Marriage & Divorce - 28 May 2007

2007-05-28 23:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by KS 4

to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, till death do you part; as long as no one uses your privates as a gym but your spouse?

2007-05-28 22:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems that a lot of women are only looking for a "sugar daddy" or the STUPID "ganaster" type males. Do women even care about manners and "old fashioned values"? This is not directed to all women, but just wanted to know if any still existed.

2007-05-28 22:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by drew 4

2007-05-28 22:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by carol r 1

2007-05-28 21:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by carol r 1

I cheated on my wife over a year ago and she found out last April. I moved out or rather, got kicked out and have been out of my house for over a year now. I apologized numerous times in the beginning and I truly, truly, truly feel anguish like nobody knows. I miss my wife so much it hurts me everyday...I miss my kids. But mostly, I feel extreme anguish and pain also because I love my wife with all my soul......I don't know what to do....She proceeded with divorce papers over 6 months ago but she never finished the whole process. I was actually at her lawyers office with her to discuss the legalities of a divorce, visitation rights and how much I would end up paying for child support.
We get along right now, but I think about that awful day each and every day and I would do whatever it takes to tell my wife that I made the biggest mistake anyone could ever make on the one they love....Someone......anyone....please help....I'm lost and I need help....I want my wife. I love her.

2007-05-28 21:20:10 · 36 answers · asked by ponch06 1

2007-05-28 21:10:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbor goes to a nearby city to buy Viagra for her husband who cannot perform. He is 20 years older than her. She is overweight with long frizzy hair, flab, cellulite and rotten teeth. Should I suggest she save her money and reveal the source for her husband's non-performance? Or, should I stay out of it?

2007-05-28 20:53:36 · 12 answers · asked by LAgirl 3

Generally marriages have many functions but in general people do no like it convenient to have more than two functions but for prestige sake they go for many ones. s that a social evil , irrespective of religion or community ? Is there any reasonable reform is required i a poor country like India ? In Punjabi marriages the so called many MEHENDI parties look like something unnecessary things . Am I right ?

2007-05-28 20:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not one of those perverted question about "how old were you when you lost your virginity"

It's just simply, how old were you when you met your husband/wife and started going out? Also where did you meet and how did the initiation of dating happen?

2007-05-28 20:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-28 19:46:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is having an affair should I drop the bomb on her Husband when he gets back from Iraq?

2007-05-28 19:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband works from 6am-8pm sometimes longer. I know that we CAN NOT afford a babysitter because we can't even pay most of our bills. We have no one to watch my son who is 2 yrs old. plus school is letting out for the summer in about two days. I have 3 kids in school. What can I do? HELP! We have bills to pay. And even a student loan.

2007-05-28 18:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think about sex, and weather it should be inside a marriage, or can they be outside a marriage? Are there any special circumstances where it is acceptable? Please tell me all about your point of view, and why you think that way. Also if you are a Christian, or believe in God, please tell me. Thanks guys.

2007-05-28 17:54:37 · 29 answers · asked by Amy P 2

2007-05-28 17:39:41 · 36 answers · asked by rashomon 2

Hey Everyone,my hubby and I are married for 5 years. He is in the military and has been through many deployments before he met me. In 10/06 he deployed to Iraq. I had a bad feeling about it but my hubby kept reassuring me that everything would be fine. He was just home on R&R, left yesterday. Before he left he told me there was something he wanted to tell me. He said he is dreaming about getting shot. He said he had this dream already before he deployed, but it was just a blurry vision. He said since he is in Iraq he has this dream every night and the pictures become clearer every night. I tried to reassure him that everything will be fine and he will be back soon but he just smiled at me and said he wont come back. I was shocked. I know he had some pretty close calls within the last months but I didnt expect him to say that. He said he didnt wanted to worry me but thats how he feels. Iam so scared, all I am thinking about is what he told me. I dont know what to do, can someone help me

2007-05-28 17:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have had this problum before. We went to a church and they basicly gave him the 3rd degree and told him sex was wrong b4 u r married. Well now almost a year after being told that and me being a sex crazed ninfo having to beg for sex from my own man for a year we are married. We just got married may 26, and well we haven't had sex for 2 weeks b4 we got married and yet here it is the 29th and we still haven't had sex. Yes i had my period on the night of our wedding but it ended yesterday and he still doesn't want to have sex with me. I just don't understand.....How can a guy not want sex. We have been together for 4 years and married for a few days and this sucks his sex drive has gone down hill WAY DOWN HILL only this past year. I blame it on that dam church he was going to. But now he isn't going and he still doesn't want sex. I'm lost. We used to have sex all the time even when we split for a few months just moved away from eachother...We had sex like there was no tomarrow.But now?

2007-05-28 17:09:56 · 36 answers · asked by knj_7142003 1

lf a spouse can't have sex due to an illness, can the marriage survive?

2007-05-28 16:32:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think if U are married or bf/gf living together, that who ever makes dinner that the other person is obligated to provide the dessert, (U know what I mean ) LOL
Dont U? That way U always come out a WINNER!!!!

2007-05-28 16:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do I do?

2007-05-28 16:15:33 · 22 answers · asked by mustluv50 1

I have often thought of ways to end my life...is this normal?

2007-05-28 16:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by katienys 1

of trying so hard to get my husband to pay more attention to me. I feel like i am the only one that makes any effort in our marriage to make things exciting. I have changed a lot to please him, but nothing works. We have been married a long time and im just giving up. Why doesnt he understand how much i love him and want him to make more of an effort to make me feel loved?. And Yes i have talked to him about this...........to many times to count.

2007-05-28 15:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never hear my wife says thank you.she never happy what i do?maybe i cant do much things.but i try my best but i never be enough always something was wrong or missing.where i grow up is male is dominant.man is never do house jobs .man works bring money.woman is does the house job .but where im living is differetn then i used to.and my wife is making more then me .i changed so much for her.i cook for her cuz she is not good with that.i like to cook no matter for who.she never eats same thing twice,very rare.i try my best in the house for cleaning she never happy,so i try my best . still not enough for her.she chooses what is true or wrong.like i dotn have brain i dont know what is good or not. anyway she decides can i go out or not or what time can i come.even when im going toilet she asks where are you going?how i grow up woman cant even do anything with out asking ,but me still for her i take this listen .she never says naything good ,at least i never heard.pls tell me where is my mi

2007-05-28 15:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's really stressed out about it and i dont know what to say to help him.
suggestions?

2007-05-28 15:41:08 · 23 answers · asked by :) :) :) :) 2

My son has 2 kids by 2 different women. He pays child support regularly. He can't afford to get an apartment, he lives with his parents. He only makes 11.00 an hr. and pays out 190 a week on the 2. This seems like alot more than he should pay. I believe in supporting your children, but without his dad and me he would live under a bridge or worst. Rent is expensive, plus having to eat, pay on a car and gas. Can he have his case re-evaluated? One of the women has never worked a lick. I don't need any lectures. It depresses me deeply, I love him and wish he could be on his own and so does he. One of them drug up and moved to Florida, he can't even afford to drive and see his little girl, he is heartbroken.

2007-05-28 15:39:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-28 15:31:05 · 15 answers · asked by JustWondering 1

Im a married women but before Ive always felt carious being with another women, Ive try it one time when I was not married but I did not felt confortable cause I felt scared it was my fisrt time but never did it again, I got married I alway felt that and still do. I love my husband But I would like to have a fantacy but Im scared and Im scared to tell him. And no body knows and dont want nobody to know. I feel by carious pls help me wat to do. Do you think is wrong feeling way ? tell me honestly.

2007-05-28 15:21:54 · 3 answers · asked by 218* 2

im writing a paper about marriage as a sacrament and i just cant put it into words.. ive been researching and researching and i cannot find one single source that tells me straight up why it is a sacrament under Catholic belief. can someone thoroughly explain? (but a little bit straight to the point)

2007-05-28 15:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was the worst decision I've/we've ever made. I am 27 and he is 29 and we wanted kids, but in a couple years, as our jobs our demanding and we wanted to travel before having a baby. We thought long and hard, and adoption would've been impossible b/c I hear once you see your baby you can't give him/her up.

So, we decided on abortion. I didn't feel anything after the procedure was finished, even a week after I felt nothing.But recently (it's been about 2 months since) I've been immensly depressed, as has my husband.

We don't even communicate anymore, and he has continously been taking days off of work, he cries occasionally. We haven't had sex since, not even kissed, barely even touched each other.

So, I'm asking, what can we do? I can't imagine counseling would make things better. I can't fathom that anyone knows how terrible we feel. I had not the slightest clue an abortion would take such a mental toll on BOTH of us.

Please help. Thanks.

2007-05-28 14:43:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband 12 years and I are always looking to spice up our sex life together without offending ourselves or other people!

We went to many swing party's but never participated in sex, honestly, more then either could handle ,Hell it was SICK to be honest!

Thursday night my husband had us go to a sex EDUCATION Session, I will admit it was great!
She talked about the health of sex as well as healthy attitudes toured partner!
She even talked about Hygiene, pregnancy & many other things! best $250 husband ever spent on us I say PROUDLY!

She had us privately try a few things & WOW their goes the roof!

we got 8 (2k) more to go ,and looking forward to them through one of the interesting things she talks about is that we're mammals were human with all the emotional strings attached told us, she believes in monogamy because when you share sex with others it will get messy enough said!

I honestly think a class like this should be mandatory for newlyweds!
What you think?

2007-05-28 14:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous