Marriage & Divorce - 31 May 2007

I just don't like her ............she told my girls it will be okay to call her mommy!!

2007-05-31 16:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

one week ago my wife and i got into a fight and we have two children a 3 and a half year old and a 4 month old. in the fight she started throwing things and cussing at me and basically freaking out. the next morning before i went to work i found a note apologizing for the actions taken the night before. when all of this commotion was going on my son the 3 1/2 year old was saying mommy is mad at you. now one week later i was watching a pixar short film with no spouses and no arguing in them but with the plot someone was angry and my son said "their mommy is going to be mad at the daddy". i expressed my concern with him saying this and my wife said "well i haven't done anything to you today to make him think that way so it's not my problem." i am going to post this question and let her review the responses so i would like some serious but not malicious responses so maybe she might see from my perspective or perhaps i could find some ways to better handle the situation. thanks all!

2007-05-31 16:43:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. I loved him a lot but he betrayed me, cheated on me and lied the whole time we were together. Pretty nice eh?
This morning, I got a SMS asking how I was doing and that he thought of me.

My girlfriends tell me NOT to reply. I'm tempted to reply, to show him that I'm doing great and show him what he missed.
What should I do? Reply saying that I'm doing great? telling him that I missed him or just leave it?

Thank you!!

2007-05-31 16:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Lilly 1

My husbands ex wife has done everything on the face of the earth to make our lives miserable. I have from day one bent over backwards to be nice to her and take her feelings into account no matter how it hurt me. I have gone so far as to put her child before my own at times to help things out. Yet she still will not rest untill she makes our live hell. How do I not hate her and let it show around my step daugher?

2007-05-31 16:22:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand how he can bold face lie about stuff and when he gets caught, he acts like I should just forget it and move on... It stays with me. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I don't even know why he stays with me if he feels like he has to lie about porn, where he is, etc... Why does he stay with me?

2007-05-31 16:00:03 · 25 answers · asked by sugar 2

I know a girl by the name of Fay who has been dating a married man for some time know. But the man did'nt want his wife to find out about it. ofter Fay have been having sex with the married man for a while he started to drift away from her. He has 2 boys and a girl by his wife. He promise Fay that he will never break her heart because he would'nt want another man to break this daughters hearts. What do you all think??

2007-05-31 15:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have not legally been divorced, and they have not talked since seperating.

2007-05-31 15:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by Carl G 1

gender? age?

(survey)

2007-05-31 15:38:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just can't seem to grasp who I am alone....Anyone else go through this ?

2007-05-31 15:34:26 · 18 answers · asked by EvelynMine 7

2007-05-31 15:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Dia 3

We have a wonderful 8-month-old son and as you can imagine life for us has changed quite a bit since his arrival. I do understand that my wife must be experiencing a whole range of new emotions and responsibilities for the first time, as am I, but since his birth she has become a completely different person. It is like she has only so much love to give, and because most of it now goes to our son, there is hardly any left over for me. She is so cold to me, hardly ever asks how my day was, barely even greets me when I arrive home - doesn't kiss me to say hello or goodbye. It doesn't matter how much I do to help, it never seems to be enough and she seems to be always angry with me. Sex is non-existent these days, but that's not everything to me, I can cope. She barely talks to me at all. I feel like I'm doing everything wrong, it's like I can do nothing right. What hope do I have to resolve this? I love her so much, but now it's almost one-sided. Can anyone offer me advice?

2007-05-31 15:21:47 · 39 answers · asked by I'mInUrNet 1

we've been married for since April last year...

2007-05-31 15:13:57 · 10 answers · asked by Rina 1

2007-05-31 15:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by tannerlady 4

2007-05-31 15:08:54 · 11 answers · asked by best_28_seconds_she_ever_had 2

I am 32 years old, happily married for 5 years, have 2 kids, my husband is a very loyal and loving person. I am a postgrad student and found myself to have a crush over a "genius" professor of my faculty. He is about 55+ years old,
simply its clear that theer is no sexual fantasy I am having, the problem is, whenever I meet him, I feel tears in my eyes, trembling and suffocating..........all the teen love symptoms!
I want to get rid of it, i try to avoid his paths, he treats me as a student, there is nothing from his side, I have small crushes previously, and I know how to tackle these. But this time, its something different!
I feel so guilty about it, feels like I am deceving my husband.
Anyone has any suggestions? Its been there for 6 months.

2007-05-31 14:53:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in shape all my life. A lot of people compare how I look to that of Angelina Jolie so I know I am not unattractive. Guys still hit on me even though I am married. But I can count within both hands the number of times my husband & I have had sex in the last year. Remarkably after 3 yrs of talking about it I did get prego, 7 mos now. I haven't lost my shape at all, from the back I still have an hour glass figure-& my chest is really quite large: 34DDD, so my body is still small - plus my belly isn't that big:we've talked about having sex & enjoying each others company-he gets that it won't hurt me or the baby & that it is a healthy activity.
This has obviously been going on since before I got prego-I really need some advice. My husband looks at porn online a lot, usually when he thinks I'm in bed asleep. I have told him the porn bothers me, I am no prude, mind you-how am I to compete with it? He gets emails & he writes the girls back, I'm married but you r hot!
Help!

2007-05-31 14:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. One month after our three year anniversay, he left. He said that he just did not believe that he wanted to be married anymore. We have had our fair share of "arguements" but nothing that horrible. His problem is that he has lied to me since we've been together about little things. I did find out that he cheated (supposedly an isolated incident) about two years ago. He asks me to wait and just give him time, but he has been gone almost 2 months, but still makes daily contact with me. I am not sure if I should just go ahead and throw in the towel.

2007-05-31 14:44:28 · 15 answers · asked by cathy c 2

I live in Las Vegas where people generally decide on who to marry based on 95% for looks and 5% convenience (who is there at the moment). Many marriages here end in divorce.

I believe that you should know you're in love based on 75% for looks and tone of voice, 10% for personality, and 15% for family background, ethnicity, and religion.

How do you think that you can tell that you're in love?

2007-05-31 14:33:55 · 13 answers · asked by Rupert 1

your husband/wife, bf/gf or significant other, would you EVER cheat on them?

If you're the one being cheated on could you.....
A. Forgive them
B. Stay with them
C. Trust them again

Would it matter to you and your decision to stay in the relationship if it was a 1 night stand or an emotional & physical relationship that lasted some time?

Upon discovering an affair would you want to know the depth of it or do you believe that any form of cheating is enough to end the relationship?

Thanks for your time & input

2007-05-31 14:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 14:09:34 · 13 answers · asked by sugarfree 2

I have gone to the cops...they do nothing. I have gone to the local government...they do nothing. I went to local crime watch...they do nothing.

2007-05-31 14:01:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been very unhappy since three months after our marriage in 9/2005. I've told my husband a number of times that I want a divorce. Last July I moved out when our lease was up and I had to sneak to do it. He reeled me back in by asking for help with getting an apartment and then a truck, because his credit is bad.
I eventually moved back in, because he's not as good as keeping up with bills. I feel trapped and manipulated.

2007-05-31 13:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here 's thing ,we got married frist time no big ceremony and celebration.So , we want to have family and friends celebrate our marriage. We are going to have wedding and cerebrate with friends and family.To do all the church thing we need marriage license, since we arealdy have one, I don't know if it OK to apply marriage license again but in another county? Some one help answer me? PLEASE!!!!

2007-05-31 13:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by millet2 1

Me and my ex husband is going thourgh divorce.... and we have a 5 year old child......i want my child to be with me and he wants him as well...... what does the law say ....that who should keep the child .... does first chose comes to mother of the child or father......?

help me plz ..... or i need to take a lawyer ?

2007-05-31 13:20:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you broke up with your boyfriend and moved out of his house and got back together 3 mo later and now currently married would you tell him everything that happened while you are gone.

2007-05-31 13:10:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you all noticed a decline in the way marriage is viewed among the American population? Is it just me, or do people not take marriage as the sacred union it is, as people once did? My grandfather was once asked by my mother, "How do you handle Grandma?" And he simply replied, "Because I made her a promise." I'll never forget that! What happened to that dedication? Why do you feel the way you feel?? Thanks!

2007-05-31 13:04:35 · 21 answers · asked by Impavidsoul 5

talk to him? He just calls up out of the blue like nothing... I told my current husband about it, and he seemed a bit pissed, and I cant tell if it was at me or just the situation...

2007-05-31 12:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Rebekah G 2

2007-05-31 12:37:23 · 17 answers · asked by giggly33 2

he works across the street from me , and i've had lunch with him twice. the second time he called me and asked if i would like to have lunch with him.i did. i'm very attracted to him , and we talk about once a week.he's smart , has beautiful eyes , and i enjoy being with him.we've never gone any place together other then having lunch in the work place.is that wrong? i would consider us friends that like each others company.

no hostile answers please, just honest opinions.

2007-05-31 12:35:35 · 15 answers · asked by pitbullmom 3

2007-05-31 12:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki 3