Marriage & Divorce - 31 May 2007

2007-05-31 23:30:50 · 22 answers · asked by vishwaa 1

Love your partner to bits but can't stand their snoring, wriggling, sleep-talking and bed-hogging? Join the club.

According to a 2006 survey conducted by The National Sleep Foundation in the U.S, 23 percent of couples - or one in five - sleep apart, ostensibly because of snoring and other sleep-related problems.

But is sleeping seperately good for your relationship or is it a sign of intimacy issues and a relationship on the rocks?

2007-05-31 23:10:17 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3

I lived the swinging lifestyle for years 8 to be exact,in LIFESTYLE, and now am paying the consequesis for the disisions of bad ideas!

My marriage to husband who swung with me is OVER because I wont join him again because my children protested so much that it became public knolegedge on what we did.

looking back now all I can do to justify my actions is say It was my right of choice!

I really don't understand it either because also looking back I never had an orgasim in it but it did FEED MY EGO, thats for sure!

Why do people who find this lifestyle so applealing including me?
Why did I do this to my family who now stands ASHMED of me?

Why do everyone say it alterintive to monagmoy, when infact it very unhealthy?

Do you know anyone who swung or is swinging would you inform them what it cost you or them?

This LIFESTYLE LOST ME MY CHILDREN, why?
This lifestyle is NOT DESEASE FREE if you must know even with papers I still got sevial STD's, healthy?
GET REAL!

2007-05-31 23:07:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl thats absesed with me but i dont like her and i kinda dont want to say anything to hurt her feelings so what so how do i tell a girl i dont like you without hurting there feelings

2007-05-31 21:59:55 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe G 1

2007-05-31 21:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by greatgal 2

here's a senerio. me & my husband have been together for 2 years. but we've only been married for 8 months.mine and his past hasn't been the greatest.however, since i've been with him i've completely changed my life around.and no matter if someone calls or i run into someone. he always makes a smart comment.like if i'm cheating on him.he's the only one the has ever made me feel like i'm doing something wrong.when in fact i'm not.i'm constantly letting him know that i wouldn't do anything to ruin our marrige.but, i know it doesn't register through him.i am now asking him almost every conversation that we have.if you couldn't trust me why then did we get married?the only answer he gives me is because i love you.well i feel that if you really love someone and your married you should be able tpo trust that person.right? well some answer this cuz i'm getting to the point of isolation.

2007-05-31 21:28:13 · 8 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2

here's a senerio. me & my husband have been together for 2 years. but we've only been married for 8 months.mine and his past hasn't been the greatest.however, since i've been with him i've completely changed my life around.and no matter if someone calls or i run into someone. he always makes a smart comment.like if i'm cheating on him.he's the only one the has ever made me feel like i'm doing something wrong.when in fact i'm not.i'm constantly letting him know that i wouldn't do anything to ruin our marrige.but, i know it doesn't register through him.i am now asking him almost every conversation that we have.if you couldn't trust me why then did we get married?the only answer he gives me is because i love you.well i feel that if you really love someone and your married you should be able tpo trust that person.right? well some answer this cuz i'm getting to the point of isolation.

2007-05-31 21:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2

My 8 kids won't say boo to me, they hate me and call me "DIRTY TRAMP" because their step father and I decited to try swinging!

I heard stuff like so if you get AIDS do you expect us to look after you after your stupid behavour !
This one really hurt we came through this world through that "HOLE" and now our fouling it!

Only 4 kids were her at house when I married their step father and most of the time they stayed at their fathers house but I really pushed to have my youngest son here with us!
When their step father hit him he told everyone and theeir step father recieved the a return on his hitting in spades! No one would allow him to hit anyone else so he knew better, until the day my youngest 16 at the time found out about us swinging!
We tried bribry, threats and husband finally through son against the wall and threaten him! Big mistake because my son had 3 Black belts at the time and he put husband in hospital cops came and we got outed and arrested for abuse on minor!

2007-05-31 20:51:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you are fast asleep and he can't sleep?

2007-05-31 20:39:23 · 46 answers · asked by jaygirl 4

Personality or circumstance?

2007-05-31 20:21:27 · 28 answers · asked by zail 3

What do you think about this people.My husbands an introvert and I'm an extrovert. He hardly ever talks . I'm emotional and very passionate about anything that interest me. Whether it romance or doing arts and crafts.My husband gets annoyed with me when I start talking about things that's emotional or serious . Or when something is really important and exciting for me .I become happy, expressive and very talkative. I'm always talkative not just then. He tries to tells me that their is something wrong with me and how I behave. He's always sitting there quietly judging me.. For about a year, during arguments (like when I caught him doing a search for hookers in our area) he's say that the reason that we were and do argue was because I was Bipolar.So I'd be arguing about that defend myself.I knew I wasn't . I went had had my self diagnosed so he would stop saying that.I was right and I'm not .Now when we fight he says that I need to see some one because I have a chemical imbalance

2007-05-31 20:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She only loves you because of what you can give her then eventually either she's taking you to court to split you in half or leaving you for a man with a bigger wallet.

They seek men for security and are ready to put them down if they struggle instead of help along the way. She wants a wealthy man to spoil her so she can shop all day and look good in his money. The type that is only a good woman because of somebody else's resources. She sees a nice car and nice cloths and all of a sudden she's capable of doing anything for you. She wants you to have potential, yet she has none of her own. She'll make you drunk with sex to make you forget she's useing you.

Work so hard to have your heart betrayed.

2007-05-31 19:58:28 · 25 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3

i don't understand how everytime i try to avoid arguing she still presses me to the point where she knows I am going to argue with her. she had the nerve to tell me she will put me out and still make me pay bills, yeah right! (talking about my fiance and me, she already had a son and we have one together, and in the process of moving in together and we got in a fight), I admit I was in the wrong but was it really worth taking it to as far as "I won't talk to you then! we can just live under the same roof and, you can take care your kid and I can take care of mine!" I love her so much but I just don't understand why when she gets mad she says things that she knows will hurt me horribly, is this normal for women? (No offense ladies) I know she loves me but why does she say these things? I really want to marry this woman but I don't know how much longer I can take this verbal abuse

2007-05-31 19:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by helplessnlove 1

2007-05-31 19:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by salil w 1

ok so my husband is in Iraq and i have two kids a boy and a girl. they are 2 and 4. they always ask me mommy when will daddy come home and i then just breakdown and cry. IDK what to tell them. what should i say. Will they understand? IDK i just need your help

2007-05-31 19:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Michelle S 1

Do you believe that there is a difference in "loving" and "being in love"? I don't. I think it is lusting for one more than another. Or, better to say, "I like you; but, I don't love you." What do you think?

2007-05-31 19:45:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is there shame in this ? Isn't it a safeguard against diseases and unwanted pregnancies ??

2007-05-31 19:41:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are both 32. We are celebrating our 5th anniversary in October. Everything between us is absolutely wonderful except for one issue that has been gnawing at us for the past 2-3 years or so. The problem is babies (simply put: she's ready for 'em, I'm not), and this problem doesn't just gnaw anymore - it is about to bite us in half. For years we've been having the same conversation: she asks what I think about kids, I say that I'm not ready right now, then some time later she asks "how about now?". Repeat We're both sick to death of the same answer that I give: "I'm not ready right now, but one of these days I will be." I don't mean to keep stringing her along, but I don't know what else to do. I DO believe I'll want kids someday, but I don't know when. I love her dearly - can't imagine wanting anything more than her. She said she loves me too, but she wants children more. Please help.

2007-05-31 19:33:46 · 25 answers · asked by Squiddy 1

I am married and been with my husband for more then a year now. A male friend of mine who is married too but far from his wife did seek my help to accompany him to process his passport in a government office.
I didn't seek my husband's approval. I just told him that he need not pick me up from work bec I had to help our friend and we have to drive to city. He didn't seem to mind at all.
On my part, I don't feel comfortable now being alone with the opposite sex other then my husband.
Is it still appropriate for me to be in that situation. I wonder what other husbands would feel in this situation.

2007-05-31 19:26:46 · 22 answers · asked by LIA 2

My wife of 18 years has cheated on me in the past and had certain behavior patterns during those times when as she put it "it was just a kiss", we separated 4 years ago when I caught her in the coffee shop with a man having breakfast, after a 8 hours in jail for disorderly conduct she left the house and 4 months later we were back together, it was pretty good until I started to detect the same behavior 3 months ago, so I left now I miss her (i must be sick) and I keep calling her,before i left she was explosive when i would question her as to why she is witholding love. She in fact had called me a control freak for 15 years but she tuned the tables when she left 4 years ago. when she came home I was kissing *** bigtime and she would "control" me or I should say she would display her power over me by withholding any affection. she uses this because she knows it tortures me. She still waers her ring, but she said dont bring flowers to my work anymore.she says we need to go slow.

2007-05-31 19:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or should both partners be in the mood and willing?
whats your opinion?

2007-05-31 19:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by :) 4

knowing the things you know now.

2007-05-31 18:41:42 · 30 answers · asked by ? 7

2007-05-31 18:41:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

she wants me to wait for her so that he can know what to do man!!! how do i act? y does she need time does she not want me no more? but then again we both do need to clear are mind!!! but i love her how do i handle it yo i need help?

2007-05-31 18:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by beautiful 1

2007-05-31 18:09:38 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1

2007-05-31 17:40:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently been diagnosed as having depression. I've been with my partner for three years and are scheduled to get married soon. Since my depression started I have been feeling differently towards her. I know she is for me and everyone tells me how lucky I'am. She is fantastic and i cant understand why i feel like this. Is depression the cause?

2007-05-31 17:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every is always saying "I divorced him for the right reason" and I must know, what is the "right" reason?

2007-05-31 17:01:18 · 28 answers · asked by Calicy 2

if couples look at porn, why do they have to hide it from each other? why can they not look, or watch together. isn't that how people learn new things anyway? i mean you don't have to get super freaky, but why can't women look and watch with them?

2007-05-31 17:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Amber 2

2007-05-31 16:53:23 · 25 answers · asked by lala p 1