he does.Does he stay because i back down or is he just bluffing?

2007-05-29 13:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by lori f 1

She told my boyfriend to invite me over so we could talk today which hass happened before and she cancelled. This morning after I got mentally prepared and he cleaned and prepared his room for me, he was getting ready and she said she didn't feel well & we should reschedule... he has been angry at his mom changing mind. I dunno what to feel... right now I am just confused. I know she loves me, but why does she keep changing her mind, (she gets sick sometimes) so I think thats why. What can I do to make him feel better and not so upset with his mother?

2007-05-29 13:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by Queen 4

is it possible they could fall in love with that person or capable of loving 2 women at one time

2007-05-29 13:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been in a relationship for 3 years now. we have had some very rough times. it all started with him lying to me inorder for me to do some thing that benefited him. I was upset when i found out and as a result, made his life at work and home difficult. that is i threatened to tell our boss about our relationship since he was senior to me and we worked together. We decided to continue giving our relationship a chance but it is very hard as he has trust issues with me and i have with him. Do you think it is possible to move pass this?

2007-05-29 13:22:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often should a woman want to have sex? I am curious of what others think since my husband says I want it too much.

2007-05-29 13:17:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband and I are in a weird spot... I told him that I don't feel the spark that I once felt and that maybe we should go away one weekend with out anyone...and he said no he would rather spend time with his friend.......it felt like he ripped my heart out... what are your thoughts?

2007-05-29 13:15:08 · 20 answers · asked by lbruemmer28 1

No sex w/ other people, just something that will annoy her.

2007-05-29 13:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by Trey L 3

I just got married 3.5 months but was unaware i was pregnant at the time(i was bleeding).My hubby and i dated 2 yrs he is 25 yrs old and i am 21 yrs old still in college.Before marriage we took a 4 month break because he was not sure.During the break i had a fling with an ex.bf we have a history (flings/dating)going back to HS. Month later hubby and i got married.I found out 2 months into our marriage that i was 4 months pregnant with my ex.bfs child.I came clean to my hubby he said he forgave me but 2 weeks later i came home to an almost baren apartment and message from his lawyer.I tried getting in touch with him but could not finally today he called me we got into a fight because he thinks i am lying about everything
which is NOT true .He wants me to move out of the house so it can be sold!I feel if i agree to move out even though i cant afford the house i will be sealing the divorce?My ex.bf offered to let stay at his place if i do that i feel it will really be over w/ no hope?

2007-05-29 13:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically, my organs aren't working sucessfully. I'm sick and my pregnancy has made things much worse. A few weeks ago my doctor told me that during the birth we both won't make it. I'm still numb. My husband and I have been crying. Why has it come to this....I'm so sad.

However, I want my baby to survive. I'm already sick, and I'm 34 years old, I've had a life, I want my baby to have pages of a book to fill in. Although my husband disagrees, he says he can't live without me.

My life is literally falling apart while changing for the better at the same time. For some time I was angry at god, angry that he was giving me this special gift and taking it away, but now im not angry. I feel so blessed. God gave me the gift to bring this blessing to the world around me!!!

What are things I can do for my baby? I want to leave her things for her to know about me.

As well, I need help. How can I get my husband to understand?

2007-05-29 12:59:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Shes pretty but im married and I never been with a girl and I wouldnt cheat on my husband what should I tell her.

2007-05-29 12:55:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a foreigner married a Filipina in the Philippines, then some time later returns to his own country & obtains a divorce from her in his own country. If he returns to the Philippines & marries another Filipina in the Philippines; will his marriage to the second Filipina be legal in the Philippines?

2007-05-29 12:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by vanessa 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together almost 4 years. I have always said that I wouldn't live with a guy before I was married, but it all started with him staying over at my parent's house with me even before we were dating because my fiance (at the time) was killed in a car accident and he was my best friend and was there to support me. Anyways, now we have our own apartment and he graduated with an engineering job last August. I graduate this August, and I feel that it is time that we get engaged. I don't feel right continuing to live together without being married (for both religious and personal reasons). We know (or he says) that we are going to get married, yadda, yadda...but he is having a tough time finding a good job in his field here and says that he doesn't want to move far away from me and would rather move with me when I graduate. Anyways, when I bring up this, he says that he is going to propose as soon as he has money. I am tired of waiting. Any advice?

2007-05-29 12:52:06 · 7 answers · asked by Serenity 3

One of my best friends [recently, 2 days ago] admitted that he was married to his 1st cousin. Im not sure how I really feel about it. Known them for 7 years and they are so happy together

2007-05-29 12:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A dear friend of mine is scared to leave a bad marriage because he does not wish to be out on the streets and not able to see his son. I do not live in CA, but have been told it is a 50/50 state and although because the baby is breatfeeding would probably at first allow most custody to his wife, that eventually he will get 50% custody. He is a great father, just not a great partner with his wife. I have also been told it is a no fault state which makes things even easier. Anyone who knows firsthand, or has a good link (not so some lawyer's site) please respond. I am trying to do some footwork for him. Thanks!

2007-05-29 12:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by sweetsouth 3

My husband is a great guy about 98% of the time, he is a good father, good provider, great lover, great husband, etc. But there are a few things I hate:
When he is grumpy, sometimes it seems for no reason at all
he is ALWAYS mean and moody around my family. I barely see them because of him now. I know they are difficult but they are nice and do nice things for us for instance took the kids for us the whole weekend for free, and did he even say thank you? No, he grabbed them and didn't look any of them in the eye and was like sitting in the car waiting for me (jerk?) I mean I know he's tired and they talk alot but can't a NORMAL person say something like "I'm tired, thanks so much for taking the kids, I'm gonna take off and catch up with you when I'm not so tired?"

and,,,holidays he acts like a jerk too. So we had an excellent anniversary weekend. Now today it's our anniversary and he's being a jerk, maybe because he already gave me a nice weekend and doesn't have to be nice 2day?

2007-05-29 12:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a son that is 5 years old. I have had him in my custody since December 05'. His mother got incarcerated then and just recently got out. Before she went to jail (November 05') she filled for payroll deducted child support. I never payed since I had him in my care. Since then they have been taking all of my income tax return stating that it is what I owe for that year. I have called and called about this issue. They say in order to stop this I have to prove custody. I can not do this because I never went to court saying that I had custody.(Didnt know I needed too) Also she just received her first check of 2800.00 which they just took out of my 06 return. So I guess my question is: How do I go about proving custody? Do I have legal custody? What do I need to do? I have talked to lawyers but they give virtually no info on there intial free consultation. And can not afford outlandish prices they charge. Any advice much appreciated. I live in TN if state is issue for answer. Thanks

2007-05-29 11:56:40 · 10 answers · asked by Number 3 3

2007-05-29 11:49:50 · 31 answers · asked by golfergal 1

So I have to write a paper for a class and one of the main questions in the paper is: What is marriage, most fundamentally, for?

I would just like to know what others think about this question and get an idea of what you think.

Answer if you're married, single, divorced, what have you. Or even if you think there is no fundamental purpose, tell me why.

Thanks! :)

2007-05-29 11:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by rkn_lhw 1

Okay I am confused to say the least. I am married 26 and have been married for 8 years and we have children together. My husband and I married young I was 18 he was 21. We knew eachother for only 6 months. Our whole marriage has been a roller coaster. We fight alot. And there has been both physical and verbal abuse on both sides....but mostly his. He has a very bad anger problem. I dont feel in love anymore. But I feel selfish to leave because of the kids. We are no longer fighting. But we dont really act like we are married either. IE I dont think I am in love anymore after all the things we have been through. I love him but I am not in love with him. He says that is stupid because no one stays "in love". I dont feel like he appreciates me or the kids. And he is reluctant to change. I still care for him deeply and would never want to hurt him or see him hurt but I also want to be happy. We also have isues with his family...they are very demeaning to me and my family. I feel very stuck

2007-05-29 11:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 2

2007-05-29 11:25:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

a repeat of the last time, (he has some commitment phobia!). we split up 2 years ago and went our separate ways but i haven't been able to move on and he says he hasn't either, he says he still loves me and the feeling is mutual BUT we have come across a hitch, he don't like the fact that i was involved with someone else wen we weren't together. What i cant understand is, its ok for him but not for me! Anyway carrying on he tells me he might have another child out there and not sure if its his. I thought i was in the wrong for seeing someone else and still havin feelings for him, i stopped cause it felt wrong, but then he say he might have fathered another child, i don't understand how he cant see wrong in what hes telling me I'm not the only mother to his children!
Pt 2 nxt

2007-05-29 11:19:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Personally I don't feel that way, I think there are more important things to marriage than sex, but just curious as to what you all think.

2007-05-29 11:18:33 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

He hasn't paid in a couple of months and lives in Arizona, I live in michigan. If I file a complaint, can they take it out of his checks?

2007-05-29 11:18:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married many years. We enjoyed mutual oral sex from almost the first time we slept together. Recently, however, my wife has decided she doesn't want to give me any more oral sex, and she doesn't want me to give it to her either. When I asked why, she said it disgusted her to go near my genitals with her mouth, and she considered it a violation for me to do the same to her.

I'm still in shock. What's even more shocking, I'm starting to fantasise about looking elsewhere for oral pleasure. I love everything about my wife, except this, but I can't forget about it, as she clearly wants me to!

Can anyone suggest a way out of this impasse?

2007-05-29 11:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by Doos 1

I need to talk to someone about how to deal with this pain. I am still deeply in love with my ex. All the yahoo chat rooms seem to be pick up joints. where do nice pleople go to just talk about life and it's ups and downs

2007-05-29 11:11:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lived with my wife for three years. When we first met she was needy, clingy, emotional, jealous, quick tempered and would spend hours anguished over some imagined slight, such as "Someone has not returned my call I made 10 mins ago, they hate me". I told her that if she wanted us to go anywhere then she had to stop all this. It took a while but the next two years where fantastic and things went from strenght to strenght. WE got engaged, we have been married less than a month and she has gone straight back to the emotional mess she was years ago. I think I may have made a mistake....

2007-05-29 11:10:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep on thinking of her. I am happy when I am with her. When I am away from her, I am really sad. We've been together for 6 months already. I am 22 and she's 21. I miss her. When I am with her, I always hold her hand, or hold her close to me and kiss her. Is this love? When you are in love, how did you feel?

2007-05-29 11:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, I'm gonna married both of them. Am I your hero, guys? Common, be honest. It's every man's dream.

2007-05-29 10:48:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous